Charlie

This girl I have feelings for never was up front about how she felt, and she used to be really pissed at me for complex reasons, and i recently ran into her since we've been back at college, and although it was awkward for both of us, i could tell she was checking me out the entire time... before I saw her she would constantly ignore my texts, and after, although she occasionally doesn't respond, she has been texting me more and more. I texted her saying, " I felt you had, I just don't wanna go the next 4 months w/o being able to see you. There's sooo much I wanted to say today at lunch but I knew it wasn't the time and place. I care about you gabe, I just don't know what I'm supposed to do"

her response was, "just give it time"

You think I've still got a shot at this? she's not ready to see me yet though and I go back to school in 3 days.

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She's mentioned to me that before I screwed up that she did have feelings for me, and i think that is important to note th

This girl I have feelings for never was up front about how she felt, and she used to be really pissed at me for complex reasons, and i recently ran into her since we've been back at college, and although it was awkward for both of us, i could tell she was checking me out the entire time... before I saw her she would constantly ignore my texts, and after, although she occasionally doesn't respond, she has been texting me more and more. I texted her saying, " I felt you had, I just don't wanna go the next 4 months w/o being able to see you. There's sooo much I wanted to say today at lunch but I knew it wasn't the time and place. I care about you gabe, I just don't know what I'm supposed to do"

her response was, "just give it time"

You think I've still got a shot at this? she's not ready to see me yet though and I go back to school in 3 days.

Additional Details

She's mentioned to me that before I screwed up that she did have feelings for me, and i think that is important to note that I think I just need to get her trust back in order for things to work

This girl I have feelings for never was up front about how she felt, and she used to be really pissed at me for complex reasons, and i recently ran into her since we've been back at college, and although it was awkward for both of us, i could tell she was checking me out the entire time... before I saw her she would constantly ignore my texts, and after, although she occasionally doesn't respond, she has been texting me more and more. I texted her saying, " I felt you had, I just don't wanna go the next 4 months w/o being able to see you. There's sooo much I wanted to say today at lunch but I knew it wasn't the time and place. I care about you gabe, I just don't know what I'm supposed to do"

her response was, "just give it time"

You think I've still got a shot at this? she's not ready to see me yet though and I go back to school in 3 days.

This may be a long explanation.... SO, me and this girl became friends my senior year of high school, and at the time she was in a relationship with this guy for about 10 months, and during our friendship I would constantly have to suppress my feelings and I was persistent on just being friends, however, as we all know that never works out well.

I took her to my HC that year, (she was still dating that guy) and she flirted with me the ENTIRE night, and I was too shy to react. anyways, She had broken up with her bf about a month later and she called me that night saying she wanted to hangout, and i obviously agreed. We were watching the movie and before i knew it, she started making moves on me, and we eventually started kissing, however, she told me the next day that she still had feelings for her ex bf... The next 3 months/ the rest of my senior year, I told her how i felt yet she would tell me that she didn't have feelings for me, and that she loved having me as a best friend (hahah IK the friend zone)

Things led to another, and I just stopped talking to her a long period of time (about 4 months) I don't know why i ever bothered to contact her, but right before i left for college (about 2 weeks) I decided to hangout with her. We somehow agreed to keep things along the lines of friends with benefits. Things picked up a little better than i would have anticipated and she began flirting with me continuously. We hungout for a bit and then we began kissing, and the night soon ended after. I told her I was falling for her, and she told me she did not want a relationship across the country and that she didn't want to be in a relationship with me. I was really frustrated with myself for how things ended because i truly love this girl. She's meant so much to me and it seemed as if I had failed. The next night me and her as well as her twin sister hungout for the night. When i tried flirting with her she would mention things like "not in front of my sister" or other nonsense as such, and I only kissed her one time when we were both leaving, but I had tried to kiss her several times that failed. I assumed that we were never going to be together and that it really was friends with benefits, so i decided to do something (although dumb AF), risky... The next day I was hanging out with just her sister, and we kissed for about 2 minutes, and about 2 hours after this happened the girl tweeted something about how ****** up that was. I can't say i blame her, but she got very pissed. I tried explaining to her the innocence of it, and how her indecisiveness has led me to do this, but it really never worked. She ignored me for about a month, i would send texts roughly once a week trying to get an answer, but nothing came to fruition. However, One night she started responding and she admitted that she did have feelings for me, but what i did really hurt her. This was in september, and I tried seeing her over thanksgiving, but she kept coming up with bullshit excuses for why we can't hangout. I never saw her, but now I've tried to talk to her about what occurred. I asked her in a text

"So you're saying that you had absolutely no feelings towards me at the end of the summer? And ur also denying that you had told me you had feelings towards me prior to when I ****** up?"

Her response was:" I'm saying I don't love you

Love is a very strong word Charlie (my name) I don't mess around with that"

I would text her after this message about twice a day for 4 days and i never got a response. she's said things like "Hi chuck. I don't hate you, I just am very stubborn about all of this simply because of the fact that we became so close so fast and yet you still did that

But merry Christmas hope you're having a great day"

My main intention was to receive help, preferably from female users, who are willing to help give me advice. IVE ****** UP in this relationship with her, and it may seem like i should give up on her cause she's not worth it, but I truly care about her and i want her in my life, and I want the opportunity to love her more than a friend... id really appreciate advice on what to say or do in order to get her back.

This may be a long explanation.... SO, me and this girl became friends my senior year of high school, and at the time she was in a relationship with this guy for about 10 months, and during our friendship I would constantly have to suppress my feelings and I was persistent on just being friends, however, as we all know that never works out well.

I took her to my HC that year, (she was still dating that guy) and she flirted with me the ENTIRE night, and I was too shy to react. anyways, She had broken up with her bf about a month later and she called me that night saying she wanted to hangout, and i obviously agreed. We were watching the movie and before i knew it, she started making moves on me, and we eventually started kissing, however, she told me the next day that she still had feelings for her ex bf... The next 3 months/ the rest of my senior year, I told her how i felt yet she would tell me that she didn't have feelings for me, and that she loved having me as a best friend (hahah IK the friend zone)

Things led to another, and I just stopped talking to her a long period of time (about 4 months) I don't know why i ever bothered to contact her, but right before i left for college (about 2 weeks) I decided to hangout with her. We somehow agreed to keep things along the lines of friends with benefits. Things picked up a little better than i would have anticipated and she began flirting with me continuously. We hungout for a bit and then we began kissing, and the night soon ended after. I told her I was falling for her, and she told me she did not want a relationship across the country and that she didn't want to be in a relationship with me. I was really frustrated with myself for how things ended because i truly love this girl. She's meant so much to me and it seemed as if I had failed. The next night me and her as well as her twin sister hungout for the night. When i tried flirting with her she would mention things like "not in front of my sister" or other nonsense as such, and I only kissed her one time when we were both leaving, but I had tried to kiss her several times that failed. I assumed that we were never going to be together and that it really was friends with benefits, so i decided to do something (although dumb AF), risky... The next day I was hanging out with just her sister, and we kissed for about 2 minutes, and about 2 hours after this happened the girl tweeted something about how ****** up that was. I can't say i blame her, but she got very pissed. I tried explaining to her the innocence of it, and how her indecisiveness has led me to do this, but it really never worked. She ignored me for about a month, i would send texts roughly once a week trying to get an answer, but nothing came to fruition. However, One night she started responding and she admitted that she did have feelings for me, but what i did really hurt her. This was in september, and I tried seeing her over thanksgiving, but she kept coming up with bullshit excuses for why we can't hangout. I never saw her, but now I've tried to talk to her about what occurred. I asked her in a text

"So you're saying that you had absolutely no feelings towards me at the end of the summer? And ur also denying that you had told me you had feelings towards me prior to when I ****** up?"

Her response was:" I'm saying I don't love you

Love is a very strong word Charlie (my name) I don't mess around with that"

I would text her after this message about twice a day for 4 days and i never got a response. she's said things like "Hi chuck. I don't hate you, I just am very stubborn about all of this simply because of the fact that we became so close so fast and yet you still did that

But merry Christmas hope you're having a great day"

My main intention was to receive help, preferably from female users, who are willing to help give me advice. IVE ****** UP in this relationship with her, and it may seem like i should give up on her cause she's not worth it, but I truly care about her and i want her in my life, and I want the opportunity to love her more than a friend... id really appreciate advice on what to say or do in order to get her back.

This may be a long explanation.... SO, me and this girl became friends my senior year of high school, and at the time she was in a relationship with this guy for about 10 months, and during our friendship I would constantly have to suppress my feelings and I was persistent on just being friends, however, as we all know that never works out well.

I took her to my HC that year, (she was still dating that guy) and she flirted with me the ENTIRE night, and I was too shy to react. anyways, She had broken up with her bf about a month later and she called me that night saying she wanted to hangout, and i obviously agreed. We were watching the movie and before i knew it, she started making moves on me, and we eventually started kissing, however, she told me the next day that she still had feelings for her ex bf... The next 3 months/ the rest of my senior year, I told her how i felt yet she would tell me that she didn't have feelings for me, and that she loved having me as a best friend (hahah IK the friend zone)

Things led to another, and I just stopped talking to her a long period of time (about 4 months) I don't know why i ever bothered to contact her, but right before i left for college (about 2 weeks) I decided to hangout with her. We somehow agreed to keep things along the lines of friends with benefits. Things picked up a little better than i would have anticipated and she began flirting with me continuously. We hungout for a bit and then we began kissing, and the night soon ended after. I told her I was falling for her, and she told me she did not want a relationship across the country and that she didn't want to be in a relationship with me. I was really frustrated with myself for how things ended because i truly love this girl. She's meant so much to me and it seemed as if I had failed. The next night me and her as well as her twin sister hungout for the night. When i tried flirting with her she would mention things like "not in front of my sister" or other nonsense as such, and I only kissed her one time when we were both leaving, but I had tried to kiss her several times that failed. I assumed that we were never going to be together and that it really was friends with benefits, so i decided to do something (although dumb AF), risky... The next day I was hanging out with just her sister, and we kissed for about 2 minutes, and about 2 hours after this happened the girl tweeted something about how ****** up that was. I can't say i blame her, but she got very pissed. I tried explaining to her the innocence of it, and how her indecisiveness has led me to do this, but it really never worked. She ignored me for about a month, i would send texts roughly once a week trying to get an answer, but nothing came to fruition. However, One night she started responding and she admitted that she did have feelings for me, but what i did really hurt her. This was in september, and I tried seeing her over thanksgiving, but she kept coming up with bullshit excuses for why we can't hangout. I never saw her, but now I've tried to talk to her about what occurred. I asked her in a text

"So you're saying that you had absolutely no feelings towards me at the end of the summer? And ur also denying that you had told me you had feelings towards me prior to when I ****** up?"

Her response was:" I'm saying I don't love you

Love is a very strong word Charlie (my name) I don't mess around with that"

I would text her after this message about twice a day for 4 days and i never got a response. she's said things like "Hi chuck. I don't hate you, I just am very stubborn about all of this simply because of the fact that we became so close so fast and yet you still did that

But merry Christmas hope you're having a great day"

My main intention was to receive help, preferably from female users, who are willing to help give me advice. IVE ****** UP in this relationship with her, and it may seem like i should give up on her cause she's not worth it, but I truly care about her and i want her in my life, and I want the opportunity to love her more than a friend... id really appreciate advice on what to say or do in order to get her back.

Okay, im telling you ahead of time that this may be a long description.

There is this girl i really started talking to about 3 and a half months ago. At the time, she had a boyfriend of about 10 months and he went away to college for his freshmen year while her and i are still seniors in high school. I asked her to come with me to homecoming about 3 weeks after meeting her and we had soo much fun. at the after party she was sitting on my lap, and i was rubbing her thigh gently and she seemed to really like me. Her boyfriend got really mad that she decided to go to homecoming with me and her and him got in a few fights over the next month. they decided to break up from each other and her and i started to text/call/skype EVERYDAY. I asked her over to my house the next weekend and we watched a movie. She cuddled next to me and we were starting to rub one another. she pretended to grab my phone and run around my basement in hopes that i would grab her / flirt. a few minutes in, i grabbed the phone and look into her eyes. She kissed me out of nowhere. We made out for no more than 20 seconds and she sat back down on my couch. I was obviously hoping for some more kissing but she said she needed to leave. I gave her a quick kiss when she left and i didnt talk to her until the next day when she told me she was sorry she made the move to kiss me, and that she still liked her old boyfriend.

Weeks flew by, and i still talked to her, but i got the feeling i shouldnt ever pursue her again. It was xmas break and i was in florida and while i was away, she went to a party and started hanging out with one of my friends. Apparently they hooked up, and they are now thinking about being in a relationship together.

Last weekend, this girl was leading some retreat at her school and during the reflection time wrote me a note, which i just read today for the first time. It basically stated how she knows we have grown apart over the last few weeks and that she wants to be friends again and go to mass together or go out to lunch and just talk about how we are doing. I texted her back saying that i felt like i was being replaced and that i seriously thought she liked me more than just a friend. She responded by saying "I honestly was open to the idea but i couldn't take the risk and lose you as my friend which happened anyways I see" the only response i had was when i texted back saying , "I realyl dont know what to do/say anymore" What can i do!!! i really want her back. I am positive she is about to date one of my old "good friends" haha i hate him now though>>>

Okay, im telling you ahead of time that this may be a long description.

There is this girl i really started talking to about 3 and a half months ago. At the time, she had a boyfriend of about 10 months and he went away to college for his freshmen year while her and i are still seniors in high school. I asked her to come with me to homecoming about 3 weeks after meeting her and we had soo much fun. at the after party she was sitting on my lap, and i was rubbing her thigh gently and she seemed to really like me. Her boyfriend got really mad that she decided to go to homecoming with me and her and him got in a few fights over the next month. they decided to break up from each other and her and i started to text/call/skype EVERYDAY. I asked her over to my house the next weekend and we watched a movie. She cuddled next to me and we were starting to rub one another. she pretended to grab my phone and run around my basement in hopes that i would grab her / flirt. a few minutes in, i grabbed the phone and look into her eyes. She kissed me out of nowhere. We made out for no more than 20 seconds and she sat back down on my couch. I was obviously hoping for some more kissing but she said she needed to leave. I gave her a quick kiss when she left and i didnt talk to her until the next day when she told me she was sorry she made the move to kiss me, and that she still liked her old boyfriend.

Weeks flew by, and i still talked to her, but i got the feeling i shouldnt ever pursue her again. It was xmas break and i was in florida and while i was away, she went to a party and started hanging out with one of my friends. Apparently they hooked up, and they are now thinking about being in a relationship together.

Last weekend, this girl was leading some retreat at her school and during the reflection time wrote me a note, which i just read today for the first time. It basically stated how she knows we have grown apart over the last few weeks and that she wants to be friends again an

Okay, im telling you ahead of time that this may be a long description.

There is this girl i really started talking to about 3 and a half months ago. At the time, she had a boyfriend of about 10 months and he went away to college for his freshmen year while her and i are still seniors in high school. I asked her to come with me to homecoming about 3 weeks after meeting her and we had soo much fun. at the after party she was sitting on my lap, and i was rubbing her thigh gently and she seemed to really like me. Her boyfriend got really mad that she decided to go to homecoming with me and her and him got in a few fights over the next month. they decided to break up from each other and her and i started to text/call/skype EVERYDAY. I asked her over to my house the next weekend and we watched a movie. She cuddled next to me and we were starting to rub one another. she pretended to grab my phone and run around my basement in hopes that i would grab her / flirt. a few minutes in, i grabbed the phone and look into her eyes. She kissed me out of nowhere. We made out for no more than 20 seconds and she sat back down on my couch. I was obviously hoping for some more kissing but she said she needed to leave. I gave her a quick kiss when she left and i didnt talk to her until the next day when she told me she was sorry she made the move to kiss me, and that she still liked her old boyfriend.

Weeks flew by, and i still talked to her, but i got the feeling i shouldnt ever pursue her again. It was xmas break and i was in florida and while i was away, she went to a party and started hanging out with one of my friends. Apparently they hooked up, and they are now thinking about being in a relationship together.

Last weekend, this girl was leading some retreat at her school and during the reflection time wrote me a note, which i just read today for the first time. It basically stated how she knows we have grown apart over the last few weeks and that she wants to be friends again and go to mass together or go out to lunch and just talk about how we are doing. I texted her back saying that i felt like i was being replaced and that i seriously thought she liked me more than just a friend. She responded by saying "I honestly was open to the idea but i couldn't take the risk and lose you as my friend which happened anyways I see" the only response i had was when i texted back saying , "I realyl dont know what to do/say anymore" What can i do!!! i really want her back.

I kinda like this girl who i have just started talking to and i had one of my good friends ask her if she liked me and her response was "Chuck (me) is like my best friend and i'm not looking for anything more than that at this point." P.S. i bought her a xmas gift a few weeks ago and when i saw her i gave her a quick kiss on the lips and when i texted her telling her i was sorry if i caught her off guard. However, she later responded by saying "lets see what happens?!" We used to talk everyday for about a week and now i barely talk to her. What should i do? i think i may have rushed things and i feel i scared her off....

I kinda like this girl who i have just started talking to and i had one of my good friends ask her if she liked me and her response was "Chuck (me) is like my best friend and i'm not looking for anything more than that at this point." P.S. i bought her a xmas gift a few weeks ago and when i saw her i gave her a quick kiss on the lips and when i texted her telling her i was sorry if i caught her off guard. However, she later responded by saying "lets see what happens?!" We used to talk everyday for about a week and now i barely talk to her. What should i do? i think i may have rushed things and i feel i scared her off....

Charlie

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It looks like she doesn't like me anymore but what do I do?

I know people think I'm rushing my relationship with this girl by I really like her. I kissed her a few weeks ago when I bought her a small gift for Christmas. She seemed taken back when I did it and she said she wasn't sure of what she wanted to do. We texted later that night and she told me "lets just see what happens." Two days ago, her grandma died. However, tonight, me and this girl went over to my friends house. Her twin sister convinced her to go and so the three of us carpooled. It had to of been only 30ish minutes and she started getting sad and wanted to go home. So we left her twin sister at the house and me and we drove home. We talked the entire way home about the most random things and then somehow this guy she met at spring break popped up in convo ad she says she doesn't want to date a 21 year old and I asked if she liked him and she said I'm not really sure. She told me how a last week this guy texted her when he was super drunk about how he wants to go out with her. I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I love this girl and I think she knows how I feel. Is it worth trying to make things work? She told me to text her when I got home after dropping her off and I did. And I also told her that I "am really sorry tonight was rough for you. I love you so much and it's hard to see you in so much pain. She responded by saying "thank you chuck. It has been a really long week. I'm so glad you're there for me..." I told her that next weekend I'd invite her to my house to just relax and watch a movie and her response was " okay :) that sounds good"

I told me friend to ask her if she liked me and her response to him was "chuck (me) is like my best friend and I'm not looking for more than that at this point"

I know people think I'm rushing my relationship with this girl by I really like her. I kissed her a few weeks ago when I bought her a small gift for Christmas. She seemed taken back when I did it and she said she wasn't sure of what she wanted to do. We texted later that night and she told me "lets just see what happens." Two days ago, her grandma died. However, tonight, me and this girl went over to my friends house. Her twin sister convinced her to go and so the three of us carpooled. It had to of been only 30ish minutes and she started getting sad and wanted to go home. So we left her twin sister at the house and me and we drove home. We talked the entire way home about the most random things and then somehow this guy she met at spring break popped up in convo ad she says she doesn't want to date a 21 year old and I asked if she liked him and she said I'm not really sure. She told me how a last week this guy texted her when he was super drunk about how he wants to go out with her. I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I love this girl and I think she knows how I feel. Is it worth trying to make things work? She told me to text her when I got home after dropping her off and I did. And I also told her that I "am really sorry tonight was rough for you. I love you so much and it's hard to see you in so much pain. She responded by saying "thank you chuck. It has been a really long week. I'm so glad you're there for me..." I told her that next weekend I'd invite her to my house to just relax and watch a movie and her response was " okay :) that sounds good"

I told me friend to ask her if she liked me and her response to him was "chuck (me) is like my best friend and I'm not looking for more than that at this point"

I know people think I'm rushing my relationship with this girl by I really like her. I kissed her a few weeks ago when I bought her a small gift for Christmas. She seemed taken back when I did it and she said she wasn't sure of what she wanted to do. We texted later that night and she told me "lets just see what happens." Two days ago, her grandma died. However, tonight, me and this girl went over to my friends house. Her twin sister convinced her to go and so the three of us carpooled. It had to of been only 30ish minutes and she started getting sad and wanted to go home. So we left her twin sister at the house and me and we drove home. We talked the entire way home about the most random things and then somehow this guy she met at spring break popped up in convo ad she says she doesn't want to date a 21 year old and I asked if she liked him and she said I'm not really sure. She told me how a last week this guy texted her when he was super drunk about how he wants to go out with her. I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I love this girl and I think she knows how I feel. Is it worth trying to make things work? She told me to text her when I got home after dropping her off and I did. And I also told her that I "am really sorry tonight was rough for you. I love you so much and it's hard to see you in so much pain. She responded by saying "thank you chuck. It has been a really long week. I'm so glad you're there for me..." I told her that next weekend I'd invite her to my house to just relax and watch a movie and her response was " okay :) that sounds good" p.s I haven't spoken to her for probably a day and a half

I know people think I'm rushing my relationship with this girl by I really like her. I kissed her a few weeks ago when I bought her a small gift for Christmas. She seemed taken back when I did it and she said she wasn't sure of what she wanted to do. We texted later that night and she told me "lets just see what happens." Two days ago, her grandma died. However, tonight, me and this girl went over to my friends house. Her twin sister convinced her to go and so the three of us carpooled. It had to of been only 30ish minutes and she started getting sad and wanted to go home. So we left her twin sister at the house and me and we drove home. We talked the entire way home about the most random things and then somehow this guy she met at spring break popped up in convo ad she says she doesn't want to date a 21 year old and I asked if she liked him and she said I'm not really sure. She told me how a last week this guy texted her when he was super drunk about how he wants to go out with her. I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I love this girl and I think she knows how I feel. Is it worth trying to make things work? She told me to text her when I got home after dropping her off and I did. And I also told her that I "am really sorry tonight was rough for you. I love you so much and it's hard to see you in so much pain. She responded by saying "thank you chuck. It has been a really long week. I'm so glad you're there for me..." I told her that next weekend I'd invite her to my house to just relax and watch a movie and her response was " okay :) that sounds good"

I know people think I'm rushing my relationship with this girl by I really like her. I kissed her a few weeks ago when I bought her a small gift for Christmas. She seemed taken back when I did it and she said she wasn't sure of what she wanted to do. We texted later that night and she told me "lets just see what happens." Two days ago, her grandma died. However, tonight, me and this girl went over to my friends house. Her twin sister convinced her to go and so the three of us carpooled. It had to of been only 30ish minutes and she started getting sad and wanted to go home. So we left her twin sister at the house and me and we drove home. We talked the entire way home about the most random things and then somehow this guy she met at spring break popped up in convo ad she says she doesn't want to date a 21 year old and I asked if she liked him and she said I'm not really sure. She told me how a last week this guy texted her when he was super drunk about how he wants to go out with her. I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I love this girl and I think she knows how I feel. Is it worth trying to make things work? She told me to text her when I got home after dropping her off and I did. And I also told her that I "am really sorry tonight was rough for you. I love you so much and it's hard to see you in so much pain. She responded by saying "thank you chuck. It has been a really long week. I'm so glad you're there for me..." I told her that next weekend I'd invite her to my house to just relax and watch a movie and her response was " okay :) that sounds good"

I know people think I'm rushing my relationship with this girl by I really like her. I kissed her a few weeks ago when I bought her a small gift for Christmas. She seemed taken back when I did it and she said she wasn't sure of what she wanted to do. We texted later that night and she told me "lets just see what happens." Two days ago, her grandma died. However, tonight, me and this girl went over to my friends house. Her twin sister convinced her to go and so the three of us carpooled. It had to of been only 30ish minutes and she started getting sad and wanted to go home. So we left her twin sister at the house and me and we drove home. We talked the entire way home about the most random things and then somehow this guy she met at spring break popped up in convo ad she says she doesn't want to date a 21 year old and I asked if she liked him and she said I'm not really sure. She told me how a last week this guy texted her when he was super drunk about how he wants to go out with her. I seriously don't know what to do anymore. I love this girl and I think she knows how I feel. Is it worth trying to make things work? She told me to text her when I got home after dropping her off and I did. And I also told her that I "am really sorry tonight was rough for you. I love you so much and it's hard to see you in so much pain. She responded by saying "thank you chuck. It has been a really long week. I'm so glad you're there for me..."

Okay, so there is this girl I like and I'm not quite sure if she likes me. However, yesterday morning their grandmother passed away and I I asked her yesterday night if she wanted to come to my house and watch a movie. She originally said yes and about an hour or so later, she texted me saying she kinda felt like being with her family. I never really texted her at all last night other than telling her I was going to bed and that I hope she was okay. She didnt respond. Tonight however I was talking to her and asked if she wanted to go to my friends house for the football game( we are 17) there most likely will be drinking but regardless, she hesitantly is going to go. I did not force her to go in any way. She has a twin sister who somehow told her to come. I'm going to be going to the family's house tonight and carpool from their but I was wondering if I should do anything special and bring them some flowers or something. And what should I do with this girl I like? I'm not going to be kissing her tonight cause I'm not really looking to add to her emotions.... Thanks!

There is this girl that i have just started talking to over the last few weeks. She is very smart and busy with school work, so i never really have long conversations with her. She always seems to be busy. A few days ago, she was at work and i decided to buy her a gift for Christmas (spent about 25 dollars). I told her to come by my house to pick it up and i met her outside my house. I gave her the gift and she instantly loved it and gave me a big hug. i talked with her for about 15 minutes and i went in for a quick kiss. She seemed surprised i did this and i asked her if she was surprised and she said tht "she doesnt know what she wants to do yet" The weird thing though was that she and I talked with each other for about 15 more minute and we she held one to one of my hands as we talked. I gave her a hug goodbye and then she texted me when i got home. she said " you didnt need to get me a shirt! you're way to nice to me. thank you so much :)" I responded saying "You're so welcome! its not a big deal at all... and i am sorry if i caught you off guard (with the kiss). Whatever you feel towards me is one thing but i really do like you and care about you so getting you a gift was not a big deal."

She then texted me saying "you're sweet :) thank you so much, plus it fits perfectly. You're a great guy aqnd yeah i dont know how i feel right now but i will." and i asked her what she was not sure of and she said she wasnt sure if she wants to have a boyfriend or a thing with someone (i think it is because we are both seniors in high school) she then told me "Lets just see waht happens between us?!"

i responded by saying, "i agree. I am not looking to force a anything. I only wanna have a thing with someone if they feel the same towards me... I dont mind waiting for how things play out between us."

Her response was "Yeah i agree. Well, all i know is that you're sweet and i love hanging out with you soooo yeah haha" Does she like me or is she foreshadowing the friend card?? Should I ask her to hangout this weekend or should I wait and see if she asks me? I'm really kinda wondering of she likes me. I have gotten pretty mixed feelings how she feels.

There is this girl that i have just started talking to over the last few weeks. She is very smart and busy with school work, so i never really have long conversations with her. She always seems to be busy. A few days ago, she was at work and i decided to buy her a gift for Christmas (spent about 25 dollars). I told her to come by my house to pick it up and i met her outside my house. I gave her the gift and she instantly loved it and gave me a big hug. i talked with her for about 15 minutes and i went in for a quick kiss. She seemed surprised i did this and i asked her if she was surprised and she said tht "she doesnt know what she wants to do yet" The weird thing though was that she and I talked with each other for about 15 more minute and we she held one to one of my hands as we talked. I gave her a hug goodbye and then she texted me when i got home. she said " you didnt need to get me a shirt! you're way to nice to me. thank you so much :)" I responded saying "You're so welcome! its not a big deal at all... and i am sorry if i caught you off guard (with the kiss). Whatever you feel towards me is one thing but i really do like you and care about you so getting you a gift was not a big deal."

She then texted me saying "you're sweet :) thank you so much, plus it fits perfectly. You're a great guy aqnd yeah i dont know how i feel right now but i will." and i asked her what she was not sure of and she said she wasnt sure if she wants to have a boyfriend or a thing with someone (i think it is because we are both seniors in high school) she then told me "Lets just see waht happens between us?!"

i responded by saying, "i agree. I am not looking to force a anything. I only wanna have a thing with someone if they feel the same towards me... I dont mind waiting for how things play out between us."

Her response was "Yeah i agree. Well, all i know is that you're sweet and i love hanging out with you soooo yeah haha" Does she like me or is she foreshadowing the friend card??