Jess Ee

Because he thinks that I neglect it. I feed the cat and play with him. He had a dog witch he always kept outdoors- never fed him himself and never took him for a walk. I never treated any of my pets like that. How can he judge me, and say I'm being cruel? When I remind him of his dog he gets aggressive and tries to change the subject. And he says that it has nothing to do with the current situation.

How would you feel about that?

Because the blood doesn't flow properly on the right side of my body. Even everyday movement is difficult. Most people notice I have a limp, and my right shoulder drops. I find it hard to lift my right leg or any part on the right. It feels like a toddlers body because of the inefficiency of motor skills. I get made fun of at social gatherings because I just freeze out of fear because I look like I'm mentally 8 yrs old when I dance. How can I deal with this problem? Can anyone relate?

Anyone agree?

Like I think they're too bitchy, attention whores and would steal my man. Can anyone relate? Also can you think of any other reasons I might be this way. I don't mind rude answers as long as their honest and not trolling.

Whereas he doesn't do the same for me. He doesn't think about how his words will hurt or affect me when he says them, or what he says about me, who he says it to. Why should I keep putting up with this? Emotionally he is such a coward. I can never speak my mind about people that are important to him, or make jokes about him. But somehow its different the other way around?

them, and they are doing you a favour by having you in their life.

trying, instead of telling you to persist? They never offer any motivation, or believe in me? Basically nobody does. Like those things are for normal people, and I'm not normal.

and basically their whole life, and that person is your mum. Nothing I do to change my behaviour towards her helps. She's always unhappy, and driving me mad. She always manages to ruin an otherwise peaceful day. She's always unhapy about the past, and anything good money related going on in my life, like I owe my whole lfe and all my money to her. She also thinks everyone is a thief and after her money- people that i find to be decent human beings. She does't want anyone else to be happier than her in anyway or have more money than her. She always wants people to grovel to her for all their financial needs. She's never happy when people are able to fend for themselves. Then she'll gift someone or offer them financial help, ad then endlessly cmolaing about how they take advantage of her and are nobodies without her.

I'm 28 weeks pregnant, and right now he's kicking the crap out of me, but I'm scared that he'll be less interested in me, and more interested in everybody else when he's born. Or that's the kind of treatment I'm used to.

Whenever I do something it's not good enough or nothing special... somebody else does the same thing and they are endlessly praised for it. Like they're hardworking, skilled, an example to follow, made their parents proud or whatever... but that never applies to me.

It makes me feel really down. How can I stop it bringing me down?

Or to prove someone else wrong. Even if they know they are wrong. Or especially when they know they are wrong. They try and make the other person feel wrong or look stupid.

If you can use both side of your body, but one side is shaky, maybe stiff, and it feels like when a baby is just learning to move. But the condition never improves. Causes difficulty in all and every type of daily activity. Body is only half as efficient as before.

Then why do they give you so much attention, more than they would give other people they dislike? I don't get it...

difficulty learning. Reason being I don't like anybody telling me what to do. And conforming seems so zombie like, and depressing. Like even what I try to conform, the feeling is so overwhelming that I just stop. I choose feeling good over conforming (feeling sick and lost all your life. Even if I tried I failed, and now I can't even do it if I wanted to. Your thoughts...

when they clearly have their own agenda,and in fact their meddling is bad for your life, personal & social? Then they try to make you feel bad for not appreciating their help?

And tell you that you don't deserve the life you have. When you haven't even personally effected them in some way. Why would they be envious of your life when they don't know you. Why do they feel like you owe them something, or that what you have should be taken away from you. Why would they take so much interest in someone else's life? And make themselves present in your life when they very well know they make you uncomfortable and you don't really like them?

I'd just like someone to make me feel a little bit better about my situation.

What's their problem?