Power

A (extremely attractive!) male coworker did this to me to fix an issue on my pc after I emailed him that I needed help with the problem, and if he could email back to me how I can solve it. The solution was really straightforward, he could have easily emailed me how to do it instead but he came to my desk whilst I was on the phone and took my mouse and fixed it for me. In that exact position, we where maybe 2cm apart. Is that flirting on his end?

https://youtu.be/iopGbPD7CJM

https://youtu.be/iopGbPD7CJM

Basically I was just on the train (I am female and 27) and this Romany gypsy begger young woman came on the carriage with some piece of paper showing it to each passenger asking for money. I never give money to these beggars (they are a usual occurrence on London Underground) but I don’t get angry at them especially the women because I can imagine they are probably being threatened and asked to do this by people in control of them and they might have been trafficked and are probably being abused against their will and I’m pretty sure they have had fairy awful lives without chance of escape. So anyway I ignored the lady and man next to me gave her some change, she then moved on to a couple, a roughly spoken English couple with a baby who where extremely chavvy and sounded very ignorant and not educated - probably from a council estate. Anyway they both swore abuse at the girl in particular the man who gave a running abusive dialogue to her and said why don’t you go back to where you came from or use the benefits you probably claimed like you all f*kin do!! Yeah that’s right walk on you f in tramp ‘ and he continued swearing abuse and his girlfriend or wife did the same full of hate in their faces.

Basically I was just on the train (I am female and 27) and this Romany gypsy begger young woman came on the carriage with some piece of paper showing it to each passenger asking for money. I never give money to these beggars (they are a usual occurrence on London Underground) but I don’t get angry at them especially the women because I can imagine they are probably being threatened and asked to do this by people in control of them and they might have been trafficked and are probably being abused against their will and I’m pretty sure they have had fairy awful lives without chance of escape. So anyway I ignored the lady and man next to me gave her some change, she then moved on to a couple, a roughly spoken English couple with a baby who where extremely chavvy and sounded very ignorant and not educated - probably from a council estate. Anyway they both swore abuse at the girl in particular the man who gave a running abusive dialogue to her and said why don’t you go back to where you came from or use the benefits you probably claimed like you all f*kin do!! Yeah that’s right walk on you f in tramp ‘ and he continued swearing abuse and his girlfriend or wife did the same full of hate in their faces.

I invited my mother a few weeks ago to come to my apartment for an Xmas dinner - I told her it would need to be before Xmas so around the 21st and she said yes she would come - and then said why did I spend the Christmas before last year at dinner with a close family friends family instead of her and her boyfriend (who sexually harassed me and tried to bribe me but that’s another story) when she had never invited me in the first place.

Anyway my mother is currently not working and sits in the car with her controlling boyfriend whilst he couriers deliveries to random locations in the city - but she never does any of the work other than sitting in the car and helping to lift things. Anyway I live alone and had made a big pre order Xmas food delivery of lots of nice Xmas foods I thought we could enjoy together, as well as decorating my new apartment really nice and buying a big table and chairs so we could sit and eat.

I told her yesterday if it would be okay for her to come on Monday afternoon as that’s the day the food will be delivered (in the morning) and she said no she will be working (by that she means sitting in her husbands old van which she loves doing because she is obsessed with him even though he gets drunk and hits her and had a record for gang rape) and I told her but you said you would be able to get the day off? She said no she couldn’t, but she can come at 8pm at night and stay for 25 minuthen leave, after I would have spent all day cooking for her?

I invited my mother a few weeks ago to come to my apartment for an Xmas dinner - I told her it would need to be before Xmas so around the 21st and she said yes she would come - and then said why did I spend the Christmas before last year at dinner with a close family friends family instead of her and her boyfriend (who sexually harassed me and tried to bribe me but that’s another story) when she had never invited me in the first place.

Anyway my mother is currently not working and sits in the car with her controlling boyfriend whilst he couriers deliveries to random locations in the city - but she never does any of the work other than sitting in the car and helping to lift things. Anyway I live alone and had made a big pre order Xmas food delivery of lots of nice Xmas foods I thought we could enjoy together, as well as decorating my new apartment really nice and buying a big table and chairs so we could sit and eat.

I told her yesterday if it would be okay for her to come on Monday afternoon as that’s the day the food will be delivered (in the morning) and she said no she will be working (by that she means sitting in her husbands old van which she loves doing because she is obsessed with him even though he gets drunk and hits her and had a record for gang rape) and I told her but you said you would be able to get the day off? She said no she couldn’t, but she can come at 8pm at night and stay for 25 minu

Even my own mother used to hit me constantly and leave me with huge nosebleeds. I nearly always find that women end up plotting against me and being shady towards me, and always talk crp about me behind my back. Why is this

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The only people I tend to really be able to trust properly and get on with are older men who have female daughters

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Some women like my paternal aunt and paternal grandmother I do get on with very wel

I went on a date just now with a guy who was really good looking, I really liked his personality and enjoyed chatting with him, he came across as smart and has had an interesting life, he has a decent job etc and everything was good just he had put on his profile he was 5’8, but I’m 5’6, and I think we where around the same height even though I was wearing flats, he may have even been 1-2 cm taller but that could have seemed that way because I feel my legs are thicker than his and I have quite brooad shoulders for a girl even though I’m slim. I don’t know what to do. I really liked his personality and his face was attractive and he came across as a cool guy. But I have never been with someone shorter than me or been attracted to them. I don’t know what to do 😭 he’s originally from Sicilly so I know in general Italians do tend to be shorter as a rule. What should I do? He told me I was beautiful and we kept speaking about a second date 😭but then I wouldn’t want to lead him on if nothing could come of this and I’m also afraid about getting intimate, I am very very picky about who I get intimate with and get unformartable unless I am extremely attracted to the person which is quite rare. What should I do 😭

The first genuine answer gets best answer ASAP!

Dancing:

https://youtu.be/6TokFx6H7Bs

Singing:

https://youtu.be/QR4BawMhcLI

I’ve never had any training in either, I just used to dance a lot in front of the mirror when I was a teen to shakira and Beyoncé’s songs and tried to copy them lol, so I know I am not the best, but which is the area I am better in? Eg should I start singing videos on YouTube, or dancing clips on Tik Tok?

I mean they will view the photos within minutes sometimes, they will view every single story within fail, religiously, of me doing things like going on holiday to a nice country or eating a nice Restaurant, 

but they never like any of my posts, it makes me feel uncomfortable and like either they are jealous of me or they really hate me. Why do people do this?

If someone found on their ethnic DNA test they had 44% North African Berber Dna and 1% Nigerian DNA would that mean they could say they have 'black' in them?