Sandi M

My brother was divorced in November and has started dating this one woman. They've had 3 great dates, few little kisses, but he said when he tries to kiss her "better", she pulls back. He's kind of losing interest in her he says. I told him I would post it here..:) Do you think she likes him? Thanks!

A few days ago I met some of my husband's co-workers, their wives/girlfriend. The girlfriend is 20sh, we are in our 40's. She is strutting around all day in a tiny bikini, nice body of course.We had all went fishing for the first time together. They started drinking at 7 a.m. I am made the designated driver so I can get our boat home safely.

My husband gets out of his boat in the water and she's in the water with another couple. He asks me to take his buddy back to shore in our boat to retrieve something, knowing full well that I do not know anything about driving the boat and has these two guys that I just met get in the boat with me leaving him there. One friend drove the boat..Upon return, is sitting on the back of the other boat looking pretty happy, if you know what I mean. Oh, yes she's bobbing up and down in the water in front of him. Later on in the afternoon, he basically ignores me and is standing by her, smiling, laughing, and this girl is loving the attention these married men are showing her and really playing the crowd with her prancing around and loving the attention. It was almost more than I could stand. I start to load our boat from the island, he is still standing there. Now I hear him asking her group, well, he was only speaking to her...about coming back and staying all night at our house instead of them driving back 50 miles. I have one spare room with a twin bed. In the end, they made plans to stay at a motel.

Now, my question is...shouldn't I be upset? I was sober and he had been drinking, but he has never ever behaved like this before in 9 years of marriage. In fact, he has always been jealous of me and now he's sending me away in the boat with two guys? I became extremely upset and he says he didn't do anything wrong and that I'm being stupid and childish. Would you call this emotional cheating? I have never felt so let down and by the way, his friends on the way to the shore said he was so lucky to have me, meaning I'm not an unattractive person. Why did he do this after so many years? I was crushed emotionally and I don't really know if I can get past the loss of the trust issue I have now for the first time in almost ten years. I need someone's opinion on whether I was wrong in my reaction (and I didn't "lose it" in front of the people, just when we were alone on the way home. I just can't even look at his face or be in the same room with him. I feel like it was a slap in my face. I have never did something like this to him and I don't understand why he did it. Could use some advice, I still am not talking to him and it's been 4 days.

Someone is trying to fix some problems on my computer and asked me to run a Hijack scan and send him my log file. Does this log file contain any personal or security information? I don't know him that well.

I had my memory doubled and lately when I've been typing the text will stall and I have to click again where the cursor is to restart my typing. I get a message where Windows is increasing my memory. It shouldn't need increased should it? Is this a virus? I have AVG (free edition of course) and Adaware. It says that it deletes my spyware. I also keep getting a box up that says "Trojan" so I click on Heal. Are these two programs good? Is there something else I can do to stop the spyware better? I also have pop ups all the time and have supposely a pop up blocker that shows it's working. I just had my pc repaired and it costs me $500! Can you help?

I get two error messages upon boot up, they are

Error loading c/WINDOWS/system32/jsonbryj.dll

Error loading c/WINDOWS/system32/fkcoorbf.dll

I didn't get any help from Microsoft unless I want to pay $60! Can someone help me get these off? Thanks!

I'm trying to download pictures from a digital camera to my pc, but the connectors for the camera don't fit the USB connectors on my pc. They are flat while the connectors for the camera are round. Any way I can fix this problem? Thanks!

My friend is pregnant and wants to tell her parents that they will be grandparents for the first time, something they have wanted for a long time. She's asked for my help so I'm asking for yours! Thank you!

I am been using "Head Games" split personality dual-purpose smoothing serum and it has been discontinued! Is there another product that will work as great? Thanks!

I have just obtained an Stamina Air Bike. I was wondering what would be a good workout time on this. Is it more important to go distance or minutes on the bike and what would be a good distance or minutes to do? How many times a week and how long?

Can anyone tell me what is the best way to clean the dust off of wax candles?

Can anyone tell me what is the best way to clean the dust off of wax candles?

When I try to insert addresses to forward, it will bring up to first group and not advance to my other addresses. How can I fix this? Thanks!

My sister in law is having a real dilemma. Someone called her and told her that this woman is telling everyone, who will listen, that she is having an affair with her husband. This is in a very small town so word gets around quickly. She doesn't know what to do about this. She is quite devastated. Should she call this woman? Her husband of course is saying there is nothing to this rumor, but I feel, where there is smoke, there is fire. She is completely lost in what she needs to do. Can anyone offer me any advice for her? This first started about two weeks ago, when the one woman called her. Not thee woman, but a relative of her's. Thank you so much.

I have a ceiling fan in my garage and want to adjust it to take the hot air out. Hey, I'm a female........need help.........thanks!

I have to price a very nice used sectional couch with ottoman along with a glasstop coffee table and matching end tables. Very nice and not flimsy, heavy wood. Any suggestions?

My son's driver's side power window will not roll up all the way. He has put in a new motor and switch for that window, and it still will not go all the way up.

My Mom and Dad have both passed away now. My Dad just passed Dec. 27. My brothers, sister, and I have to take care of their belongings . My mom was a native of Germany and we have several items that are at least 40 years old. We have to have a sale of these items, but have no idea of their value. Does anyone know a site for me to check it out? I know there is always EBAY, but I need to know what I'm dealing with. Is there a site that would have pictures that I could check out these items? Thank you.

Sadly my Dad passed away recently and was proud to be Native American. He collected all sorts of figurines. We are trying to take care of his estate and my brothers, sister, and I have no idea what they are worth. Does anyone know a site that could help us or someone that would know about these items? Thank you.

Several years ago I bought one of those redwood signs at a Covered Bridge festival in Indiana. The kind where they put your family names on it. My friend is wanting one for himself. Does anyone know of someone that will make one for him? He also wants his family crest put on it. Thanks!

I am wanting to stitch this pattern for a Christmas present for my brother. Does anyone have the pattern?