Rhythm

This could be the similar question I asked previously -- but Its almost 1.5 month of my marriage and I feel like I m married to wrong girl.

Primarily because - We have no physical relationship between us. I was very excited and was very happy for my marriage. I felt same feeling is from my wife before marriage.

But after marriage - In first night I tried to have romantic begning with her she said she is too tired, then on next day we went for honey moon.. over thier we only had fight becuase she did not involve in intimate reltionship me...

Then since then every third or fourth night we have bad conversation because we just dont have any thing between us in terms of romantic relationship. She said she needs time.. she feels all this sex and physical love is weired. I tried to excite her try to kiss her but I feel like I m raping her so then give up.

what shall I do.. I told her that I will give her time but I cant control my self every third fourth night because of my urge for physcial love.. then we end up in bed converstation at time I quesions her if she really loves me..

Guys please advise.

Hi I just got married before 15 days. I'm really upset with my first 15 days with my wife. We got enaged around 5 months back before we got married. She is working and I m also working our offices are near by. During Engagement time things were good. She was never too excited to meet me, but I took it lightly and positively thinking she is just shy. Slowly slowly she came close. whenever I ask for going out she said she is busy & I agree to that because she is working.

On weekends we used to go out spend good time but I always felt that something is missing. We also spent good time on valentines day. Things were not too good but was good. I always loved her tried to make here as happy as I can.

before 15 days we got married. In first night nothing happened between us. I tried to go close but she was not feeling to good. I thought she is too tired so I said ok. After that we went for honeymoon on firsth night there she told me that - She has not accepted me, whatever she did in engagement time just to make sure that I dont feel bad. She married me because her family was too happy. She said I m not bad guy but she has not accepted me. So far she was pretending and doing things just to make me happy and make sure I don't feel bad. I find it hard times to complete my honeymoon 7 nights. I got little disturb in nights..

Rest all things are good between us. She feels good at my home behave too well with my family, just dont get mixed with me too much If I go close to her , eyes of her becomes little wet. I just go little close. I just hold her hands - tries to be as positive as possible. But sometimes I got angry with her saying why the heck you got married me if you have not accepted me. but I m waiting now.

I'm really tensed about my future. I explained her so many times life is short enjoy it. I will make you too happy. I'm giving 100% free hand to her but sometimes I got excited to go close to her since we sleep togather keepting 1 foot distance.

She has asked me to pretend as happy - She is pretending that before her family and my family. But I m finding it hard. I sometimes put taungts to here why to pretend - lets be Happy.

Although I have decided to give full liberty to her to choose whatever she wanted to do.. but Its getting tough for me. cursing my luck !!! What shall I do !!!! No body to talk such things so posting here..to sick advise.

okie ,, I asked one question sometimes back. Now I think - I would like to delete it .. because I dont want other people (not now - may be in future) to know that I had asked such question in past ? This is for Yahoo Answers !

Hi so little bit background okie .. before 2 years I met one girl in arrange marriage kind of meeting .. we talked about 10/15 mins and concluded that ... we are not meant for each other.. i said no to my parents and she said no to hers ..but before a month or something we came in to contact again on facebook...we started talikng casually .. then we became frnds .. and suddenly we thoguht ke lets talk to our parents again .. (we yet to talk to parents) .. but since last 10/15 days ..we are chatting like anything ... almost from night 10PM to 1 AM..I mean is it normal ?,,I do noo whats happening ... moreover .. from last few days we started talking about sex and romance .. I mean out of our total conversation around 70% is around sex and Romance ... Is it normal ? Are we falling in love or something ? Any hints folks

May be for honeymoon ? considering normal life style.. I mean not too much hifi hotels and food ? Moderate hotels 3star like ? Any Idea,.. just asking. Cost when traveling from India

I was travelling to bagalore last weekend .. I heard "Jana mana Gana " as a ringtone of somebodys cell.. it was so delightful .. I mean I really liked it .. I thought lemme download from somewhere .. but before that I just thought .. it might be little bit humiliation of our national anthem.. right ?? Does any body have idea in this regard ? What our rules are here ? I mean the way I see ,, it will be good thought to have a such ringtone.. but not sure ..pls suggest

I am planning to send below message to a gilr I like. I tried all possible ways to have a converstation with here.. but its not possible so I searched her on FB and planning to send below message.. Please respond what you would reply if you receive this message

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This is probably the weirdest way to reach somebody, But I didnt find other options but through FB.. The moment I saw you for the first time at lunch area, Since then, I have not been able to stop my self thinking about you. I know Its crazy & wired..but its true... I always listen to what my instinct says.. this message is outcome of that.. I tried to see if any opportunity to have a conversation with you but there is no way I can reach you..There were hopes, we may come in to contact while you were opting for lunch in our office..but you stopped coming !!. .the only way I could reach you now is your electronic contacts..so tried to search you on social media & after efforts of almost 1 months I got your facebook profile..that is wid some different name.. Seems like You just wanted to keep your self away from unknowns like me... !

The only conversation between us so far is just few eye contacts, so I am not sure if you know me or even can identify who is xxx xxx <my name>...

Look I am not a very good looking person as you are .. but I am very good person (That s what most of the people say)....

I am not sure about you how u will perceive the message, but this is the only way I could see I can reach you .. The reason behind this message is to convey what I feel..Although I believe in love at first site, I will not say I have fallen in love since I saw you !!!, The only thing I wanted to say is. I really really would like to fall in love with you... The moment I saw you for the first time since then my instincts always bothers me to think about you.. In fact in parallel universe I feel like we are always together ..

I always feel like we are like wise.. just like we both believe in love at first site.. !! we both just "like" the comment given on our photo when we don't want to reply to that comment but acknowledge commenter .. I don't keep fasting in Ramadan (there are some reasons) so as you .. Isn' it ??? I dont have any more justifications but I am cent percent sure, there is some connection between us !!

I am not like teenager or collegian who just go mad behind a girl if she is too adorable. I don't have any proof/justification but there is something in you which always makes me feel having some connection with you ..I don't deny you are the most adorable girl I could ever imagine, but you are not alone.. There are so many adorable girls there . I don't feel that way for anybody but you...

Hey can we be more than good friends ? Can we meet ? Can we fall in love ? You can simply refuse me or reject me .. But this is my humble request just think for a while before making decision ?

I am pretty much mature guy..even if you discard this message with your refusal .. My Life won't stop... Life will always move on .. But if you decide to meet me and think if something can work out, I can assure it will be the best and wisest decision of your life.. It will be the beginning of new chapter of Joy, Happiness, respect with full of life & Emotions..Believe me it will be wonderful...if you deny Chapter will end here.. Just remember, If you reject me you may never regret your decision, but if you accept, I will make sure you will never have to regret that decision

I am a brave person (Although not enough brave to talk to you directly), do not hesitate to reply negatively if you want. but do reply, don't keep thread open. I can digest victory & can accept defeat, but can't be too anxious waiting for results !!

Hey ... Extreme Apology from my side if you didn't like this message.. Please have no ill feelings.. I am very famous amongst HW/FW senior engineering team, almost all managers know me well, so it is my humble request if you can keep these thing up to you only. In case if you wanna ask somebody about me, ask them without disclosing about this message..

Enjoy ..

PS: I am not extraordinary person, neither ordinary. Just imagine, even though you have entirely different name than your original name I could find you on Facebook.. That just shows how keen I am ..

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Please respond. Thanks in Advance..

I am really feeling ashamed of being Indian. We are in a need of "Big Revolution"..

Those 6 "impotants" must be hanged in public place.

If you know what I mean..

Folks, to be honest. I like one girl (of course single sided). I saw her in my office before 5/6 months. Its going to sound crazy but the moment I saw her, I haven't been able to stop my self thinking about her. Worst part is, I have no way or Idea or link that I can talk to her and be friend with her since she sits in some other building and I dont have good fiend who knws her .. Recently, I was searching her name on facebook & some how I couldn't find her. I thouhgt, I may get indtroduced to her through facebook and will see if something can work out. But I couldn't find her there. After that, I kind a ask somebody (I m not in much touch with him) who knows her, he told me that she is on Facebook but she has some different name. He didn't tell me what ?

SO I was just wondering why would somebody hide his original name on facebook ? She can make privacy settings such that she can't be found while searching. Why would chnage the name and make profile ?Any thoughts folks ?

I am looking for a few genuine NGOs in Ahmedabad, especially working for better education of underprivileged children..

Please note I said. Genuine .

Well... I am suffering from type 1 Diabetic(T1D), its simple, nothing much, just I dont have beta cells so I have to inject insulin from outside.

So, I had very good friend of mine, we were close enough, our parents were thinking that we would get married one day. But, few years back I got detected with T1D, after knowing this she started behaving weird, i asked her if she would like to take our relationship to next level, she replied so vague. So i just gave up.

Later, after a year time I was finding hard times in arranged kind of marriage to get good match .. 2 girls refused just knowing that I am T1D ? I gave up even looking for girls..asked my parents not to discuss any thing in that regard..

Recently, I have started developing feelings for one girl, (ofcourse from my side only) but I am afraid to move ahead, I am afraid even talk to her somehow, she will also refuse to be with me since I am t1D ...

I am average looking guy , but with extraordinary mind, I am working in a reputed IT company & I am one of the star performer in my group. People at quite senior level respect me because of my intellectual. I am earning handsome money, travels different countries for my works, belongs to good family, & never the less I am very honest person. But donno, If I will ever get a girl who will love to love me ??

Tomorrow I am attending one of my best friends' wedding reception .. what should I gift him ? I don't have much time.. just tomorrow half day till 4 o clock.. My budget is INR 3000.

Folks,

It may sound like crazy, but I saw one girl in my office one day and till then I haven't been able to stop thinking about her... I already ask one question in this regard and the only answer was to go after her try to talk with her. Let me give you bit background, recently one girls has joined our company in one of the department. The day I saw her, I feel like I liked her and sounds like there is some connection. I don't say I love her, but yes, I want to know her & I want to fall in love with her. She is kind of good looking girl and I am kind of average looking guy.

The only conversation between us so far is few eye contacts. I can talk to her if I get some opportunity, but she sits in some other office, her department is different and it is very much unlikely that there could be some project in which my self and her self may work together. She frequently comes to my office to have lunch with her friends.. I mean practically there is no way I can have conversation with her and can be friend with her.. I can't just go to her and tel her . "Hi I like you ? Can we go somewhere ?" I mean I have no clue.. I am really unable to stop thinking about her ? The only contact is I know few of my friends who just know her ... I mean they all joined together so they kind of having "Hi!Hello" kind of contacts .... So I am clue less. .. kind of getting in to desperation .. The only way I can reach her is through the official email address which I can access through the common server.. or her cell number ? what to do yaar.. ? I can't send her email directly neither call her..

I at least want to try something, I don't want to think after few years that I liked her and I even couldn't talk to her ...

Any Idea ? What to do ?

Hi All,

I have heard, so many people saying (in real life as well as in films, serials ) that "Hamare saath kuchh bura nahi ho sakta, kyunki hamne kabhi kisika bura nahi kiya" (Translation in English: Nothing bad will happen with us, since we haven't ever done any thing bad to anybody"). I just wanted to understand, any verse of Geeta or Aayat of Quarn say something like this ? Or it is written somewhere in other religious book ?

Are this word really true ? Please let me know if any body has any idea.

Thanks,

Rhythm

All,

I am working in reasonably big company. One Day I saw one girl & I felt like I liked her. Although, I have few information about her like her name and department, practically we don't know each other. The only conversation so far is few eye contacts happened accidentally. I also inquired, she is not in relationship with somebody else. Whenever I see her, I got amazed and I feel like there is some connection between her and myself. I would not say, I love her, But yes I feel that, I would like to fall in love with her. I am very intelligent and respected engineer in our team, she has just joined our company as a trainee engineer. I am not sure how old she is, but there could be gap of max 4/5 yrs between myself and her. I have no idea what should I do now ? I know, this is going to sound crazy, but the moment I set my eyes first time on her, till then I haven't been able to stop myself thinking about her ! I know, it could be infatuation. But not sure. I saw her mostly in cafeteria during lunch only. She sits in some other building, but she has her friends in our building, so she come to cafeteria in our building.

Of course, most boys feel like they felt in love whenever they see beautiful girl. That happened to me too in past & I just ignored thoughts so many times during my college/teenage days, But believe me this time my instincts are very strong & I continuously feel like some connections.

I can dare to go to her and ask for a tea or something to get introduced or I can express my feeling, but that would be suicide. She is definitely beautiful (may be much above average) and I am not that good looking guy (may be average), So there is a quite a bit possibility she just tell me "go to hell". But I am sure, once she will come to know about my virtue as a person as well as my intelligence & professional reputation , she will be impressed.

I know, its difficult to suggest any thing here, but still let me know if you have suggestion ?