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  • Cheated on after five years?

    I started dating my boyfriend in college at 20 both working in a bar he was 24. We bought a house after two years and live there for three. He cheated gave me an std I convinced myself he was the one telling the truth maybe it was dormant for three years.. Found it it was multiple people. He still works at the bar ive been gone for four years and landed a business analyst position just recently! He moved out two months ago saying we have no connection etc I couldn t be interested after my std. Any advice on the parents I feel awful and I know he didn t tell them the truth. Do I let it go? He is now almost thirty and home I know it was his moms fear. And I had my own negativity w the relationship I begged him to grow up thought he graduated from college but didn t. Push him payed his health insurance all our bills lasik the whole deal. Once he admitted the cheating I got a home equity lian and that was that. Advice.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating6 years ago
  • Dwi can not eat?

    I made the biggest mistake and can not deal until finding out he outcome. People are telling me to calm down there was no accident involved..how can I make myself eat I had half a sadwich before this but have not eaten since it was Saturday..

    1 AnswerPsychology6 years ago
  • Aggravated dwi what to expect?

    On Friday I blew a .20 and was arrested for aggravated dwi. This is my first offense what can I expect was there anyone in this situation? The police told me I can get a conditional license but the consultations that I have had aren't that hopeful... They do say jail time is not necessary but possibly three years probation at the worst? The police also told my friend who picked me up that I shouldn fight it and just accept it? Do you know anyone in this situation what do I do?

    2 AnswersLaw Enforcement & Police6 years ago
  • aggravated Dwi?

    I derseved it. I know but now I'm at a loss. I quit my job for a new one left my bf of five hears and just can not deal.....can I drive to work they told my friend who picked me up not to fight it...ughhh what do I even do :( is jail and revocation of my kin ear mandatory ;(

    1 AnswerLaw & Ethics6 years ago
  • Is this a good sign passed phone interview?

    I applied for an HR generalist at a pretty well know company. It was a while back and first they gave me a phone interview and then called me and set up an on site.

    10:30 Welcome Human Resources Associate

    11:00 Facility Tour TBD

    12:30 Interview Plant Manager

    1:15 Interview Human Resources Manager

    2:00 Interview Quality Manager

    My question is do they do this with a lot of candidates? Also, I am a recent graduate so I feel like no experience in HR is no good, but they called me for an on site Opinions?

    1 AnswerOther - Careers & Employment9 years ago
  • Recent graduate: Is this a job scam?

    I work at a lawfirm as a legal assistant with a few other just out of school coworkers. It's a job nothing great and myself and another girl have been continuously looking. Recently somebody contacted her on linked in did a skype interview. Then told her she could start in a week at an upcoming jewelry store..THey sent her a contract signing her tell her her base pay and percent she makes on sales. She filled out no tax work and they haven't told her where it is just the city. When she asked they responded 5 days later saying she would be carpooling and later in the day they would send her the location and addresses/ numbers of coworkers so they could correspond. She already quit , but I'm just worried this is totally not legit and she won't have income! How can they not tell you where the job is besides the city and tell you your carpooling?

    3 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment9 years ago
  • Posting again just a few more opinions please!?

    My boyfriend who I have been with for about two years now is the most amazing person. He has been through a lot of hurt in the past(losing a young sibling to cancer) which sticks with him everyday. It has been eight years and he is now 26 and still bring this up ojn the regular. Now I have never lost a sibling and have no idea how I'd act so I'm not saying get over it by any means. He will not better himself and is lazy and a lot of time will be like it should be my sister here she's the sucussful one. He as graduated and everything, but won't try. I have tried to help, but need to help myself to. I am just graduated and need to be looking for jobs too. Anyway we are about to move in together and buy a condo. Though I am beginning to think it might not be smart. I want stability a family to come home to him friday night after my week and unwind but he works untill four am at a bar all weekend...........where I worked during school but now we lead different lives. I owrk 9-5 as a paralegal(me makes more money than me though so I can't complain.) Though a lot of the times the pplace he works pay him under the table or say he make twice the money in half the time not claiming tips. He wants as do I a nice home etc. Last year he didn;t even file take return and with the job he has now we will nnever be approved for a loan. Anyway Last night he left me to smoke by himself bc since his sister died thats what "makes im happy" then other time he is "dissapointed" he did this. We barely hang out now with different schedule so I was livid and just don't get it he then does the sypathy game " Maybe I'm just too damaged fro anyone". I love him and want to take his hurt and push him, but don't know if I can. Advice is this a mistake? I just could never hurt him...

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • Advice please, before I commit.?

    My boyfriend who I have been with for about two years now is the most amazing person. He has been through a lot of hurt in the past(losing a young sibling to cancer) which sticks with him everyday. It has been eight years and he is now 26. He will not better himself and is lazy. He as graduated and everything, but won't try. I have tried to help, but need to help myself to. I am just graduated and need to be looking for jobs too. Anyway we are about to move in together and buy a condo. Though I am beginning to think it might not be smart. I want stability a family to come home to him friday night after my week and unwind but he work untill four am at a bar all weekend.............where I worked during school but now we lead different lives. Last night he left me to smoke by himself bc since his sister died thats what "makes im happy" then other time he is "dissapointed" he did this. We barely hang out now with different schedule so I was livid. I love him and want to take his hurt and push him, but don't know if I can. Advice is this a mistake? I just could never hurt him...

    3 AnswersMarriage & Divorce9 years ago
  • Boyfriend, amazing great heart but lazy?

    My boyfriend who I have been with for about two years now is the most amazing person. He has been through a lot of hurt in the past(losing a young sibling to cancer) which sticks with him everyday. It has been eight years and he is now 26. He will not better himself and is lazy. He as graduated and everything, but won't try. I have tried to help, but need to help myself to. I am just graduated and need to be looking for jobs too. Anyway we are about to move in together and buy a condo. Though I am beginning to think it might not be smart. I want stability a family to come home to him friday night after my week and unwind but he work untill four am at a bar all weekend.............where I worked during school but now we lead different lives. Last night he left me to smoke by himself bc since his sister died thats what "makes im happy" then other time he is "dissapointed" he did this. We barely hang out now with different schedule so I was livid. I love him and want to take his hurt and push him, but don't know if I can. Advice is this a mistake? I just could never hurt him...

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Boyfriend: Most amazing person..but lazy?

    My boyfriend who I have been with for about two years now is the most amazing person. He has been through a lot of hurt in the past(losing a young sibling to cancer) which sticks with him everyday. It has been eight years and he is now 26. He will not better himself and is lazy. He as graduated and everything, but won't try. I have tried to help, but need to help myself to. I am just graduated and need to be looking for jobs too. Anyway we are about to move in together and buy a condo. Though I am beginning to think it might not be smart. I want stability a family to come home to him friday night after my week and unwind but he work untill four am at a bar all weekend.............where I worked during school but now we lead different lives. Last night he left me to smoke by himself bc since his sister died thats what "makes im happy" then other time he is "dissapointed" he did this. We barely hang out now with different schedule so I was livid. I love him and want to take his hurt and push him, but don't know if I can. Advice is this a mistake? I just could never hurt him...

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Does owner of health insurance policy see what procedures you have?

    I am under my fathers health insurance plan and am just not comfortable with him seeing what I have done and where. Generally I know doctors can't share information after 18, but will they see the procedure come through on insurancd. Also I am 24 before I hear my father needs to know, thank you.

    3 AnswersInsurance9 years ago
  • Ebay purchase UNHAPPY?

    I purchased UGGS for 38.99 with shipping the buyer didn't state they accepted returns.

    Here was the description

    Tall black uggs. These boots are USED and show wear!

    Here it the link

    http://www.ebay.com/itm/250935250552?ssPageName=ST...

    Now I emailed the seller and said I was dissapointed and knew they were worn, but not unusable the sole is barely there...also they are mid calf uggs not tall

    What can I do?

    2 AnswersCorporations10 years ago
  • Uti back pain? Help?!!!!?

    About a week ago I had a uti along with the pain when urinating etc. When I had it I had stomach pain and slight back pain. The pain when urinating when away, but the back pain keeps up. I thought I could have developed a kidney infection, but have none of the other symptoms. It not unbearable back pain just discomfort is that normal following a uti?

    2 AnswersPain & Pain Management1 decade ago
  • Transfer credit line?

    I have a credit line with a limit of 10000 and a card with a limit of 6500. I paid for a semester of school with theses so hopefully I can pay them off. The card has 3200 on it and interest of 9.99 while the credit line has 4500 and a rate of 19.99. Should I transfer as much as possible to the one card or is it better to carry small balances everywhere......HELP

    2 AnswersCredit1 decade ago
  • Transfer credit balances?

    I have developed a good amount of debt in credit. One semesters of schools I paid for with a credit line and card. I have a credit card with a limit of 6500 and it has a balance of 3200 the interest rate is 9.99, for the credit line the limit is 10000 and has a rate of 19.99. The balance is 4000 should I transfer as much as I can to the card or is it bad to have a high balance on the card? HELp

    4 AnswersCredit1 decade ago
  • Meeting boyfriends parents, he is pushing!?

    I have been seeing my boyfriend for about three months now and he has been pushing me to meet his family since the first month. I told him I want to WANT to meet the family not be forced. The whole time I have been maneuvering around it. Still not ready, but he is so ready I feel awful and maybe I'm just scared. Now I almost feel like I have waited too long and I know he is running back to them telling them I will not come meet them. If I decide to go they know I do not have interest in being there. Ugh have I waited too long who is right?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Can't express feelings?

    I am seeing a new guy, but anyone I have ever been with I have been the same way. He has had no problem telling me he likes me and wants to be with me, but I am just quiet when he says things. We had been friends for a year before so we know each other well. I don't take relationships serious because I believe if I do I'll get hurt..Were together, but I rather no title so we don't "break up." I feel like it's going fast but it''s not since weve known each other before. Though I don't want to meet his family or him to meet mine I feel like that is too much for me. Recently we got into a disagreement and he complained there is no communication and said if we stopped talking then I was just move on. I said yes obviously and he complained I didn't care and if I did I needed to say it, and I do care but I freeze and honestly would rather lose him than say or show it. How can I just express myself without thinking about it too much and freezing up =(

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Boyfriend needs attention?

    I have been seeing a guy recently who needs a lot of attention and I find it almost annoying..He says that I'm too easy and need to want and ask for more. But I don't need to be call 20 times a day or even 3 for that matter...Why does he want me to be ore needy

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • cable wire to tv or digital cable box?

    I had digital cable come and they hooked it up, but it can't find the digital channels should the cable wire be in the tv bc when it is it can find regular channels or should it be in the "cable in" slot

    2 AnswersTVs1 decade ago