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So my friend died in 2009. I had a dream last night I visited him. Apparently he was in purgatory. We talked and everything was fine. Should I be worried?

To me it seems egotistical to have people follow you but not be friends with them on Facebook.

To me I think it's a very pessimistic phrase saying there is no hope and it's a pointless thing to say cuz most people do that anyway. I prefer the phrase if you love something set it free. If it comes back it's yours. If it doesn't then it never was. What do you guys think?

I am a bisexual female who is mostly attracted to women. I get nervous around women. However most of my friends are guys. I do have female friends but more guys want to be my friends than girls. I'm 24 by the way.

Like if you catch them in a lie and it effects you.

So I only had him for 3 months. I think I am a bad pet owner. I changed his water once a week and fed him once a day. I had him in a one galloon tank with a filter. I took him down to my parents place a couple weeks ago since I was going to be gone for two weeks heard that was ok to do. My parents live in a much warmer climate than I do and live in a much lower altitude. When I brought him to their place he seemed fine and happier than usual. When I brought him back to my place he seemed really tired and didn't feel like doing much. I was told to buy a heater and I did followed all the instructions they told me and he still was moving much. I found him dead this morning and now I am really upset. This was my first betta fish so i am not sure what I did wrong. No mean answers please.

I have this friend who I have been friends with for awhile. We use to be good friends and now a lot of that has changed. We are both girls and I kind of have feelings for her. She knows that and she said she has gotten past that. Sometimes during the year we will talk and be just fine. Other times she will ignore me for no reason and then when I ask her why she didn't include me in her plans she says we weren't talking and that's why I didn't invite you and then threatens to ignore me again. I have been giving her more space now and only texting her occasionally to hang out like once a month. She never puts the effort into texting me. I have made a lot of friends so making new friends isn't a problem for me and a lot of them think she is not worth my time. What should I do?

I recently decided to take a break from meat no seafood, poultry, pork, or red meat for a month to cleanse my system. Anyways my period started today and I have been having horrible cramps, a really bad headache, and been feeling naseocus does this have any effect on me cutting meat out for awhile. Could it cause any problems like anemia especially if I don't know what nutrients I'm missing out on?

And people tell you to just make new friends and the problem will go away.

So I like this girl let's call her Abbie. Abbie and I use to be really close friends but ever since she got with her jerky bf and after we had lived together for a short period time things have gone downhill. We are both girls and we are both bisexual so that isn't the problem. The problem is that Abbie won't talk to me anymore and I don't know why. I currently am living with my brother and he is dating her best friend so that makes me feel really uncomfortable. I feel nasecous and sick cuz I'm worried they are all hanging out and not including me. I never told Abbie I liked her but she might still know. When she did talk to me beforehand she would make fun of me a lot and call me stupid. I have made a lot of friends since then and they all say she's not worth it. No mean answers please.

I recently got pink eye on Saturday and went today to get the eye drops. I put the eye drops in today and have seen no improvement. I am worried I will have pink eye forever. Can someone help please?

This happened when I was 16 so Idk why I am thinking about this now. I was in cross country at the time. I followed the cross country girls and was trying to catch up with the varsity girls. I was only 2 or 3 feet behind them and we crossed over into a main road. They made it across the street fine. When I was running across the main road two cars stopped to let me go they were about 4 or 5 feet back from me. The varsity girls made fun of me for almost getting hit and said that the cars shouldn't have to stop for me. The light has just turned green and it was a main road so the speed limit was 45 mph. What do you think?

I am currently going into my last year of college and still haven't found an internship even though I've looked everywhere. I've volunteered at a lot of places and did research which was related to the type of field I want to go into when I graduate I also have experience working with retail and fast food not that it matters. I recently applied for this internship that isn't paid but it corresponds to what I want to do when I graduate its a virtual internship so I wouldn't have to drive anywhere. I have plenty of money saved up from working a lot the previous summer and in high school so my dad told me to decline the loans. The problem is my parents friend told me that I can't afford the internship and that I have to take a partime retail job instead. They also said that my parents shouldn't let me or my brother come home at all to visit and kick us out if we do. My brother has a Gf who hasn't worked a day in her life and my parent's friend said that she shouldn't work cuz she's in school. Her parents spoil her rotten. I really want to take out loans so their friend stops nagging them about me not being independent but since I'm not 23 yet I can't claim myself as independent on fasa.

I'm entering my last year of college and I am trying to find a decent part time job. I've worked in fast food and retail for too long. I've been trying on jobs indeed and all they have is stupid retail jobs. I hate dealing with stupid customers always complaining or insistent on having a black Friday special because they are so selfish and stupid to think us workers have lives too. I love children, animals, and am pursuing an environmental engineering degree. I'm so frustrated that I can't get any jobs that aren't fast food or retail.

I am majoring in environmental engineering, graduating next spring, have a low GPA and can't seem to find an internship even though I've applied to several places I only got two interviews but they both turned me down. I work really hard in school but seem to always have test anxiety and do bad even though I know the material. I have been involved with engineers without borders, a hall association, did undergraduate research through a professor for a semester, participated in an environmental ethics mentoring program, and am currently volunteering at riparian preserve for dragon fly surveying. I am extremely frustrated because I don't want my degree to go to waste. My friend who is a film major who parties all the time and thinks he can magicly get into Hollywood who somehow landed an internship has a better shot than me. Anyone feel this way?

People always say I am bad at this or bad at that especially family and friends. I'm bad with technology even when I try my hardest not to be. My friend who constantly insults me and everyone says I have bad social skills. People tell me I lack common sense. I have to retake a lot of classes due to the fact I always freak out on tests even though I study really hard weeks before the test. I'm an engineering major btw so maybe that's why. I'm just so tired of people making fun of me and calling me stupid and I don't know what to do anymore.