I hate my boyfriend's friend's sister!! Here's why:?

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All of our arguments are because of her. She is a 16 year old who claims to be devoted to her church, seems a decent kid right? You're wrong!
She keep giving heart reactions to my boyfriend's photos! She even went on a 2017 photo of him and commented "So good looking♥" and my boyfriend tried to be nice and replied "I was" and then she was like "You still are..." I'm like wtaf?
Not only that but she is dating!! Here's where things get effed up. Her brother and my bf were hanging out in lunch time and she came and begged  them to take a pic with her, her brother said no, so she got the opportunity and BEGGED literally BEGGED!! my boyfriend, he is a nice guy and that was his friend's sister, he couldn't be rude to her, as he says to justify himself. However, she told her not to post it, he deliberately told her NOT TO POST IT and the hoe went along and posted it without respecting anything, but on her facebook there is no photo of her and her boyfriend, odd right?

So I screenshot everything and sent it to her boyfriend and I kindly asked ehr not to call my boyfriend goodlooking and send hearts to him cause that is the last time I'll be nice on her.

And guess what? My boyfriend says that if he gets in trouble he is going to blame me for the fight that could happen and then i goes on messenger to see if she replied to my msgs which she didnt but then she commented on his post for the purpose of which I think is to provoke me?
I don't know what to do anymore.. Help

hillbilly · Answer

Start ignoring her more, and more.

Kt Skycat · Answer

Look, social media has an "off" button. Use it. Turn the dang thing off. Delete your account and live real life in real time. All of this is completely dependent on a computer internet program. All of her actions are dependent on a computer internet program. Shut the dang thing off and give her no more. You keep feeding her by participating in posting photos for all to see, and "all" includes her, too. So, quit your bragging and boasting about your relationship to the world. If you do not want the world to interfere with your relationship, quit setting it up for comment on social media! If you MUST keep your social media, start taking pictures of everything BUT you and your boyfriend! I have been married for 20+ years and here is what I NEVER do -- I NEVER post pictures of myself or my spouse because our relationship is not to be discussed by other people. Period. Our relationship is between us and it stays that way. I post pictures of food, I post pictures of art and craft projects I made, I post pictures of my travels and cool sunsets, but my spouse, no. Because I do not post my private life for all to see, my life stays private. Do the same. Stop boasting and bragging about your boyfriend by no longer being a narcissist and showing nothing but pictures of you and pictures of him and pictures of you with him --how common is that? Be unique and post pictures of everything else EXCEPT him and this person has no more opportunities to butt in where she don't belong and your stress over this is ended. Get a tip and turn her off by giving her no more. Good luck, but, do it.

??? · Answer

Tell your boyfriend it's his own fault if he winds up in a fight, since he should have told her to knock it off a long time ago. You gave him a chance to handle it. Now you're going to do it.

I'd also message her boyfriend and say something like, "I'm sorry. I know it's not your problem, but it makes me so upset that my boyfriend isn't telling her to stop. I don't know why she's messing with him when she has someone like you." You know .. sweet and complimenting but not overly flirtatious,and more importantly, private. You don't need the whole world to see those likes for them to make a difference.

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I hate my boyfriend's friend's sister!! Here's why:?

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