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my friends think that im a natural blonde. i just have my moments...and theres alot of them.
I am SO very confused. Someone, HELP?!?!?
I have this really great guy friend. However, lately he has been acting as if he wants to be more than friends, as if he wants a relationship, but I can't really tell. He goes to my church, and we've started texting more, but we don't go to the same school. He helps me almost every Sunday with my math homework, and is always excited to see me.
About 3 weeks ago I was in the supply closet in the Sunday School area getting construction paper for a craft that the class I teach was doing. He came in the closet and stood behind me, wrapping his arms around my waist. Then he asked me about my week and we both went off to help with our different classes.
The next week, we both stayed after to have lunch, and help with the sunday school presentation/decorate the church for Christmas. We had lunch together, and then he went into the sanctuary to set up the sound system for the sunday school presentation. After about 45 minutes of being apart (during the presentation), I was decorating one of the Christmas trees around the church and he came up behind me and again wrapped his arms around my waist and said that he missed me. We stood there and talked about how Christmastime is hard for me this year because of my grandma passing away the Christmas prior. Then we set up one of the nativity scenes, and decorated another tree. Before we left, we were standing in one of the rooms talking and he told me I had glitter on my forehead (he had earlier sprinkled glitter from ornaments all over me!), and then went on to clean it off.
Last week, he pulled me into his lap when we both were in the youth room, put his hand on my waist, gave me many hugs, and when my mom said she was going to make him take me home, he said, "I would after about 3 or 4 hours. We'd go to lunch then my house and have some fun"
Monday night he tried to talk me into studying for a test I had the next day, and one of the things he said triggered me to freak out because of what a guy in the past had done to me. I told him this, and he sat there with me and helped me to talk through what had happened, understanding and not judging. He promised that he would never use me in any way, and that he would never do the things that happened to me with the other guy.
The next night he told me that I make him smile. He has also told me that he wishes we went to the same school so that I would know his circle of friends. However, what confused me was that he told me "I don't have a way with words, but you're a great friend. Almost like a sister or something." Could this just be him being nervous, not wanting to tell me how he truly feels?
Wednesday night was a bad night for me, and he told me "What's up? Something's wrong, I can feel it from here. Something or someone did something to you, what did they/it do?" So, I told him, knowing that I can tell him everything, and he told me that I needed to just let someone hold me. All my friends say that they can tell that being around him has made me happier, and a better person, and that him saying that probably meant that he wants to hold me. He also promised to give me a nice big hug the next time he sees me.
I saw him yesterday at church, and things were perfect. He hugged me and got smiley as soon as he saw me. He put his arm around me when we went upstairs to look for stuff for a craft for my Sunday School class. We went separate ways, but then I was in the supply closet and he blocked me and I playfully hit him to try to get him to move. Then when church was over, he was going to help me with Geometry. We went into the youth room and sat on the couch and once everyone left he put his arm around me. We sat there working on my Geo for like an hour and a half. Throughout that time, he put his arm around me many times, held me close, held my hand to keep me warm, held my other hand while working me through a problem. And before we left we hugged for like 5 minutes. More than once.
What should I do!? How can I hint to him that I want him to ask me out, and that I like him??
2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade agoHow should I react? What should I do!? HELP!!?
I have this really great guy friend. However, lately he has been acting as if he wants to be more than friends, as if he wants a relationship, but I can't really tell. He goes to my church, and we've started texting more, but we don't go to the same school. He helps me almost every Sunday with my math homework, and is always excited to see me.
About 3 weeks ago I was in the supply closet in the Sunday School area getting construction paper for a craft that the class I teach was doing. He came in the closet and stood behind me, wrapping his arms around my waist. Then he asked me about my week and we both went off to help with our different classes.
The next week, we both stayed after to have lunch, and help with the sunday school presentation/decorate the church for Christmas. We had lunch together, and then he went into the sanctuary to set up the sound system for the sunday school presentation. After about 45 minutes of being apart (during the presentation), I was decorating one of the Christmas trees around the church and he came up behind me and again wrapped his arms around my waist and said that he missed me. We stood there and talked about how Christmastime is hard for me this year because of my grandma passing away the Christmas prior. Then we set up one of the nativity scenes, and decorated another tree. Before we left, we were standing in one of the rooms talking and he told me I had glitter on my forehead (he had earlier sprinkled glitter from ornaments all over me!), and then went on to clean it off.
Last week, he pulled me into his lap when we both were in the youth room, put his hand on my waist, gave me many hugs, and when my mom said she was going to make him take me home, he said, "I would after about 3 or 4 hours. We'd go to lunch then my house and have some fun"
Monday night he tried to talk me into studying for a test I had the next day, and one of the things he said triggered me to freak out because of what a guy in the past had done to me. I told him this, and he sat there with me and helped me to talk through what had happened, understanding and not judging. He promised that he would never use me in any way, and that he would never do the things that happened to me with the other guy.
The next night he told me that I make him smile. He has also told me that he wishes we went to the same school so that I would know his circle of friends. However, what confused me was that he told me "I don't have a way with words, but you're a great friend. Almost like a sister or something." Could this just be him being nervous, not wanting to tell me how he truly feels?
Wednesday night was a bad night for me, and he told me "What's up? Something's wrong, I can feel it from here. Something or someone did something to you, what did they/it do?" So, I told him, knowing that I can tell him everything, and he told me that I needed to just let someone hold me. All my friends say that they can tell that being around him has made me happier, and a better person, and that him saying that probably meant that he wants to hold me. He also promised to give me a nice big hug the next time he sees me.
I saw him yesterday at church, and things were perfect. He hugged me and got smiley as soon as he saw me. He put his arm around me when we went upstairs to look for stuff for a craft for my Sunday School class. We went separate ways, but then I was in the supply closet and he blocked me and I playfully hit him to try to get him to move. Then when church was over, he was going to help me with Geometry. We went into the youth room and sat on the couch and once everyone left he put his arm around me. We sat there working on my Geo for like an hour and a half. Throughout that time, he put his arm around me many times, held me close, held my hand to keep me warm, held my other hand while working me through a problem. And before we left we hugged for like 5 minutes. More than once.
What should I do!? How can I hint to him that I want him to ask me out, and that I like him?? Do you think he truly likes me or am I imagining things??
1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade agoHow to get him to ask me out?
I have this really great guy friend. However, lately he has been acting as if he wants to be more than friends, as if he wants a relationship, but I can't really tell. He goes to my church, and we've started texting more, but we don't go to the same school. He helps me almost every Sunday with my math homework, and is always excited to see me.
About 3 weeks ago I was in the supply closet in the Sunday School area getting construction paper for a craft that the class I teach was doing. He came in the closet and stood behind me, wrapping his arms around my waist. Then he asked me about my week and we both went off to help with our different classes.
The next week, we both stayed after to have lunch, and help with the sunday school presentation/decorate the church for Christmas. We had lunch together, and then he went into the sanctuary to set up the sound system for the sunday school presentation. After about 45 minutes of being apart (during the presentation), I was decorating one of the Christmas trees around the church and he came up behind me and again wrapped his arms around my waist and said that he missed me. We stood there and talked about how Christmastime is hard for me this year because of my grandma passing away the Christmas prior. Then we set up one of the nativity scenes, and decorated another tree. Before we left, we were standing in one of the rooms talking and he told me I had glitter on my forehead (he had earlier sprinkled glitter from ornaments all over me!), and then went on to clean it off.
Last week, he pulled me into his lap when we both were in the youth room, put his hand on my waist, gave me many hugs, and when my mom said she was going to make him take me home, he said, "I would after about 3 or 4 hours. We'd go to lunch then my house and have some fun"
Monday night he tried to talk me into studying for a test I had the next day, and one of the things he said triggered me to freak out because of what a guy in the past had done to me. I told him this, and he sat there with me and helped me to talk through what had happened, understanding and not judging. He promised that he would never use me in any way, and that he would never do the things that happened to me with the other guy.
The next night he told me that I make him smile. He has also told me that he wishes we went to the same school so that I would know his circle of friends. However, what confused me was that he told me "I don't have a way with words, but you're a great friend. Almost like a sister or something." Could this just be him being nervous, not wanting to tell me how he truly feels?
Wednesday night was a bad night for me, and he told me "What's up? Something's wrong, I can feel it from here. Something or someone did something to you, what did they/it do?" So, I told him, knowing that I can tell him everything, and he told me that I needed to just let someone hold me. All my friends say that they can tell that being around him has made me happier, and a better person, and that him saying that probably meant that he wants to hold me. He also promised to give me a nice big hug the next time he sees me.
What should I do? Do you think that all these things he's done are signs of him liking me? How can I show him that I like him back?
1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade agoWhat do you think. . .?
I have this really great guy friend. However, lately he has been acting as if he wants to be more than friends, as if he wants a relationship, but I can't really tell. He goes to my church, and we've started texting more, but we don't go to the same school. He helps me almost every Sunday with my math homework, and is always excited to see me.
About 3 weeks ago I was in the supply closet in the Sunday School area getting construction paper for a craft that the class I teach was doing. He came in the closet and stood behind me, wrapping his arms around my waist. Then he asked me about my week and we both went off to help with our different classes.
The next week, we both stayed after to have lunch, and help with the sunday school presentation/decorate the church for Christmas. We had lunch together, and then he went into the sanctuary to set up the sound system for the sunday school presentation. After about 45 minutes of being apart (during the presentation), I was decorating one of the Christmas trees around the church and he came up behind me and again wrapped his arms around my waist and said that he missed me. We stood there and talked about how Christmastime is hard for me this year because of my grandma passing away the Christmas prior. Then we set up one of the nativity scenes, and decorated another tree. Before we left, we were standing in one of the rooms talking and he told me I had glitter on my forehead (he had earlier sprinkled glitter from ornaments all over me!), and then went on to clean it off.
Last week, he pulled me into his lap when we both were in the youth room, put his hand on my waist, gave me many hugs, and when my mom said she was going to make him take me home, he said, "I would after about 3 or 4 hours. We'd go to lunch then my house and have some fun"
Monday night he tried to talk me into studying for a test I had the next day, and one of the things he said triggered me to freak out because of what a guy in the past had done to me. I told him this, and he sat there with me and helped me to talk through what had happened, understanding and not judging. He promised that he would never use me in any way, and that he would never do the things that happened to me with the other guy.
The next night he told me that I make him smile. He has also told me that he wishes we went to the same school so that I would know his circle of friends. However, what confused me was that he told me "I don't have a way with words, but you're a great friend. Almost like a sister or something." Could this just be him being nervous, not wanting to tell me how he truly feels?
Wednesday night was a bad night for me, and he told me "What's up? Something's wrong, I can feel it from here. Something or someone did something to you, what did they/it do?" So, I told him, knowing that I can tell him everything, and he told me that I needed to just let someone hold me. All my friends say that they can tell that being around him has made me happier, and a better person, and that him saying that probably meant that he wants to hold me. He also promised to give me a nice big hug the next time he sees me.
What should I do? Do you think that all these things he's done are signs of him liking me? How can I show him that I like him back?
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