Brandi Joann

I am an INTJ female and most of the common career paths do not interest me. I really want to work with children, I love children and being around them. I also want to have a large family. I have always been great with kids, they all love me.

My question is, are there any other INTJs that are like this? Everything I have read about them says they don't usually do well with children. All I have talked to online have said that they don't care to be around kids, don't like kids, don't want kids, etc....

My husband is also an INTJ and kids make him super nervous, but he wants a family also. But every time we are around kids I'm just all about them and love hanging out with them while he is sitting in the corner looking like he could cry, haha. The only time I am ever sociable is when I am with children. I guess I see them as having not been corrupted yet by society and any one of them has the potential to shape into a great human being. I enjoy very much being around them.

Everything else about INTJs fits me perfectly. Is there any other INTJ that has chosen this career path or are just naturally good with children? Just wondering!

I'm 19 years old and I've always had a lot of trouble dealing with death. I know death is never easy but I have always had a very hard time dealing with it. I have a very large family. My mom is the youngest of 10. My dad has 6 brothers and sisters. On top of that my grandparents on both sides had tons of brothers and sisters who had kids, kids kids. As large as our family is, most of us still live in the same area, and we are all very close. But with a large family, comes a lot of death. I would estimate that I go to 3-4 or more funerals a year. And it eats away at my heart so much. I am constantly dealing with death and sickness. I couldn't count the number of close people I have had die in my lifetime and I have only been on this earth 19 years. It seems I am constantly grieving over somebody. My mother Is 51. She is the youngest of 10. Two of her sisters are sick right now and might not have much longer. One just had open heart surgery and the other may have to have her leg amputated. Two of her brothers died and I was with one within 24 hours of him dying of cancer and it absolutely killed me.

Everybody around me is dying.I have nightmares. I had a nightmare where I was at my uncles funeral and a bunch of my family were dropping dead at the funeral just one after the other. I can't handle it anymore as soon as I feel like I've mourned enough over one, another dies. I've been depressed since I was little and I have an anxiety disorder so it doesn't help. Please help :'(

My soon to be husband has super long dark hair that goes partially down his back, and I have blonde hair that is shoulder length and I can't find any cake toppers that the groom has this style of hair. We really, really want one like that but have found nothing.

If we can't find it we'll just buy one with the initials or get some sort of cute animal topper with a suit and wedding dress, but we would love more than anything to have the traditional bride and groom on top of our wedding cake.

Does anybody know where I could find this? Thank you!! :)

I've had the same mattress for about 15 years. It wasn't a good quality mattress to begin with. Now it is super lumpy and has springs sticking out of it. I have had major back problems because of it. Constant sharp pains. Can't bend over. Those foam things you put on top of the mattress do nothing. You can still feel the springs through it.

I'm 19 and live with my parents and we can't afford to get me a even a used one. We have to borrow money just to keep the lights on. We have no TV or anything fancy to sell anymore. I sold my bed so we could eat (that was before we finally got food stamps). So I switched back to an old bed frame that we had because it hurt too much sleeping with the mattress on the floor.

I've been trying to make things to sell and using my talents for money, but it's not enough to keep up and put money back for a mattress. I can't get a job living 20 minutes out of town and my car breaks down. I had to quit my last job for that. My parents tried to sign my little sister up to get a disability check because she is autistic and can't talk and also just had a major surgery but she was denied because my dad owns a small piece of land that won't sell. His military disability won't go through because that entire system is screwed up. We have been screwed out of money.

Is there any way to get even a used mattress for free? Where can I get something to use in place of a mattress or anything. Should I just sleep on the floor? :( Please help, and don't be hateful.

We don't have the money to fix our floor and probably won't for a long while. Our bathroom floor has rotten and fallen in from underneath the tub and around the toilet. Underneath the house is only dirt and there's about 2 feet of space between the flooring and the ground. The toilet is also broken so that all that is flushed goes underneath the house and has caused a major infestation of sewage flies that we have tried everything to get rid of. We can't put in a new toilet until the floor is fixed and this one is unfixable. We have plywood holding up the toilet along with a cat tree and a few other things but it's shifting more and more all the time. The tub is held up with stacks of concrete blocks underneath but it is tilted to one side and the blocks are sinking into the mud from where the toilet water has gotten under there. We thought we could save up a little of money at a time and buy small pieces of what we need to fix it, which will take a while,but it's our only option.

So all that aside, what would it take to get this fixed? We know it's gotten way out of hand, and that we'll have to tear out the floor and start over, but we've had a lot of stuff happen the past could of years that have gotten in the way of fixing it. ( don't say anything about us waiting too long, we know that and we couldn't help it, I don't have time for less than helpful comments)

Please help us, we would rather not let this house go to the point where it would be condemned. Thank you!

Story time: I graduated high school yesterday. As I was walking out i had taken my gown off and it was dragging on the ground behind me and my aunt laughs and says something about it and my mom says Well it's not like she's gonna wear it again. and my aunt says True, I still have my son's from like 20 something years ago in the closet.

So I've been thinking about that, I don't want to just throw it in the closet and let it sit for 25 years. I want to make something out of it. I have made quite a few pillows before but it's not the kind of material that would be easy to sew (I don't have a sewing machine) so that's out of the question. I can't find anything online to do with the gown. I already decorated my cap but that's not enough for me. Does anybody have any ideas? They don't have to be easy, I live for a challenge. And i don't have to use the whole gown i can cut it up.

I also really love to paint, I have a bunch of acrylic paints if that helps.

Just any ideas at all would be helpful. Thanks!!!!

I know you can because I have done it before but I can't seem to find where it is. I'm almost to the end of an island and I am stuck because of a glitch and I've tried everything. I refreshed and everything and it's still the same. I really don't want to restart the island I have worked so hard on.

For the past few years my joints have been popping. Especially my shoulders, hip and knees. They will pop even with the slightest movement and will pop seconds after it has already popped. Sometimes my shoulders will pop several times in five minutes. It doesn't hurt usually the first couple of times but they start hurting after about 4 or 5 pops (which is pretty much all the time). I am a 17 year old girl and my joints hurt me all the time. I am about 5'5 and i weigh about 135 pounds if it matters. When i stand up my hip almost always pops and may pop again within minutes. sometimes it hurts to walk on my knees and I limp a lot as a result of it. I'm not sure if it's related or not but my neck and back also hurts all the time and I can't bend over. It doesn't hurt to bend over but it hurts to stand buck up when i have bent over. I want my mom to take me to the doctor but I've been ignored because my sister has severe scoliosis and has to have surgery soon. (While writing this post my left shoulder popped twice and my right shoulder 3 times. I'm sitting down doing nothing but typing) Please help I'm miserable :(

School starts in 2 days, the lunches are sickening and they don't give you enough to fill a bird half full. I don't like salads, but i do like fruits and vegetables. Also i don't want to have a sandwich every single day for the next 10 months, or even very often at all. I'm not a big fan of tortilla wraps either. PLEASE HELP!!!! (Also i can't have eggs, but i can eat most things containing eggs. When i eat eggs i throw up for some reason) Thanks!!

My boyfriend's pinky and ring finger on BOTH HANDS are numb. It's not an on off thing its constant. He hasn't been able to feel them since September and I'm really worried about him. He went to the doctor in October or November and they did blood work and everything came back normal and they left it at that. What could be causing it? I keep telling him to go back to the doctor but he says that he's fine and I'm overreacting. But i feel like there's something wrong if it's been going on for nearly 6 months.

I need to paint a picture but all i have is the simple Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, BLue and Purple. I have literally been to every single store in my (VERY) small town and not a single place has black or white paint!! I have one piece of black chalk and one piece of white chalk. Is there any way to make paint from that? Please help!! I won't be able to leave town for paint because of our crappy vehicle.