LadyBug

Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we do love each other. But i seem to keep messing it up all the time even without realising it. Ive lied before and promised i wouldn t lie or hide anything anymore. But i keep hidinh things from him without even realising it. Maybe i dont think that there is any problem in the things im doing (its nothing major). And he akss me all the time sayinh he knows im hiding things but i dony even know what they are.

The bad one is that there was this guy i kept texting and promised i wouldn t then after a while he texted me and o texted him a few times but it wad mainly work stuff and i didnt tell him, it honestly went out of my head to say anything. But i think he is getting too fed up.

I know im gonna get a lot of backlash here but i was hoping for some advice on how not to be such a self centred selfish person that i dont mean yo be. Please

Well I'll keep it short. We work together, We had a drunken one night stand but we were both in relationships at the time. I broke up with mine n his relationship terminated not longer than that. The thing is, he was texting and being lovely all the time, we met up a few more times and we have fun. He calls me beautiful and that I'm smart and lovely. Then it kinda stopped and it's back to casual texting. He told a girl in work that he does like me and wants to see where it goes and I'm starting to get feelings for him but I don't think he feels the same as he's stopped contacting me as much. And I just found out he's going to visit his ex gf in England this week... This weekend he came over (after telling me he was gonna visit her) n we had a few drinks and slept together he said to me "you know I love you to bits, right" I just stayed quiet... This Kinda upset me, I don't know if I should tell him how I feel and see what he says or just back off completely. I do quite like him, he's brought me over to meet his mates and all so I really dunno what he's playing at, but I'm getting really confused and don't wanna keep texting him in case I freak him out. So I don't know what the best option here for me is... I hope for some good, constructive advice please!!

Well my bf and I moved from Ireland to Bristol last year, it was primarily my choice as there was no jobs for me there and I wanted to explore different places. Since we got here I found myself isolated, alone, very depressed. Me and my bf are fighting all the time. I even had an overdose since I couldn't handle it anymore. I am in trouble with work and all the stress is adding on. I have made the selfish choice to go back home where my friends and family are, leaving my bf here with no one but a job he can't get out of. He doesn't speak to his family so I am the closest thing he has to one. I feel so guilty and so distressed. I want to do what's best for me which is to go back to seek professional help with the support of my family as I don't want all this burden on him and at the same time I can't help but to feel horrible and guilty for leaving him. We would be able to see each other often enough it's only 1 hour flight away and it isn't expensive. But after everything that I have been through this year away and with my depression getting the better off me it thought on the best solution for myself but now I don't want to leave because of him, even though I know I am not good for him in my state of mind. Someone please help me I feel like I'm just letting people down when all I want is to try and get better. I don't know what to do, what would u do in my situation??

Well my bf and I moved from Ireland to Bristol last year, it was primarily my choice as there was no jobs for me there and I wanted to explore different places. Since we got here I found myself isolated, alone, very depressed. Me and my bf are fighting all the time. I even had an overdose since I couldn't handle it anymore. I am in trouble with work and all the stress is adding on. I have made the selfish choice to go back home where my friends and family are, leaving my bf here with no one but a job he can't get out of. He doesn't speak to his family so I am the closest thing he has to one. I feel so guilty and so distressed. I want to do what's best for me which is to go back to seek professional help with the support of my family as I don't want all this burden on him and at the same time I can't help but to feel horrible and guilty for leaving him. We would be able to see each other often enough it's only 1 hour flight away and it isn't expensive. But after everything that I have been through this year away and with my depression getting the better off me it thought on the best solution for myself but now I don't want to leave because of him, even though I know I am not good for him in my state of mind. Someone please help me I feel like I'm just letting people down when all I want is to try and get better. I don't know what to do, what would u do in my situation??

Hi guys, I'm looking to get a dog but I live in a studio apartment and wouldn't want to get a quite active dog as it wouldn't be fair on it. I am a nurse so I work 12.5 hour shifts 3 or 4 times a week so the dog would be alone for a certain amount of time, however, my bf only works till around 4 everyday but no guarantees. I'd take the dog for a walk before work and after work. And if my bf can he could do that also. So guys, do u have any ideas for a dog which will not be barking all the time and be ok with being left alone for some hours? I'd really love a dog! Please gimme some ideas, I was reading around and bichon frise seems to be a good match?? Thanks guys

I took 3 x 40 mg propAnolol and 5 zopiclone 7.5 mg after a nights drink and having a really bad fight with my (ex) bf will I be ok I don't wanna phone ambulance in front of him... Please help me

I have been put under investigation on a ward in NHS over something I didn't do. A falsification of a drug chart. They're investigating me as they think I could've done it to cover a medication error. I got a new job months ago before this happened and now I am afraid of sending the contract to HR as I will have to disclose what's happening and I will probably be decline the job. I am just wondering if it's even feasible to try and get the new job while the investigation is happening. As my union rep said this will probably go to a hearing, however, if I get a new job they may drop the investigation all together. She hasn't been very helpful as I haven't been able to get in touch with her for the past 2 weeks when she said she was going to speak to HR about it. Any help would be great! Thanks guys

I am prescribed 40mg Propanolol 3 times daily. I am having a big anxiety attack now. Would it be dangerous to take 2 tablets? Or would it just calm me down??

Well, I am from Brazil and i have been living in the UK and working as a nurse. I havent been back home for 3 years now. I finally get a chance to get some time off and my mum suggests the idea of going back to Brazil for a couple of weeks, which I thought it was great! However, I have made plans with my boyfriend to see his uncle for 2 - 3 days here in the UK. He is really mad at me for wanting to go to Brazil now and letting him down, i mean, i never met his uncle before and i dont understand why he cant go by himself, it is not my family and I wasnt too keen to go in the first place. And to go to Brazil I would need all the days off I have cause it's such a long trip and it isnt worth it if i dont have enough time. I havent seen my family for more than 3 years and apparently me flaking on his uncle makes me really selfish. I understand where he is coming from, in a way, but i am wondering if its really selfish of me to choose to see my own family? I feel bad knowing i had made plans but thats why I spoke to my bf before anything was concrete about going to Brazil, I just dont understand why its so selfish of me, I miss my family and i dont know when I will have a chance to go over again. Maybe im being completely selfish and ignorant, please any advice??

I have just started exercising again after being off training for a while. Started on Monday and yesterday. Just going to the gym, using the treadmill and doing some weights. Today I woke up feeling really sore, light headed and feverish... I've had this before after exercising... Any one any ideas what it could b or what I could do to stop it?? I have been taking whey protein and eating healthy enough maybe not eating enough I'm not sure. Any suggestions??

My boyfriend and I have been having serious problems... I found some stuff on the computer who led me to believe he was cheating on me. I went out with my friend (girl) on Friday night and we had a snog, just for a laugh, never meant anything!! To me, that's not cheating cause I see loadsa girls doing it and my bf said he didn't mind, but now he says he does. We had a huge fight and he seen a text of her saying we snogged I never mentioned to him cause never even crossed my mind... Now he wants to leave me. Have I cheated? What can I do to make him forgive me? I haven't kissed/sex with any guy ever!! I feel horrible for making him feel bad and now I've done this horrible thing! Any help please, and please no trolling posts! I'm in genuine need of help

thought I posted this last night, but nothing has came up on my profile, so im giving it another go, please be kind and be truthful...

Hopefully you will be able to read my previous posts about him, as all i write here is about this relationship. He never acted like this before, and he was drunk, but wed usually argue but not to this extent. We have fantastic for a couple of weeks. we go out tonight have a few drinks, meet a few fellow irishman who invite us into a club for another few drinks. chris goes to the toilet and leaves me with this irish guy we just met, as you know, to talk in a club you kinda have to be close. he was tellin me about his fiancee bk in ireland and that hes getting married in a couple of years... the story hasnt ended!! my boyfriend comes over and pulls me aside thinking "im too close to him" he could see his cheek touching mine (lies) then it escalated, he usually calls me crazy so i call him that and insult after insult, outseid in the smoker area three pervy looking dudes asked him if i was his gf and he said no.

long story short, he said he could f*k any girl he want at any second, and its not that he thinks highly of himself, he thinks so low of me.........

he told me he has wanted to break up with me for a while but didnt have the courage, and basically this was his excuse as a way out. I feel so heartbroken, he swore and hes packed and leaving soon (we live together) i dont know if i have the strength to continue on fighting for something that willnever happen. A lot was my fault, i am insecure and i can be paranoid. I have chacked his FB before and i seen his flirty messages to his uni mates, which he denied them point blank to me, calling me crazy once again. (btw im crazy cause im on high doe anti depressants) read y last few posts youll understand the context and PLEAASE PLEASE PLEASE help me :(

thank you!

Hopefully you will be able to read my previous posts about him, as all i write here is about this relationship. He never acted like this before, and he was drunk, but wed usually argue but not to this extent. We have fantastic for a couple of weeks. we go out tonight have a few drinks, meet a few fellow irishman who invite us into a club for another few drinks. chris goes to the toilet and leaves me with this irish guy we just met, as you know, to talk in a club you kinda have to be close. he was tellin me about his fiancee bk in ireland and that hes getting married in a couple of years... the story hasnt ended!! my boyfriend comes over and pulls me aside thinking "im too close to him" he could see his cheek touching mine (lies) then it escalated, he usually calls me crazy so i call him that and insult after insult, outseid in the smoker area three pervy looking dudes asked him if i was his gf and he said no.

long story short, he said he could f*k any girl he want at any second, and its not that he thinks highly of himself, he thinks so low of me.........

he told me he has wanted to break up with me for a while but didnt have the courage, and basically this was his excuse as a way out. I feel so heartbroken, he swore and hes packed and leaving soon (we live together) i dont know if i have the strength to continue on fighting for something that willnever happen. A lot was my fault, i am insecure and i can be paranoid. I have chacked his FB before and i seen his flirty messages to his uni mates, which he denied them point blank to me, calling me crazy once again. (btw im crazy cause im on high doe anti depressants) read y last few posts youll understand the context and PLEAASE PLEASE PLEASE help me :(

thank you!

I am a nurse working on the NHS in Bristol. I have been off sick (yeah, I really am sick) for about 2-3 weeks now with doctors note. My doctor gave me another week off sick and may have to give me another one. I have only started my job 2 months ago and I am worried they can fire me for being off for too long? Can they legally do that? I am worried about my job but yet I can't go back to work being this sick! Any help will be appreciated!

Well, since my boyfriend and I have moved over to another city/country, things have been very uneasy between us, fights all the time etc...

To start of, I am a very very insecure person, that maybe shouldn't really be a in a relationship, however, I don't believe my boyfriend's actions help me in any way! His course is made up of 99.9% girls.. and i already didn't like that very much, but tried not to let it get to me, since its the course nature.

But he has started added them all on facebook and me as sneaky as I am could kinda see the conversations that would go on (lots of ;) and x's) he lied to me saying some page was sent around the group with everyone's phone number thats why so many girls were ringing and texting him. But i seen on his fb that he was totally flirty with this girl asking her for her number just in case he would need it ;)

And not only that, right when I met him 3 years ago, he had to tell me everything about his relationships and even show me photos of this blonde girl he dated. Told me about his fling with his brother's gf's sister where they used to get high and have sex (then i found out they were doing that until 1 day before we got officially together). He's not all bad, i am being one sided... I got depression since we moved over here and i dont have that many friends given my line of work. I used to shout and say horrible things to him, used to fight with him when he went on facebook or text one of these girls..

Anyway... I kicked one off today that didn't want this girl getting all over him at his Xmas party cause he knows how I feel about her. (error n.1 I know I shouldn't have mentioned anything) then the argument about trust starts, but its kinda hard to trust him as hes always with this other girls and if not with them hes on fb to them constantly... yeah i am insecure and jealous and he calls me, crazy.

I seen some things on his fb of him being really flirty and sending x's to this particular girl and i confronted it about it but apparently there's nothing there anymore. and now he's pissed im accusing him of doing something he didn't do (the messages were clearly there before). he says i have him trapped and ts too late for apologies... I try to be better, really do, but the little demon in my head wont leave me in peace. he has started to look for places to rent and he's leaving the house. he said he is disgusted of me, and i understand :(

I really need some quick help before he actually leaves me. I feel so guilty i really do... im scared hes for real this time and will actually break it off with me... any tips please!!!

My boyfriend isn't a saint, he makes me feel so so guilty about everything, and now its the same, ive ****** up and have for a while in my whole trust thing. I dont think he would cheat on me, im scared hell find someone better than me and leave me (which seems that is happening right now) just makes me feel like a total idiot for even opening my mouth to talk about how i feel cause it leads to fights like this! theres no communication... i just said I hope she doesnt keep trying on you all night and then he said he had enough, and everything i keep bottled in to show him i can and am trying to change just came out like vommit and then i couldnt stop sayin what was making me insecure and jealous. I did see the flirting and the x's and when he showed be they were there anymore making me out to be even crazier, when i know im not :( maybe i am, but id like some advices on how to stop being such a horrible girlfriend.

I bought an xbox 360 slim online, second hand for my bf for xmas. Luckily i decided to give it to him today. As soon as we turned it on and went onto make an avatar, the system froze and showed a message saying ERROR E71. I have been reading online and it seems i need to reboot the system, however now we cant even get to the settings screen it just crashes straight away as soon as we turn it on. I will probably need to send it back, but if anyone has any idea if it can be fixed and how it would be much appreciated! thanks