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Going through a parking lot, an attractive woman in thigh high boots went by, the Salvation Army guy was staring as was my hub, he said to the bell ringer, "it looks good to me too!" They both laughed and I was ticked. I asked him if he realized that that offended me and he said, madly, that I was being 'silly" and there was nothing he did wrong. I feel thoroughly dis respected, again, he just doesn't give my feelings any respect at all. He got mad at ME for "being absurd" again, he didn't do anything and it should've all been left at the door. He never gets it, he's never wrong and I am always giving in. Do I just let it go or try to get him to see that I matter, my opinions matter and he should at least care a little? Or am I just being a twit? He's never been humiliated or ashamed of anything. Is there ANY thing I could say to get his attention? I'm not going anywhere but what can you say to get him to FEEL?

My son and brother are the only one's who live near me and we've always holiday stuff over at my house. This past year has been hard on them both; no jobs and evictions, I have tried to help but they don't ever make good decisions. They are often ungrateful and sometimes quite lazy. I can't give them anymore, it doesn't help, I can't find them jobs and a place to live. My hub and I won't be here for Christmas but Thanksgiving, I don't know if I should feed them again, without any help, they never offer to even help clean up...I just don't want to deal. My conscience and heart are very conflicted. I don't hear from them unless they need something. What do I do?

He's 25 and just can't ever catch a break. He's off all the drugs and had a job but stuff just keeps happening. He doesn't live with me but I have handed him countless amounts of money and finally said no more. Well, something else happened and I think he's lost another job. I just worry about him, he's smart but didn't want to go to school and he gets so frustrated, and it breaks my heart. Do I just keep saying, "I love you but you gotta grow up and deal?" It's hard out there, I know but he's made some bad decisions, how does a mom deal with this?

Thanks for some true thoughts and help.

I bought a cheap guitar online and had my son try to tune it. He says he can't because the first fret(?) bar is about an inch and a half down the neck. Does it matter where they are? Should I add a pic?

And when they return from the "haunting" some of the men are embedded in the ship itself, any ideas what this movie is? It's not Ghost ship. I think it's a bit older, that's all I know.

I loved this old "song" about fish, the narrator is like a detective... it's all a play on words...Crap(Carp) I wish I could remember more.. May be you do. I have heard it on the internet ages ago but have lost it. My mind and more.

He has had some difficulties lately. He has found a job and a new place to live. He wasn't living with me.

I thought we had a decent relationship, but he failed to acknowledge Xmas altogether. I He didn't call or come by or anything. I have a gift card for him. Should I go find him and give him his $200.00 Walmart card?

One morning nothing worked. There was no internet light on my modem, an amber internet light on my netgear router and neither the computer upstairs or my laptop could find the wireless connection.

I have tried everything. I've pinged and ipconfig'ed and reset, you name it. I can set the modem up and get to the internet that way, as I am now, but when I set up the router the lights are all on but it quits and the wireless's can't find it. A new router or something else?