donjya

Recently on a contract (through an agency) to work for an organisation. The organisation did not honour the agreement regarding ongoing coaching and hence my performance was affected. They then told me my contract would not be continuing on. Hence affectively firing me on the spot. Reason being : my performance was not up to standard.

Do not get me wrong - I was pursuing the answer as to why the training was not happening. But as it is not my role to engage that training I figured it will get done. That there must be some kind of hold up. As there had been the previous month n.b. I have only been there 3 months.

I have decided to go ahead and make a formal complaint; stating what has happened - to the organisation. But am wondering if I should tell my agency I am doing so?

So I have sort of been seeing this guy for a while now and I really am doing everything I can to keep things on the right track. If I am not sure where we are in the "relationship" I ask but I feel that it has been too long and it is way way way past time for answers. It has been 9 months now and he is still acting completely aloof about everything. In fact things just go from worse to worse. Every time I try to talk to him about where we might be going or something like that it is so difficult. I hate to bring it up and he never wants to talk about it - not once in the whole time has he broached the subject. So now we fight all the time and he never wants to talk about it (the fighting) and acts like it does not actually happen. In fact the one time I managed to get him to go he left me a note and in it said he would remember our time together "with fond memories". I think that is crazy. We are having an absolutely horrible time together.

While I am happy to go and talk to my friends about I feel as though I am dragging through mud to get to every answer - even with them about it. And it has been 9 months and in this time we have been travelling around spending all our time with one another. It should be amazing. At the start of it all I was so happy. I had never been this way with anyone ever and for it just to switch off like a light completely bewilders me. What am I supposed to do? He acts like nothing ever happened between us and I have actually questioned his mental health a number of times. How could anyone be so ... vague? And lately these past few months he makes up stories. Like when I question him about why he did something strange he completely denies any knowledge of it. And vice versa makes up things about me that I have not done. Then gets angry when I say that I did not do that. Possibly he is right sometimes though the way in which he brings up said topic when he says this stuff it makes no sense to me in the way he says it. And then I have to learn the way to figure out what he is actually trying to get to - sometimes. I feel like I am going insane - it is just madness. Should I stay with him or not? I just feel it is too much of a struggle and it has been for a very long time. And try as I might there does not seem to be any solution forthcoming.

And it is stupid. Every answer I do get just leads to another question about the way I feel and why these things are happening. Or worse is extremely critical of me (the women) saying I must be doing something wrong. And I totally am not. Plus he never wants to be intimate. In the whole time except for a few brief weeks right at the start when ... well we were inseparable in all ways.

Help me!! Is he just a total douchebag or should I just go with my instinct and move on. What can I do to save something I want so much?

No more detail to add really...except I am worried he is serious.

This is the kind of question that gets asked time and time again but I need to clarify - if you can't get a working Visa (or any kind of Visa to work) in Japan as a hostess at a Hostess Club then where do they get all there foreign hostesses from? I mean maybe there are not as many as I think or they really are all on spouse visa (??) or teaching or something else that a tiny percentage of Visa applicants are doing otherwise...but it's just confusing me. How is it legal?

Like not I want you to tell me which animal but how do I know?

and vice versa [may seem like a "straight-forward" question but I'm seriously confused on the details].

I thought I saw one on the RTA website but have had a look now and can't seem to find the link. I have a good idea but am actually searching for a list in its entirety of all the things they check for when doing a blue slip inspection.

Just wondering what a methodological framework for sentencing would look like. It's for a third year assignment at Uni. Thanks.

thoughts?

I.e. the Kyoto Protocol numbers that countries are abating to. And please don't tell me to use google or any other 'search' type answer. Thanks.

Thx

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thanks.

I have an understanding - but when I try and reconcile it with other ideas it kind of gets confused.

one of my male housemates (one of two the other one is female) seems to think i am hitting on him or interested in him; at all times if this makes a difference. it is totally creeping me out and i actually feel physically ill in his presence as its like that skin crawling sensation whenever he is around. he seems to think i am interested in him for some reason: i honestly think he is just confused about the signals that girls send as he is not the most attractive guy, and although once again may not be super important, has not much of an 'active social life' or anything really of the sort - i would say my two housemates are anti-social.

so of course short of moving out which i am in the process of doing (no i havent told them - they seem to think communication is a dirty word..and yes, if u notice, this question im asking now may not be the least of my problems as far as they/these housemates are concerned) i am just sick of feeling ill everytime he is in the same room...

just wondering, i am doing an assignment and am locked out of google scholar..so short of using the library (yeah, i totally just should) has anyone got a standing definition of what a sociopath is, in the society context or otherwise. thx

how...must..do..essays...

just wondering..i was reading a comment posted by someone on another website..what are my options for public transport in the states..can i catch normal public transport, ie hop on off, just buy a ticket at the train station - 'normal' vs. have to travel on the amtrak?

im pretty confused on this..help is appreciated!!

cheers.