fiona

Its just something I don't get...in theory the reason u aren't allowed birth control is because god knows best who should have how many children and has a plan for everyone...why then are children born to unfit parents?my parents were both neglective and my father was abusive none of them was fit to be a parent yet we are taught that children are born whherr they are meant to be born...im not ranting I'm seriously wondering why god gives children to ppl that will **** up their childhoods and maybe their lives???like I'm trying to trust he has a system but I find it hard sometimes...and no I don't want any atheists telling me god doesnt exist

I'm a christian which is why I want to let go of grudges I'm holding against ppl that have bullied me..turn the other cheek and all that but I can't😞 does anyone know how to let go of the anger that I have build uo and of the pain I still feel about it?

There is one thing I really don't get:Christ said we would be hated in his name but I dont see how u can actually hate someone just because of their religion..i mean in my life I met a few ignorant ppl who made fun of me for being a christian but that's surely not hate...i have atheist friends who simply dont care...i dont get how u can hate someone for a reason like that as hate requires that this person did something to u personally?

So I'm a roman catholic me and my husband have one child and we are at a stage where we dont really want a second one...not saying never but right now we both feel we dont have the mental capacity to give a second child the love and attention it needs...like if it would happen we would make it work but we would like to wait another year or so...i just wonder is it ok for us to use contraception like pulling out or even condoms?or should we leave it in the hands of God...also please refrain from calling me a fanatic or something like that😓

So I got pregnant in a one night stand and the guy never acknowledged 'his ' daughter which by now I'm completely ok with because when she was 10 months old I met a wonderful man whom I'm married to now and who is the best father she could wish for.bit I live in a small town in Ireland where everybody knows everything and if u have never been in an area like this u wouldn't believe how tactless ppl can be without even meaning to hurt someone.i got a few ppl saying stuff like :oh bit he is bot her daddy,right? To me in conversations while she is right there so we wonder how we should explain the whole thing to her I stead of her realizing it by herself and feeling betrayed?she is 2 and 9 months now

So my daughter I nearly three and she insists that she is a baby...like she acts like a toddler in walking,talking etc I'm not worried about her development but she keeps telling me she is a baby,mama's and daddy's baby etc I just wonder if other toddlers are doing the same thing...i heard they do I there is a new baby in the house but thats not the case.my friend has one tho that we see about once a week...

I am 27 and have a daughter who is 2 and 8 months old the ironic thing is she was a complete accident ( no regrets tho😊)now me and my husband have been trying for a second one for a while and I cant seem to get pregnant😞 does anyone have any idea what i should do other then not rhjnk about it...I know thats supposed to be the best thing but it ain't possible right now...

In the beginning there were 36 scriptures about Jesus Christ but in the end only 4 made it into the bible...u see I'm a christian and I just wonder what kind of knowledge we are all missing out on when we dont know what's in them...like it might be something crucial to know...does anybody have an idea how I could find those scriptures or at least part of them?like if there is places they are written down or something?

I just wondered what other people think of this:in my opinion giving advice that s not asked for is rude...I personally think that if someone is not asking for my opinion or complains about something to me I dont give them any advice. I personally feel insulted when someone gives me advice I didn t ask for but in my life I did get a lot of bullying disguised as good advice so maybe I am oversensitive...

I'm not talking about something morbid like a virus killing us all lets just say an area gets deserted for whatever reason...how long would it take for roads to be overgrown?for houses to crumble?