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Just wondering. Please don't say the acting level.

Just wondering!

So, my ex started texting me a few days ago, since I got my cousin to break up with him. But the reason why he was wanting to get back together was he was in need of another girlfriend, cause he thinks that I'll get back with him since he is a full 2 years older then me. I told him to give me a break and back off. It didn't work.

He started telling me all the parts of our dating that he though was the best part. Then I told him that was just creepy and I didn't need to know that. I asked him why he kept bugging me about it and he said 'I was the first girl that he had ever clicked with.'

Then, he asked why I wouldn't go back with him. I told him that I didn't want to and that he is way too needy and creepy. Reasons behind that, I learned after I started dating him that he was a stalker and he was too needy, we had had this conversation plenty before. He replied back to that, that he didn't need a girlfriend, but he needed me. Then, I pointed out the word 'NEED' and then quoted a scripture to him that describes him completely 'The guilty taketh the truth to be hard'.

He then started saying I made up all of my problems with him and i was being very mental. I know that I haven't made any up! Then, he started preaching to me! Can you believe that? He asked me "what trail I was going through". I was sick of him thinking he knew everything. I told him that he was this all horrible person.

I also texted him six of his problems in the conversation. I don't remember them very well but a few are:

1. Don't push a girl beyond what she wants to do

2. Don't saying that you love her constantly (which he used as one of his arguments, why I should get back with him) because it isn't goning to change anything.

I then get a call from my cousin his ex, saying that he texted her saying that I was all messed up and taking it out on him. Which I wasn't and she agrees 100% that I was being a normal person who was angry with their ex.

He then starts replying say that he is so, so sorry and that he is going to delete my number if I wanted. I told him, Delete it now! I didn't feel bad about that all.

That night, I start getting texts from him. It was pretty obvious that he didn't delete my number...

This is the conversation best to my memory:

Luke: You ruined my life! I lived for two things. You and your cousin. But know I have neither because of you.

Me: What the crap are you taking about?

Luke: I had so many plans for us. You ruined it all! I was going to surprise you when you got into the high school and surprise you. I was going to let you boss me around and make me feel needed.

Me: I don't think that would've gone well with me.

Luke: I have no reason to live now. You ruined it all for me. If it weren't for you my life would still be okay.

Me: I didn't do anything to you.

Luke: I can't decide what to do know. Try and live or just go and curl up and die.

Me: Don't do that!!!

Luke: You know what, I am mental! Happy now?

I stopped replying about know.

Luke: You know what, I'm crying now? ... Do you even care about me anymore?

Luke: You there?

The conversation ended there.

I don't know what to do. I am so so so scared. My dad says that he was just trying to abuse my feelings and make me feel bad for him. My dad said he was trying to be abusive.

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