Joshua

I'm currently putting 50 a week into my sons savings and spending the rest on games/wood for projects. Although I'm sure there's better choices to do with 50 quid

How hard would it be to put I to effect a law that only allows you to try to conceive every other year and once every 5 years per family. Sure some cases would happen due to rape ect but they could be dealt with. The age to have sex should be brought up aswell as needing to have a stable job. I can't say much I had my son at 20 but I think if stricter laws were in place he may not be here. But I'm so happy he is he's a god sent.

I'll cut this as short as possible. I'm engaged to the most supportive woman alive I have an amazing 4 year old son but I have choices.

My mother has agrophobia (can't leave the house) alcoholism, she's been through watching her family fall apart due to an ex husband killing several people in drug related scenes. I'm not saying alcoholism is justified but understandable. I've managed to get her to leave the house and take walks up the local woods with my son (sober) and hang washing out when I'm not there. But this is 5 years of emotional support. I'm the only person who can/will care for her. But it's getting to the point where I've lost my friends as she's more important, I quit my job last year as she turned suicidal and moved in with her but the progress has been jumped back so far since he's been released from prison early. He turned up at the house aggressive when I wasn't there and she hasn't left the house since (just over a year) I've hunted him down and basically told him that was his one escape. He knows there won't be another. 

I know it's not selfish but I cannot join the military as I've wanted to do before my son was born until I know she's OK. But I cant get support from the government and if I leave I know I'll basically be killing her. I have my own life to live but I cant leave my mother. Sorry that wasn't short at all and there's still so many details to add