Jenn H

Sooo I've liked this Libra guy since basically the first time I saw him. But the problem was that I was dating his friend. My past bf and I had a good connection in the sense of liking each other and getting along, but this Libra blew me away with his intellect, creativity, and depth.

A lot of times it felt like we had this weird mental connection of liking the same stuff, having the same tastes, discussing things for a long time. I never experienced that with the guy I was with.. it was a pretty shallow relationship where I was doing the initiating in almost everything.

So my ex and I broke up mutually, I'd say 60% him and 40% me. I knew it was the right thing to do, and told him I felt empty being with him, when the reality was, I was in love with his friend. And couldn't stand to fake a relationship anymore.

My question is.. I know it might be wrong for us to ever initiate anything considering the circumstances.. But how do I stop thinking about him? I can't get him off my mind. I know everyone says not to pick a situation that could cause drama, over the millions of other guys out there. But every time I like a new guy, I find myself comparing them to this one. Any tips on how to stop myself from going there mentally/emotionally? I really wanna move on since it won't go anywhere.

I go to college in Los Angeles and I'm really over the whole city. My college is okay but I'm just not into the scene here at all and wish I could move somewhere more down-to-earth and more nature-based, where people are more chill and genuine and not obsessed with the next party, movie screening, and all that other fake ****. Any recommendations?

there's this really cute guy who i always see around campus. i saw him last year a lot, like EVERYWHERE i went. never sure if he noticed this too, but i could swear that his friends were delusional and seemed to think that i'd been following him or something, because i felt like his friends or he would look at me and laugh. maybe i'm crazy.

this year, i see him more and more. we've been in situations where we COULD have talked, but hes either with a friend or on the phone or working in an office. i even saw him at an appointment with a counselor who he was also going to see at the exact same time, and he let me go first, but instead of talking to me he just was like "i have some reading to do" and went and sat by himself and read a book... yet when we've been in the same place, hes tried to talk to me but seems nervous or like fumbles his words or speaks very fast. what is up with this guy? would it be weird if i bring up that i see him all the time? or should i just ignore it

I have the option of studying abroad in several places, and the ones I'm most interested in are Tuscany and Paris. But the location with the best fulfillment of the credits I need is in Bonn, Germany. I'm not too sure about Germany as a place I would wanna spend so much time in... What's Bonn like, specifically?

I'm a great driver and my family says that for my age, I drive very well. However for some reason, when I am getting tested on the Driver's Test (behind the wheel, I have my permit) I get very nervous and jittery... the feeling of being tested makes me drive poorly. not horribly, but not as well as i usuall do. Is there a specific dmv in California where the instructors are not as intimidating? i really need to pass because i am a great driver and the area around my school requires a car to get around...

What is it like being in a pre-law program? Are the LSATS super hard? i was thinking of asking a district attorney to take me around with them on a typical day of activities... how challenging is a legal education? is it more writing oriented or do you have to know every detail of the law to be successful?

I have a free ticket for anywhere in the United States and I wanna go somewhere relaxing in the wintertime

I'm interested in buying a used car soon, and i was hoping for something like a mustang or chevy thats more vintage, but people are saying they arent reliable. what used cars are the least problematic? any advice would help