Tzapporah J

So we usually attend howl o Scream my husband and I, my son really wants to go with us this year, but he s 9 we are really on the fence about it, we are aware it s not a PG scare and have told him that, my son loves horror things because he says it s not real, that is just halloween fun, he really doesn t get scared he sees scary movies and hes the type "with that was creepy how did the actor do that" he s a kid that knows the difference between reality and fiction. But I m still skeptical any parents let their kids tag along? ??

My mother and I have always been very close up until recently starting about a year ago, she began dating this guy (which at first I was happy for her my dad passed 4 years ago and i want her to be happy) Im 24. The issue is not so much their age shes 45 hes 29. Its other things examples they fight all the time, hes been unemployed for a year living with her she obviously pays for everything. His mannerisms when they visit he will take my dvds without even asking he will just say "oh im gonna borrow this" And never return them. I have a guest home on my property he mentioned one day that he went in there to look around when we werent home. One night over dinner he had drank and they were arguing and he said oh if i had somewhere else to go i wouldnt be here. She also never spends time with my kids like she used to idk if its because he doesnt want them around or because shes just to busy with him but my son cries thinking she doesnt love him anymore. Please what do i do, do i let her know how I feel and open her eyes or let her see for herself...

Try to make it short, My mother and i my whole life always had a very close relationship we would do everything together i confided in her for everything recently our relationship has changed for the past year since shes got this boyfriend (my dad passed 4yrs ago) Im 24, now at first i was excited for her i dont want her alone i want her to have a partner and be happy the problem not so much the age hes29 shes 45 but the circumstances. He has been unemployed for a year (since they became a couple) when they visit he takes my movies to " borrow" doesnt even ask sonetimes, they argue Constantly, basically everytime i see them. One night at dinner he was drinking he said "Well if i had somewhere else to live i wouldnt be with you" really to much to type also she no longer spends time with my kids i dnt expect her to bbysit all the time but she always pronises my son who loooves her that shell pick him up soon and never does....

Please, what do i do, tell her how i feel? Or Pray shell leave him. Im afraid shell choose him over us.

My head is going to explode or feels that

way, the past 3 mnths have been a

headache and a big test for my Fiance and

I and i just need some inspirational advice

that everything will be okay, and that

others have been through this. Long story

short he hasnt been able to find a good

job....at all its odd hes such a great guy a

hard worker previously worked

construction was laid off cuz it got slow,

and hes never gone more than a few weeks

without employment but these past 3

months ive been as supportive as possible

because he is trying, i try not to show my

stress but im desperate inside i wont tell

him because i dnt want him to feel guilty.

Two kids no income its hard my youngest

is 5 mnths old. Anyone else been through

this rut and how do i get through it,

anytime he leaves or im alone i break

down.

Ok so, we were best friend for 2 years before we began dating because i had just gotten out of a 8 yr relationship & didnt want to rush anything. Weve been together for a year now and im expecting a little girl so my pregncy mind isnt letting me do any real thinking -.-

Situation: I came home the other night from a girls dinner night and he told me he left a message for me on my computer and for me to read it (We had been bickering that day so it was an apology note) well i logged on my computer and i saw a minimized webpage that i know he forgot to exit out of i think he thought he did but it was minimized ANYWAY it was a facebook search of a name lets use sally in our city and where he works, I was a little confused because hes mentioned her while talking about work but breifly saying shes a stuck up girl or shes a B*** in general. so I asked him why the heck he was searching for her profile and he said he didnt know, he couldnt give me an honest answer UNTIL 24 hrs later the next day he said he had over heard a conversation she had with another girl at work about her and her bf arguing and that it was all on facebook and basically he wanted to be nosey about it. I dont know what to think, I honestly think i know him pretty well i mean we were friends for two years before dating we talked about everything and hes always shown how in love with me he is he never makes me doubt him so im really just caught off guard my ex cheated on me alot and treated me badly so i know a good man and i truley believe he is i just dont get WHY :( why why why because in my mind you have to be thinking about that person or interested in some way to take the trouble to search them on stupid facebook. Any advice thoughts, trying not to get to overwhelmed im 6 mnths pregnant and going crazy -.- thanks all.

I have a son from a previous bad relationship that was 8 yrs long and a terrible experience for me.

Now The man im with now, we were friend for 2 yrs before i began dating him because i was scared to introduce just anyone to my son he is my everything and i didnt want to rush things, well we finally are together and im 3 months pregnant, we rarely argue but do like every couple, and money is Tight.

I have a fortunate backround, i was used to having everything growing up until my dad passed away, but it never bothers me that we dont have money to buy things or go out I NEVER THROW IT IN HIS FACE i tell him as long as we have a great relationship money doesnt matter, we will get through it.

PROBLEM: A few weeks ago i suggested saving up money so we can tale my son to disney world for his birthday because i dnt have money to spend on a party and asked what he thought he was fine we agreed we would put aside so much every week, and we have been and we have enough to go to our trip for my sons b day,

and lately hes just been so different like comes home from work and doesnt seem excited to see us hes always like "its been a long day" and ive talked with him about it because he used to be look forward it and always kiss me hug me hug my son.

and today he came with an attitude and i was like well cant even say hi apparently and he just was like "We need to talk"

Went on and on about how money is tight and how we need to do this or do that, and that he isnt happy? And basically making it seem like its my fault because i dont cook everyday ( i cook an average of 4-5 days a week) its just i have sicknes somedays alot and i dont feel well enough but at least i cook often weekly and the pregnancy really has me sick, and saying how we shouldnt spend the money on disney when i need my tag renewed and this and that making exucses and im like :

First of all i asked you if it was okay and if it was something you wanted to do and you agreed and now your backing out? and I never complain that i dont have money to do things I want to do like go out to dinner with friends or get a pedicure or even buy pregnancy clothes and he is complaining?

I feel like hes being selfish no we dont have all the money in the world but we are ok, the bills are paid and we have food in the fridge what is the issue?

Its just making me regret getting pregnant and even being in this relationship because he is being so damn arrogant, am I in the right or am I not seeing the picture clearly?

And input is appreciated I just feel like i had one failed relationship and my son is all i have and i dont want to go through another relationship that isnt going to work....

Ok so yesterday when i got home from class (im a nursing student) my bf that i live with asked about my day and i explained then asked him in return about his day and what he did and he explained how he took a nap after dropping me off and when he woke up washed my truck and said he played his PS then picked me up at school.

Then later on his Facebook his cousin posted that he was over there and I was like "you didnt tell me you went over there? Why not?" hes like "....Oh, idk....its just my cousins house" and its not that i was mad because he went to his cousins but the fact that he explained his whole day but left that out, i trust that he usually tells me everything but it pissed me off because yeah it is just your cousins house but why not just tell me? Whats the big freakin deal? So my feelings were hurt he took me to school this morning but we havnt talked at all because im upset.

So am I in the wrong for being upset or whats up ?

Im 20 and usually shave (down there) but I was wondering does waxing down there hurt really bad?

If so how bad on a scale of one to ten. any suggestions?

Ok this might be a bit long but i will try to make it short:

My bf and I are living together, we have a 3 yr old son....

me and my bf have broken up twice since we lived together because once: we have a group of friends we hang out with and one of them (his cousin) was having a party, he claimed he didnt want to go because he wasnt up to it and didnt feel like hangin out with them, ok so we didnt but he had left to go to his friends house, he got home late etc.

well next day i found out he had went to the party and was hatting on some girl (i know the girl but not as a friend) and etc. He claimed to deny it he said he was only there for 10 minutes then left (beyond the point if i wouldnt of heard he wouldnt of told esp since he didnt even want to go why the hell did he?)

second time: Apparently he was at his friends house and this girl (who is known ot be a huge hore) him and her were flirting taking pics etc, I tried to contact the girl she never responded back he said she was there but he left he was only there for 10 minutes, also around that time my daddy passed away of cancer and he wasnt very supportive for me he wasnt asking how i was doing or helping me cope a week after was my birthday and he didnt even do anything for me not even a b day card.

anyway

NOW: he had left the house this past friday claiming he was going somewhere in st pete with a friend of his (he never tells me exactly where hes going ) any way TODAY i found out he went to some wedding and with his friends (more like wedding party) and that girl was there (frm the second time) and that the day after (saturday) she was having a party and he was supposed to go. I dnt know if he went yet that investigation is still unknown yet today when i asked him what exactl he did friday he failed to mention he went to the wedding when i let it be known i knew he said "Ooooh yeaaa but i only stopped by for 20 minutes to congradulate him and smoke but then i left" he climas its not a big deal but i said:

If its not a big deal why didnt u tell me? or at least not be dumb enough not to because u know we have broken up in the past because of things like this situations u should avoid.

Am I in the wrong? overexaggerating?

Im not a bad gf I cook for him , clean, take care of our son, Im not to clingy I let him hang out witht he friends but i keep hearing alot of things he shouldnt be doing:/

He seems to not like going places with me but he loves going by himself? esp when u live together u should be at places such as weddings and parties with ur partner right? and be there for them not leave them at home all night. I go to school in the medical field and he doesnt help me with anything, do i think he loves me? yes but this isnt the first nor the secnd weve had problems and this isnt the only problem in our relationship its also:

His smoking

Him not wanting to have sex?

and his lazyness around the house (and im not exaggerating aout how slobb y he is and i wouldnt mind it if he was at least decent)

I kicked him out i dnt want to do this again so opinions and advice srry 4 it being long

Ok ill try to make a long story short:

Im 19 and my (now ex) is 20 i broke up with him a little over a wk ago

reason being is

we have a son, live together, and he feels he can go out Everyday with his friends til 2pm -1.2.3 am

I didnt like it , I understand men need time for themselve with their friend but for that long? and everyday??? He lost his job and has been unemployed for get this- a year.

I believe he loves me, weve loved eah other since we were 12

and I love him incredibly but i go to school and clean cook etc and he never helps me with anything

and we would go out once a week but even when we do , his friends would be calling off the hook (not exaggerating) ok, so his friends are a big problem

none the less, Im very close with my parents, i call them everyday tell them i love them and they really are the most important thing in my life after my son.

My daddy died this past july, he had faught cancer for a yr, aug was my b day and ive been really down cuz i miss my dad so much and my ex knows how much my daddy meant to me and he never bothered asking how im doing or anything and on my b day he didnt even get me a card, he played poker with his friends, the main ppl i cant stand and he still made time for them on a day i thought hed plan for me.

I think maybe i spoiled him because i litterally do everything for him but i thought in my stupid head that love had no limits, well so i packed his things and asked him to step out of my life because i cant be with someone i cant count on.and i tried talking ot him about how i felt and he kept blowing me off and blowing me off like "theres nothing ot talk about" "your just a baby" ???

well its been over a week, and i love him, i do and he comes and sees his son every other day we dnt speak at all, i guess itbothers me that he hasnt even tryed to fix things still he still thinks im the worse ever, and i know alot of girls that cheat, lie and screw over their bfs and their bfs treat them like queens, and i try to love mine, and hes an *** to me, what do yall think?

I saw the 2012 trailer and just alot of people have been talking about it

I just want others insite on the world ending

Beliefs predictions?

facts?

Its interesting

do you think its really bad?

ive heard freaky stories and if you have one do share

but if its so bad,

why do they still have them,

saw some at barnes n nobles

Just Wondering

These past two nights ive had dreams about the world ending

1st one was that water flooded everywhere and fireballs came from, the sky and hit and m,e and my family m,anaged to find this enclosed room, ater swimming

m,y aunt and uncle were scared and my son was shaking cold on the bed

2nd was

some kind of disease hit (like i am legend or 28 weeks later)

that made humans like that and the animals started getting it and the whole race was being destroyed by them,

its weird because I never think about this stuff

and Ive been thinking about my dad alot because he passed away and before he did told m,e hed visit me in my dreams

IDK!!

even opinions

somethinngg

thoughts and opinions please and dont just say

"it was good" or "it sucked"

Why??

Ideas?

what couldve changed?

does anyone know or have an idea wat songs they will performing? anyone been yet ?

my bf of 5 freaking years and I are going through a rough patch, APPARENTLY im a "betch" and "i trip to much" and "i betch allot" guys usually use this phrase for a crapppyg irl that complains about everything BUT He hasnt had a job in ONE YEAR, he gets high alll the time, and its often through the day and his friends are ALWAYS OVER, I mean can a girl walka roudn her house naked? shet! and if they arent over they call :/

we have atwo yr old son , I go to school full time, so ill be done in 6 mnths and be able to get my job, but he doesnt help me aroudn the house, frankly, hes a slob its disgusting. I never cheat or lie or go out, i cook clean and buy him wat ever he wants, and weve been through loads together hes my first in everything basically and Ive stuck this past yr out for OUR SON which i seem to spend all the time with not like him :/ I kicked him out today because Im so sick and tired guys, you have no idea, I really dont want this for us more cuz my son loves his dad alot and i dnt want to hurt my son, im goign ot be 19 btw, and he is goign to be 21 to he knows he has responsibilities. I dont think hes cheating or anything but :

He wont even go LOOK for a job or anything

gets high alll the time

friends are his main focus'

plz no mean comments I need motivation, my dad has cancer and ive been stressed out last thing i need is somone giving me shet, oh BTW he hit me the other day badly.

research paper -.- "in your own words" lol to me its skinny ppl that dnt eat beacause they are obsessed with nto eating sooo

my friends say im weird becausde i dnt scream at the sight of a roach or spiders in fact i love spiders , im not scared of anything, sharks ive swam with, and worms i fish with lol im a girl so i guess that makes me weird but honestly -.-

just some unique ideas youve seen or heard for wedding center pieces decorations etc

perferably beachish theme but anything with flowers or you know, opinions lol