Meesha

I have a 7 year old boy that is medicated for adhd. His mother has issues with him as does the school when he is with her. However i have no problem with his behavior, nor does the school on my days. To me he is a very "normal" boy. I do have three older children and his behavior is no different than their at that age. I dont believe he should be medicated. What can i do. She changes his dr appointments so i can not attend. And the dr wont speak to me dirrectly she has her nurse call me. I feel like I have no control over this.

I have a 5 almost 6 year old that was completely potty trained for almost a year. He is very sensitive to change. And when his mother moved a few months ago he had a couple of accidents. I looked passed this but his mother started putting diapers on him again.He said that it is ok now because he is wearing a diaper so he doesn't have to get up. Now he is wetting the bed nightly. I know that he can go through the night without wetting. What do I do? Do I punish him? Do I just give it time.

My husband and I have been married for just over a year and have been together for just over 4 years we have 4 children together my 2 are 12 and 15 his 2 are 5 and 6. over all we all do very well together. But there are double standards for they children. I understand that the older 2 will have more expectations than the younger 2, but my husband treats the younger as though they are still infants. I don't know how to show him that his favoring is disrupting to everyone. The older 2 feel as though the younger 2 are loved more. and being that he does little to no disciplining of the younger I have to. And that makes me look like the bad guy. And makes me a little resentful that I have to be the bad guy, and he is wonder dad. it is to the point that they don't even hug me goodnight anymore because I am the mean one and dad is the nice one. I have tried to talk to him about it but he has no idea what Im talking about. Any advise would be great

my mom has a lump on her rib that is not showing up on x rays or CTs they have her scheduled for a biopsy thursday but in all the reading I have doen cancer will show up on both all the doctors are just scratching their heads. She has seen 4 in the last week. anyone have any insight?

I am having a black and white wedding on the beach in the evening. And I am stuck on what I should do for the wedding flowers. I do know that I do not want red but I thought maybe orange roses. Please give me any suggestions you may have

I am going to Jamaica for my honeymoon in June, We are both outdoors kind of people what should we do and see while we are there. We prefer to not be surounded by people all the time, But are looking for some night life also, is there a good club you would suggest.

I am getting married this June and am getting married on a beach, I need some fun but not corney decoration ideas. The reception will not be held there only the wedding.

My situation is I would like to loose about 35-40 pounds, I dont know how to, I only eat about 900-1200 calories a day, and I work out for about 30-45 minutes a day but thtat is only mantaining my weight I am not loosing anything. I gain weight very easy if I eat more or work out less the weight just come right back, but I dont see how I could eat less than I am now and still be healthy. I am currently 5'2" and weigh about 150. this is not a healthy weight. Please healp me get back to a healthy weight.

I love fruit and now have apples, grapes and plums is there any more that I can grow in this climate?

I have a male pug that we want to start breeding but he has no interest in my female pug she has been in heat 3 times and still not even a sign of interest, We have a heck of a time keeping him from my female husky when she is in heat, so why would he not show intrest in the pug. Help please.

I really dont need comments from breeders condeming me for breeding them they are both reg, and have had there health checked so on and so forth, everybody started out as newbes at one point

Have any of you checked out Mike Gravel? he is awsome!!!! If you havent checked him out you should he is all about the people has some wonderfull ideas about the war and the war on drugs our national deficite, and medical reform, everything sounds great and nobody knows who he is, its a real shame check him out here. www.gravel2008.us

Is it legal for an officer to tell my child to go to a friends house and not tell me where she is or to talk to me in anyway until she hears from him. Because there is suspition on me having pot paraphernalia in my home. An officer has done this he withheld my child until we alowed him to search my home and take a urine test, He found nothing and urine came back negitive by the way.

This is a topic that comes up a lot around here I just wanted to know what you all think about it.

I was arrested for having marajuana in my home that belonged to my fiance, but because I lived there also I got charged. Now I have never used a drug in my life, they did a hair test that gos back 6 years and all came back clean so they are aware of it also. But still are requiring me to go to treatment for 30 days. Is it just me or would that be a waist of time and money.

I know you all are going to have fun with this one, I have a 12 year old daughter, she has now twice called the police on myself and my fiance, the first one ending in an arest for marjuana, my self because it was in the house. But she call the police lastnight and they came in and searched the house made us pee in a cup of course found nothing. He has been clean since the first time and I always have been. But we were told that we couldn't punish her for it. The office told her with us standing right there that if there was any relaiation from us that she was to call him and he would take it from there. So now anytime she gets angry she can just make things up and they will come search the home and violate our privacy and we are suposed to do nothing about it?? Is there any sugestions on what we are suposed to do as parents where are our rights??

do you believe parents should be banned from spanking?

I am tring to trace back my herritage the last known relitive on the Cornish side is Seth Dorr Cornish born 1880s died 1959 not able to find fathers name please help

I knew that would get you to read this? your all alike LOL.

well my problem is I have been with this guy for 3 years and I am not sure why he is not wanting to make the next move. we have lived together for 2 of the three, I do all the cooking and cleaning, laundry and all that other household stuff, I also work full time and bring home a little more money than him. I treat his children as though they were mine. I think we have fought maybe 3 times since we have been together. I pamper him as much as I can you know stuff like back rubs washing his hair, shaving him, Shut up ladies I actually enjoy doing those things for him. And to top it off he can't keep up with me in the bedroom. So what is his hold up, what could I do differently to mak ehim commit, and I don't want to be one of those nagging women that bully their man into marrage. is it that I am doing too much. because I don't think that I'm not doing enough.