Carolina

Me (Madeira - 21) and my boyfriend (Hong Kong - 26) has been together for 2 months - I know very fresh. 

We have had our scary What Ifs moments though we do use condoms all the time. 

Every time we go to a shop or he touches my stomach he asks if I’m pregnant which I’m not. 

But today, he said to me that even if I was that I shouldn’t have an abortion because it can impact my mental and physical health.

He is a Cable Engineer and states that he is in a comfortable and ready time to have children, but I on the other hand am still nothing even jobless with this pandemic - I am still to take the Beauty Therapy courses that I wanted last year. I don’t want to be a financial burden on him but he insists it’s fine. 

So I had a LDR relationship for 2 years. It was all sweet and amazing until recently I started to have episodes of depression and anxiety attacks, in the beginning he was supportive and caring but he started to gradually show his true colours when I am in need of support. I had a troubled life, not getting love from paternal father, not being able to work until 19 so I didn’t develop necessary skills, bullying, etc... This relationship was everything to me. But these months I randomly stopped loving him. At first I thought I was being childish and that it was only a phase but eventually I realised my love for him died there. I tried to break up with him to not drag him along, I needed to be honest with him and couldn’t allow him to suffer more thinking there is still a spark. ‘Tried’. He cried, I can’t resist tears so I gave it another chance, I felt the love again but it just gradually died again! This was killing me. Every day I would pray to God and ask for guidance, what should I do? What should I say? Today I broke up. I thanked him for everything...his love, his care, the experience, the chemistry, EVERYTHING! I told him to continue being the amazing guy he is and that I’m just not emotionally prepared and able to carry on AT THE MOMENT. You know what? He blamed me! I told him it isn’t his fault, I didn’t want him to think he is worthless. I just wanted a healthy breakup. Is it really my fault?

So my parents are divorced since I was a little baby (I’m 20 now). My dad has committed domestic abuse against my mum, has refused to pay the house debts and claims that my mum is still the owner as well. But he asked my mum to remove her name because he wanted to put his ex gf’s name on it. 

10 years later, the bank contacted my dad for having a debt of 10k and he said that my mum is the one to blame even though its not under her name anymore. The bank only gave my mum 10 days to pay during quarantine.

I want to pay the debt but I’m most certain that my dad will do anything to get it back in his name and will not sign the the apartment over to me. 

If I pay it will it automatically be put under my name (the house that my dad and my mum is indebted to pay)? What can I do to secure this house under my name?

I’ve been wanting to study abroad but for that I needed a time to visit the university and get to know my whereabouts so I decided to go on 25th of May till 3rd of June for a long time.

Problem is when my manager asked me to book my holidays whenever I wanted I saw on the Work Calendar that she had booked the same days I needed.

What do I do now? I feel uncomfortable about the whole situation because I don’t want my request to be rejected because of her and I don’t want her to bully me at work.

My boyfriend (19)and her brother are best mates. The is 16 and is hugely obsessed with him, going on 2017 pictures commenting “good looking❤️“ and he doesn’t flirt back. She loves him to the core and won’t respect my relationship! All of this started when my boyfriend decided to play a joke on her jealous brother. We were ALL AWARE OF THE JOKE INCLUDING HER!! Obviously I was upset about it so we argued and the girl said sorry to be the cause of the arguement and her brother took the mick out of him because my bf got karma for joking with him lol. However, a few days ago when she went on the 2017 picture, I asked her to not call him good looking or send hearts to him anymore, i also said it will be the last time that I will be nice to her because of the friendship between her brother and my bf. Yesterday she say the messages and fot very defensive and aggressive, calling me ugly and all but she knows I’m prettier than her, even my bf and her brother claim so. And she also said he cheated on me because of that joking comment. She tried to hurt me by saying something that is not true, she is a very aggressive girl for her age. I asked her to respect my relationship since she follows christianity just like she claims lol. I also said that I trust him and that i spend every day talking to him. How do I manage this girl?

All of our arguments are because of her. She is a 16 year old who claims to be devoted to her church, seems a decent kid right? You're wrong!

She keep giving heart reactions to my boyfriend's photos! She even went on a 2017 photo of him and commented "So good looking♥" and my boyfriend tried to be nice and replied "I was" and then she was like "You still are..." I'm like wtaf?

Not only that but she is dating!! Here's where things get effed up. Her brother and my bf were hanging out in lunch time and she came and begged them to take a pic with her, her brother said no, so she got the opportunity and BEGGED literally BEGGED!! my boyfriend, he is a nice guy and that was his friend's sister, he couldn't be rude to her, as he says to justify himself. However, she told her not to post it, he deliberately told her NOT TO POST IT and the hoe went along and posted it without respecting anything, but on her facebook there is no photo of her and her boyfriend, odd right?

So I screenshot everything and sent it to her boyfriend and I kindly asked ehr not to call my boyfriend goodlooking and send hearts to him cause that is the last time I'll be nice on her.

And guess what? My boyfriend says that if he gets in trouble he is going to blame me for the fight that could happen and then i goes on messenger to see if she replied to my msgs which she didnt but then she commented on his post for the purpose of which I think is to provoke me?

I don't know what to do anymore.. Help

I wanted to apply to a University to do Nursing. The UCAS points requested are 96-104.

I asked my teacher to count my UCAS points, he accepted to count them. But instead, he dismissed my qualifications which are about 9-10 of them from my 3 years of college and qualifications for 1 year of school GCSEs. He only counted this year's UCAS points which is 24 and my Business diploma and said that it would be around 44. He couldn't be bothered to count my other qualifications and instead said "If I were you I'd choose another career path because you won't get in Nursing." and suggested for me to do Linguist course which is not what I want.

However, to my classmate he counted everything and said she could get into Paramedics!

Why am I being treated differently?

So in my dream it all started when my ex brother in law came running home saying that there was a group of chinese boys that had yakuza-like tattoos on their body (18-25 yrs old) wanting to kill him. When the boys arrived they were very violent and were about to attack, the moment they tried to attack I quickly tried to lock the door which was hard because 4 of them were trying to open them. Eventually i did locked them out. The next day we were all scared and still the only person missing was my dad even from before the attack which was hard for us to deal with because we needed his help. Well the gang came this time with an extra person and I ran to lock the door with my ex BIL but his keys were bent and has to use my own. When i locked it i went to the bedroom where my ex BIL said that they cut his friends hand off, when they knocked again i went downstairs and stayed in the kitchen which is opposite the front door but far away because of the hallway, my uncle unlocked the door because he thought they were normal and harmless boys, I shouted and ran up to the door and tried to lock it but it was geeting hard because their hands were in between the gap. My first instinct was to seduce them orally so i kissed the fingers of the first guy and licked the fingers of thr second but did not do anything to the other 3 because i was able to shut it for good and lock. They said they was going to invade us so my first instinct was to call the police (which i didnt end up doing).