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Why do they act tough or annoying to attract female attention or do immature things in front of girls when they can just be normal and themselves.

Holidays, sleepovers, christmas, parties etc?

I had my first visit to italy and its impossible not to notice that men there tend to walk close to you and stare at you, for a long time!

Ive been whistled at 3 times in one day by men in their late 20's and talked to by several strange men and Im only 14.

I also noticed the teenage boys tend to stare too or shout things at you or speak to you.

In my opinion its unacceptable and makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable. It happened so much and its never happened before.

I am aware this could offend people and I know not every single Italian guy is like this but its not fun when a 25 y/o guy stops his car to whistle at you when youre 14.

My left tonsil has been swollen for about 5 days. It started with a flu but now just the tonsil.

What are sutable pills and home remedies?

It only hurts slightly and only noticable while swallowing. Its not huge only slightly swollen and not inflamed.

(Not tonsilitis)

Thankyou :)

Like if say, Chris Brown went to jail.. would his body guards protect him or would other prisoners be able to go up and talk to him and stuff.

Ok so on tuesday I only had 5 hours sleep and on wednesday I got 6 hours sleep but I kept waking up in the night so I had a 1 hour nap in the evening but that night I struggled to sleep and only got 6 hours again.

Last night I got about 7-8 hours sleep but Im still incredibly tired and woke up feeling sick and hungry with a sore throat.

I sat down on the sofa at about 10:00am and woke up at 10:30am then I watched TV but I felt so sick so I went to bed at like 1:00 pm and woke up at 3:00pm but I still feel like Im going to faint with tiredness.

Help? Also any tips for getting to sleep and ways to prevent waking up early.

(I aim to go to bed at 10:00pm and get up at 7:00am but I usually fall asleep around 11:30 and wake up at 6:00am with additional waking up and drifting off through out the night).

Ok so I really hate seeing or hearing people throw up. I think its because once in class when I was little I saw this boy throw up, but at the time it didnt bother me.

I'll give you some examples...

Once while out for dinner my cousin choked and was gaging and I really thought he would throw up and I HAD to look away because I felt so awkward and I stared to shake with adrenaline.

My mum had a virus once and I stayed in my bed the entire night with headphones in so I didnt hear it. I didnt eat or touch anything because I thought the house would be comtaminated.

Also once I saw a boy throw up in the airport and I felt kind of traumatised for the whole flight and I lost my appetite.

So yeah. How do I stop being so afraid of vomit because Im scared to sit with strangers on planes incase they puke.

Im also travel sick (I take tablets to prevent it) if that matters. I never eat meat or takeaways incase I get food poisoning either so its hard to go out to eat with friends or snack with them.

What should I do?

I only drink from straws because I hate the idea that other people once drank from the cup (ocd?).

But whenever I finish the drink I find myself chewing the straw and then I end up chewing the entire thing! The whole straw is scrunched up in a ball in my mouth.

I don't know why I do it but I always do it and once I start I think "whats the point in stopping, I'll just chew the entire thing".

It might not be a bad addiction but a couple of times my mouth has bled because of it and I'm scared I damage my teeth.

What do I do? (weird question, sorry ahah)

So Ive been friends with this girl for like 5 years and shes really not the kind of person I like talking to because shes too quiet and boring and thinks shes above everyone but I cant confront her because she will start crying and it will be too awkward.

She always follows me and sits near me EVERY DAY. Its annoying because I need some space to be alone or hang out with other people. She is always copying my decisions or staring at me or trying to stand next to me. Even if I avoid her she still doesnt get that I need her to go away.

If I hang with other people or sit at a different table at lunch she acts like Im not allowed to speak to others and is like "why did you sit there" etc.

She wants me to do everything with her and always be her partner in class projects but I want to meet new people and move on because shes the most irratating person ever. Im relieved when shes off school.

Age: 14

Gender: Female

Weight: 7stone (98lbs)

Height: 5ft 3 (63inches)

No underlined health conditions.

I've been doing several exercises for 45- 60 mins everyday for about 4 and a half months now and I still don't have abs.

Obviously I dont expect to look like some crazy body builder (I'm a girl btw). But I expected to look at least slightly toned. I dont.

I have a flat stomach but I've always had one, I just want to be more muscly and toned in the stomach area but its just not working.

All I drink is water. I hardly ever eat carbs and fats. I admit, I dont go out of my way to eat protein but I eat meats and stuff as much as I can. I eat really healthy and do lots of exercises that focus on abdominal muscles.

Can anyone tell me how long its supposed to take to get abs or to get toned?

What should I eat more of/less of?

What are some good exercises, stretches and cardio exercises to help get toned?

It feels like Im making progress when I exercise, but everyday I look in the mirror and there is NO DIFFERENCE.

I eat really healthy and stuff like I honestly don't eat any cakes, crisps, chips, ice-cream, fizzy juice or alcohol.

I only drink water and I only eat 3 meals a day plus one snack which is usually an oat biscuit so I don't really eat alot of fat that I need to burn so does it matter that I don't ever do sit-ups or running or cycling?

People say you need 60 mins a day of exercise but most of the time I'm studying, at school or on the internet and I never get round to exercise.

I walk about 3-6 miles a week but only because I have to in order to get to school.

Everything seems too perfect. It feels like something bad is going to happen. I know this isnt really a question but still. Its really worrying.

I wouldn't say I had a PHOBIA of spiders but I really didnt like them and my heart would speed up every time I saw one. I was too scared to be in the same room as them and I was too scared to get close enough to even put a cup over them.

But tonight I went down to the kitchen and I saw one on the wall so I went up stairs to get hairspray (to spray on them because it sticks them to the wall so you don't loose them) and when I came back it was on the floor, instead of running away like I usually do, I just stood and watched it and I wasnt really grossed out or afraid anymore. I was able to put a cup over it and even observe it really close. I also felt bad because it was trying to get out the cup.

People take years to get over fears and stuff and mines have just gone its so weird. Has this ever happened to anyone else? What fears do you have? How did you get over your fear?

Its only been a couple of months I've been off school but I'm going back in too weeks and I cant wait because for some reason without school i struggle to remember and and I cant think of the words I want to say. I also cant remember what some words mean. Im not the best at maths but if you asked me to do a simple mental maths problem I probably couldn't do it.

When you're at school does your brain activity like.. help you remember stuff or whatever?

Ive had my Samsung Galaxy Ace for ages and I have a thing where I get 2GB internet every month. Its the start of June so i couldnt have used it all yet. Everything internet based wont work (instagram, twitter etc).

Also when somebody texts me I receive it hours later.. which is really annoying. Ive tried taking out the sim card for 20 seconds and re installing apps but nothing has worked!!

Ok so randomly my macbook wont let me log in, it usually asks for just a password but it asked for a username and password so I typed them in and it started loading but I left it for an hour and it was still loading and it wouldnt let me on.

My friend got me logged in when i let him fix it but it means I cant switch it off because if I do I need to get him to go through this whole thing that takes like half an hour.

The usual background is a galaxy and it has a toolbar at the bottom with google chrome and photoshop and stuff, but now thats all gone and its on safari and I cant get off safari, its like my macbook has completely reset for no reason and I cant log in anymore can somebody PLEASE help me Im terrible with computers!!!!

I need my mac back the way it was!!

Okay so my current DS lite is very old now and it has a few faults.. I tried to play my Pokemon Heartgold, which I've not used in about a year and it shows the title screen etc but when I press start it goes to a blue screen and basically says there is an error.

I tried my Pokemon White and it works but my Pokemon Pearl says error too.

Can somebody please tell me if this is a problem with my Heartgold and Pearl game or is it a problem with the DS because it is really old now and the sound, pictochat and screen is messed up so maybe the part you put the game in is broken too?

Will my Heartgold work in another DS because I can buy one tomorrow if it does but if my actual game is broken I will cry ._.

For example if you're not religious (me) they tell you that you're going to go to hell if you dont start to believe in god etc. Because in my opinion thats a really mean thing to say and to be honest, Christians are meant to be kind and understanding people. Although its mostly Christians who tell me Im going to hell or that Im the problem with people these days etc.

It goes for Athiests too, some of them are okay, but some of them.. when they come across a different belief they are completely rude about it. Cant they accept that everyone has a different perspective of the world... ?

Theres no need to be rude to people and try and make them change their religion just because its different to their own. I thought of religious people as understanding and open-minded etc but obviously not..

:(

The question speaks for its self really.