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There is an airmen who decided late last year that she wanted to split from her husband. In her state, there is no legal separation. What happens is you have to live apart for at least a year, then you can file for divorce. It turns out the reason she wanted a divorce is because there was an emotional affair, and she is already living with this other man with her daughter (which is not her current husband's). The husband is deployed and did not know about the man until confronting her very recently due to others seeing them together. She admitted, without remorse, to the whole thing. She did the same thing to her last husband, refusing to finish the divorce process with living with and sleeping with other men openly. She was not discreet in the past, and she is not discreet now. They go places together, including her daughter's school activities. I have been told by several people that technically this is something that can/should be reported to the military police on base. Is that true? And if so, will they actually care at all, or will they just tell me that in spite of the rules, no one gives a crap about cheating military spouses anymore? And just so no one gives me the answer that it's ok because they separated, I've done my research and it's still adultery. And yes, it can be proven.

I know someone in Maryland who has had some trouble with being pulled over for lack of registration and has been ticketed for driving on a suspended license. The second time he was pulled over, he was ticketed for once again having a suspended license and not having insurance. He was put on supervised probation. In Feb, he was once again caught driving on a suspended license. This is the third time. What are the odds he will get jail time this time around? His first offense was in 2012, and as far as I know, the reason for suspension was not DUI. He's not a friend, just someone I know, but what happens to him affects me, so I'm curious to know.

This is NOT a personal question; just a question of curiosity spurred by an article I read yesterday. I have heard often of single women who had babies and put down a father on the birth certificate without his knowledge or him being present. From what I understand, that s mostly not legal anymore. How long ago was it that a woman could name whoever she wanted as the father without his input? If you could name sources, that would be epic. I ve had trouble finding any.

I know there are some things that one would be surprised can affect security clearance. If someone who has top secret security clearance in the air force goes through multiple divorces, does that throw up any red flags? Can that trigger an investigation of their clearance?

If someone files a report with the police, does that automatically mean a criminal case has been opened? Or do you have to be arrested or charged in order to have a criminal case? As in, if police choose not to act on the report due to lack of evidence or ridiculousness, was there never a criminal case?

My husband's ex filed a petition to modify custody where she claimed my husband has a juvenile record of sexual assault, but that it's sealed. No such incident occurred. Is there some kind of documentation he can get that shows he has no juvenile record, sealed or otherwise? We've been able to come up with evidence against other claims she's made, but this one is difficult.

Making this as short as possible- My husband's ex filed a petition to modify custody. She wants sole legal custody with supervised visits only. In the petition, she stated that he had done certain things that she was witness to. We have solid proof that said things did not happened and that the events are fabricated. We will use this evidence in family court. That is not my question. My question is this: Any chance we can have her charged criminally with perjury since we can prove she is lying? Again, I know it's rare, just wondering if possible.

My husband was charged with injury to a child in Texas earlier this year. But with lack of evidence (as my husband didn't do it) the DA has yet to take it to the grand jury. In the meantime, my husband, who is a very good man and has never had trouble with the law, has an open criminal case hanging over his head. I keep reading that the DA has the duration of the statute of limitations to take the case to the grand jury. That would be five years... Do we potentially have to hold our breaths for five years, waiting to see if he's going to have to go to court? That seems so wrong to me. And before you tell me to ask an attorney, we have one. I have called and left message after message asking them to have the attorney or one of his assistance call me back to let me know the answer to my question, but have yet to get the answer, so I was hoping someone here might have an idea. My husband has a daughter from a previous marriage, and she is trying to use the criminal charges to have his legal custody taken away, as well as to force him to have only supervised visits through the duration of the case. This could seriously screw with his life even more than it has. How long do we have to just wait?

My husband's ex has top secret clearance in the air force. She is currently violating their custody agreement by refusing to send their daughter out for his five weeks of visitation for the summer. I know the military often enforces child support orders, but what about child custody orders? We would love to take her to court for contempt, but are flat broke, so we were hoping to find another route. If they are willing to help enforce, how do we figure out who to tell? We know where she's stationed, but no specifics such as unit, and there's no way she'd give us that info.

Since the details of the cps case are irrelevant to the question, I will not go into detail. We have a doctor able to testify that there is a medical explanation for injury that CPS is choosing to ignore. We have an attorney and we are working with her on the incident, but I would like some input. The injury happened when the baby was alone with my husband. My husband told them so, detailing the exact moment injury occured. However, the investigator told me I was also under investigation because the reason my husband was caring for the baby was because I had been tired, and she wanted to make sure our children were with "healthy" people. I was told if I did not sign a parenting plan agreeing to be supervised, she would take my children from the home. For a month and a half, I could not be alone with my children, so we brought people in to live with us. When I got up to feed my baby at night, I had to wake up our designated supervisor so they could WATCH me feed my baby. After the investigation was over, I was told that I was going to receive a decision of "ruled out" for abuse. A new parenting plan was outlined where I finally could be alone with my children. However, I never received my letter of decision from CPS. Our attorney contacted them to inform them of the oversight, only to find out I had never been under investigation. My question is can I take legal action against CPS for LITERALLY PRETENDING I was under investigation?

On Tuesday, around 4 am, my husband was getting our 5 week old son out of his swing. It's a very normal, nondescript swing. When getting him out, my husband had one hand supporting his upper back/head, and the lower he put under our son's bottom. Baby squirmed my husband ended up with his leg in his hand instead of his rump. He heard a pop, so we immediately went to the hospital. X-rays showed a spiral fracture of his femur. We were shocked. My husband did not apply near enough pressure to break a bone. Of course, CPS does not agree. Even though there is no evidence of any abuse to any of our children, not so much as a bruise, we are being threatened with removal of our children and possible jail time. So my question is this: Does anyone know what possible bone problems could be behind it? He is growing extremely fast. Can rapid growth attribute to fractures? We know my husband did nothing wrong, and are worried that there's something wrong with our son to cause him to be injured so easily. Any advice on infant bone health would be most appreciated. We're in a pretty bad position.