Hadley the Badger

"You have my heart", I would think it's obvious what it means but I would like to see what others think.

I've known this girl for nearly a year but we really never got to know each other until recently. I'm not sure why she's taken an interest in me now. I think she's always been interested but she never acted on it, because she revealed that she likes to lurk on my social media. (I learned this from our conversations.) I don't want to assume anything?

1) She stayed up till 4am just to talk to me. I apologized about keeping her up. She responded with "Stop that,if I wanted to sleep I would've already, I wanted to talk to you okay?"

2) Things gotten more personal, she'd ask me about my personal life/opinions. I told her that sometime in the future I'd make a trip down there, and she was excited about it. She compliments me, she said that she finds me "different."

3) Shamelessly flirts with me, I'm not sure she's this way with anyone else but she has told me that she has always struggled with temptation. However, I told her that she seems like the type of person who likes attention but only wants it from certain people. I think she's implying I'm one of the few.

4) Whenever we snapchat each other, she has no inhibitions at all. She'd send me really suggestive pictures. I usually try to change the conversation to a safer topic or just end up calling it a night.

I plan on visiting the dealership and test driving this vehicle. It has a high amount of miles (76k) and the asking price is 23k. I printed the full Carfax report. The report itself is clean, it had three owners over the course of 5 years. What can I negotiate with the dealer? (I don't plan on walking out with the keys today).

This would be my first time buying a vehicle on my own. Considering the fact I'm young, female and in the military, car dealerships take advantage of that.

I have this friend where we'd flirt with each other I didn't think anything of it because she's pretty friendly and outgoing. I assumed she was this way with all her friends.

Although, there are times I wonder if there was more to the flirting and conversations we have. Because I pick up a vibe that normal friends wouldn't say or do the things we say to one another.

Recently, I asked her if I could use one of her photos for a reference for an art piece and I complimented how one of them showcases her face really well. She responded with "you make me shy," what could that mean?

We also don't live near each other so I have no way of knowing how she is in person.

I'm currently in a LDR with a wonderful Aries woman. Our relationship is young, we've only dated for nearly 3 months. We mostly text and call each other, loads of chemistry despite the fact that I'm a Virgo-Libra cusp. We haven't met yet, but we plan to.

Anyways, is it normal for them to ignore you? Everything was fine when we last talked. Out of nowhere she stops talking to me for a week. This isn't like her. I've sent 2 messages and called a few times to see if she's okay, no response. I assumed she lost her phone or she's busy. After a week, I manage to get a hold of her through a friends phone but she quickly ignored me, now I know her phone is working. I've sent her 2 messages and still no response. Maybe I'm coming off as needy/clingy and she wants space? I don't know what to do, I don't want to lose her.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for two months, it's a long distance relationship. We've been texting nearly every day, calling here and there. It's been nearly 4 days since I've heard from her. It's not like her to not contact me via text or call. I'm worried since I don't have any other way of contacting her.

Or am I overthinking? She's lost her phone before and I'm hoping it's that. What should I do?

Hi, I'm currently in DEP and wondering if it would be okay to just order a service branch or my name, on a name tape to put onto my bag. Is there any regulations for civilians? I just don't want to offend servicemen or look like a poser.

Thanks in advanced.

There are a set of Volks TE37SL's that I am looking to possibly buy but I want to make sure they are the real deal before buying them. I know with the original TE37's their valve stems don't line up and they have stickers inside the wheels etc. I don't know if the same rules apply to the SL's.

Here are some links for the pictures. They were initially a pressed graphite colour before he powdercoated them. They are 17x7.5 et40.

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Thanks in advance!

I have multiple questions regarding wheel fitment for my car, 2012 civic ex coupe. It has a 1.2-1.5 inch drop.

I'm thinking of either getting a set of 17x9 +38 or 18x8.5 +38 wheels. Which will fit better without any fender rolling?

Thank you for your time!

I don't know how I should deal with this, I want to see some outside insight on this.

Alright, there's this girl that I was talking to. We really hit it off at first. We'd talk a lot in the beginning I pick up the vibe that she's a private person though so when we talk its restrained. After awhile she was more comfortable. Now not so much. At first she'd apologize for not texting back. Now I'm the only one initiating the conversations. My responses tend to be longer while hers become short and terse, as if she has become bored. It has become one sided. She works long hours so I understand but before she'd make an effort it's non-existent now.

This distance began when were talking one night and she was messing around about asking if I had a crush on her. She probably knows that I do. There will be subtle hints that she could feel the same way. But since then the conversations have become sparse. I'm afraid that she has lost interest and I really don't want that because I like her now its not just a crush. I don't want to send a lot of messages and make it seem like I'm overbearing or clingy.

Alright, I have a gotten myself into a predicament with the law. Sometime in early August I received my first speeding ticket in a different county but I chose to pay the fine since the court was 3 hours away from where I live. My next ticket I received was a month later, he told me to call the courthouse to find out how much the fine was or just go to court. I learned my lesson but obviously not in the eyes of the law I have to prove it.

Anyways, I'm not sure if I'm eligible for traffic school since I received a violation within the 18 month period I also heard that they don't give you that option if you speed past 10mph I went 14mph over. I have no idea how traffic court operates at all, I have no qualms in paying my fines but I do not want the points on my record. How should I plea in court? When should I ask about traffic school before the judge?

Thank you, in advanced!

I know there's a lot more to a person than their astrological sign, but I am curious as to why I always butt heads with this person. One minute they can be the nicest person, then turn into Satan's incarnate. Please help? It'd be nice to be friends with them.

My sign:

Virgo sun

Aries moon

Sagittarius rising

Her sign:

Aries sun

Pisces moon

Cancer rising

Alrightee, I'm mostly curious how I'll get along with this person based off our signs but I'm not gonna solely base it on them.

My rising sign is Sagittarius,sun Virgo,moon Aries.

As for this person, their sun sign is Scorpio, Aries moon and ascendant is Capricorn.

Thank you!

I've recently purchased a laptop for college since my last one short circuited. I'm mainly using it for workstations and graphical designing with some gaming on the side. Is it capable of all that? If there is any other laptops you guys recommend it'd be helpful.

It's a Samsung Chrono 7 (700Z5B-S01) it was on sale for $850 from $1000.

Specs:

Intel Core i7 2675Q M

15.6 LCD

VRAM: AMD Radeon HD 6490M

8GB of memory

HDD 1TB

6MB on lvl 3 Die

2.20 GHz

Backlit keyboard/built in speakers

3 3.0 USB's and 1 2.0

Thank you!

This question isn't about me but it's about my niece and her parents. I basically live with them and its rather easy to observe what goes on. I'm not her parents so I can't interject. Anyways, I notice that they demand really daunting things out of their daughter never the eldest son. She's a really good student, valedictorian candidate and is really independent and has a job manages her money well etc. Doesn't go out and club or anything that kids her age do. They yell at her when she doesn't get her homework finished at a certain time which is hard when she works late. Berating her is really common too they say "why can't you amount to anything?" or "you're so stupid". Wild accusations are usually targeted towards her. She used to be able to talk to them but its becoming increasingly harder for her just to even have small talk. Their reputation is everything to them, at a small gathering she tripped over something and they blamed her for not sleeping enough. Because she tries to finish her homework and get home from work. She wants to major in Art, they encouraged her at first then told her that she won't "make any money." I find that ironic when they're the ones that withdrawal countless amounts of money from her account to pay for who knows what. They also threaten and actually take her phone away and sometimes her car that she makes payments on. She loves them not because there her parents but she believes that she's a bad kid its taking a toll on her.

I really don't know what their deal is but there's no reason to handle things like they do. She only trusts me and her elder brother isn't around and her friends are usually only school friends. I want to help but I feel like that's disrespectful and coming in between something that I shouldn't be involved in. Any advice how handle this?

It's a formal ceremony, I'm planning on wearing a white knee length dress . The issue is the shoes.

I really want to wear my combat boots with them but I feel like that's informal and the instructors will bust a ball about them.

Which kinds of shoes should be okay? Also no flats but I don't want to wear heels either well anything higher then 2-3 inches.

Thanks.

Thinking about getting a side cut/under cut but is there any pro's and con's to it since I can't really think of atm.

Also the profile pic is myself, I had a slight side cut but I want to go all the way this time maybe.

So what do guys think? Yay or nay? Thanks.

This is going to be a long story, but I just need a few opinions.

This is cliche, I have these two friends the first girl Alyssa I had recently found out she likes me but she's in a rocky relationship with her long term boyfriend. She has never been with a girl before. She says I'd be the one she'd be with if she breaks up with her boyfriend, however that could be misleading and I don't want to be a rebound. I like her a lot, because I feel like she needs someone that she doesn't have to constantly be worried and paranoid about. Then again I'm treading on broken glass since she's in a relationship I don't wanna mess with that also there are many mixed signals.

With that on my mind I tried to move on y'know? The situation looked bleak. Now I met this girl who's new and she's giving off vibes. I'm starting to like her too, but my feelings for Alyssa are still lingering cos I still talk to her cos we always hangout. Cos I'm getting to know her more on a intimate/personal level. I know that Alyssa likes me but I don't want this to affect her relationship now cos I would look like an **** for wrecking it or something. This new girl..I don't wanna overwhelm her since I don't even know if she swings that way, but she invited me to a concert just with her sorta like a date since I was her first choice outta everyone else. She's slightly more affectionate towards me over anyone else...I can't tell the difference between friendliness & flirting.

Essentially, I don't know whether to continue to be around Alyssa and wait or just go spend more time with the other girl and see where it goes. However, I'm afraid if I do choose the other girl I feel like my feelings for Alyssa will get in the way. What to do?

Thanks for reading & for your inputs. It'll help a lot with my indesicive, worrisome bollocks.

Okay, I'm asking this for someone else. Anyways to the question, my friend she really doesn't have the best grades or test scores. She's an incoming Senior.

If she manages to maintain 3.5 gpa or above and do extracurriculars. Along with raising her ACT & SAT scores does she have a shot to get in?

What does she have to do to achieve this? Please and thank you for your time.

I know the correct term is "ear stretching" and gauge is the measurement I'm just using the street name.

Anyways, like the question says what do you guys think of em? Are they attractive or just a turn off?

Oh, I put this question in LGBT section because it has more open minded people and plain awesome.