dont want to be found

it has like an oriental type beat to it.they played it like every 10 minutes for a couple months.i cant for the life of me remember the title or artist.but i believe it was the late 90s maybe early 2000s.if you live or lived in the boston,ma area back then they played it on 94.5 all the time for a while.they actually overplayed it like they always do with good songs.

read my other questions so you know whats going on.

but anyways we went to a party last night.and somehow after the party the topic came up,she sorta brought it up.so i listened to her and we somewhat talked about us.basically she said no.but she was also drinking.so here i am with this girl that everything she does seems to say she may want to have a relationship with me but her lips say different.so now i guess i just wait till she thinks on it for a while or till another girl comes my way and see wich happens first.everybody thinks we are GF/BF till she says we arent.everybody thinks that we should get together and see what happens.

so is that what i should do?wait a while and see what happens?

ok well read my other questions for more detail.but a quicky..i like my best friend that is a girl.she seems to be flirting(sorry im stupid when it comes to women) with me.shes always touching/hitting me while talking to me.we went for a long ride the other night with a friend.she had no problem leaning her leg against mine.i actually moved my leg a little to see what she would do.yup she moved her leg over to touch mine.she wanted to go out for some drinks tonight.so we went,well she got trashed,i got buzzed.i made her leave her car but instead we left mine and took hers,i drove.i drove around with her all night till she was able to drive.we sat out front of my house for an hour talking.i could tell she wanted me to make a move but for some reason i just couldnt do it!!

even with both of us drinking i didnt have the balls to say something.

ok well tonight i went for a ride with my best friend that ive known for YEARS who is a girl and im haveing feelings for now.not sure how she feels.she seems to be flirting with me and all that.well the whole time i was driving she was talking and was constantly hitting me as she was talking.she was biting her nails constantly.well we got back to her house to drop her off.we sat in the car talking and laughing for what felt like a half hour.then as she was gettin ready to get she was just sitting there biting her nails with the sweetest smile on her face for a few minutes before getting out.

did i mess up and miss my chance?what do i do now?think ill get another chance?think she might make the first move instead?man i hope i didnt mess up to bad.ive been trying to let IT just happen.trying not to make her feel too uncomfortable or anything.figured it may just happen on its own but seems it may need a push to get started

ok well im sure some of you have read/answered other questions of mine but i still need help.

there is this girl that i have been friends with for years.ive been waiting for her relationship to end in wich i think it has.she is around me all the time.always calling me,we talk about anything and everything.shes been just showing up at my home without letting me know she is comeing lately,well the last week or so anyways.shes also been just popping in at my work as well.now all the guys are teasing us.they keep telling her that i want her,wich is true.telling me that i should go for it.but she keeps saying that i could never afford to take her out and stuff.she says it would be really wierd,wich it would be.but we could get past the wierdness.its true i dont have a ton of money and she knows this.but i always find a way to get the money for whatever i want and she knows this as well.

ive done some reading here and havent found anything useful to me.

but anyways yes i have gotten some feelings for my best friend.she does have a boyfriend but not for much longer.i know they will be broken up real soon.trying to figure out what she is waiting for but she wont tell me.told me everything else though.now he will be leaveing this week for thanxgiving.she has a feeling that he wont be comeing back.i was told that she may end up calling him and telling him not to come back.so this may be my chance to make a move but dont know how.

i believe it wont affect our friendship if i told her.and if we did go ahead with it i also believe it wont ruin the friendship if it failed.

everytime we are together,even when her BF is there we are always lookin at each other,touching,laughing,stareing.shes always messing with her hair.loads of eye contact with smiles.hugs and cheek kisses.she dont do any of this with her other male friends,includeing her boyfriend,just me.

ok well ive been friends with this girl for years.basically grew up together.well i am starting to get some feelings for her.problem is i dont know what to say to her.she is always around me,even when her BF is home she will be near me. she has said its not gonna last much longer with him.

shes always asking me what im doing or where im going.wants to go with me.always buying and giving me things,i do the same to her.we could both be in a seriously bad mood but when we get together its an instant happiness for both of us.we always have fun together no matter what we are doing.we both have the same interests,likes,dislikes.could almost say we were twins.

how do i know if she feels the same?id like to know as i have a strong feeling that if we were to have a relationship that it would last forever.she has told me that she had a crush on me at one point.wish she wouldve acted on it.if we were to try i dont think it would hurt our friendship either.