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Is it possible to love someone without being in love? I don't mean like loving a brother or a mother. But a person of the opposite sex. I am married to a wonderful man but I have feellings for another man that I think is love. Is it possible to love a friend unconditionally without wanting to make love? Or rather, I don't want to leave a person for the other. I want to be there for him if needed but not on a sexual level. I would do anything for him. I like the hugs that i give and receive from him, but I don't really want to go further than that.I love my husband. I don't want to leave him. My friend (male) is going through a lot of medical issues. I can't imagine him not being here. I would be so depressed if something was to happen to him. Is this normal? Or is this something else? Help me if you can. Should I be there, unconditionally for my friend regardless of my marriage to my husband? If more info is needed, just ask. I will give whatever I can. No I have not slept with my friend. I have done nothing physical other than hug him. No kissing, or touching. Just conversation and hugs. That is it.

We don't use protection other than pulling out except for the few times that he didn't or the rubber broke. I am 38, not going thru menapause, and have a regular but heavy period. I have never gotten pregnant. Just wondering if I am sterile without going to a doctor. BTW, Not looking to have a child. Just wondering.

It doesn't do the normal buzzing/ clicking sound. I know what that is and that isn't it. Its sounds as if there is a vacuum leak when I put it into drive. No sound in park, neutral, reverse. Less of the noise in the lower two gears. I will be bringing the car in to have it looked at in a few days, but I just want a heads up to what it might be. I don't think this car has a modulator valve on it because it has the transmission shift solenoid instead. Right? I could be wrong. That is why I am on here.

As far as the performance of the transmission goes, it is fine. No slipping or hesitating going into any of the gears. I am in need of a regular trans filter service but I doubt that is the cause. BTW, it seems to be coming from the passenger side more than anywhere else. Hopefully, someone can give me a clue as to what is going on and not some smart @$$ answer.

Cooling fans became inoperative and check engine light came on, after accelerating hard. replaced fan assembly and fans still do not operate. computer flashed codes 31,33 and 35 twice. anyone have any knowledge as to what maybe malfunctioning

Before I do it, I just want to know if i can remove the speaker covers without damaging the door panel or should I remove the whole panel. I don't want ruin the panel.

what would cause the a/c to kick on and off for no apparent reason? When it works the a/c is ice cold. So he is thinking it is definitely an electrical problem. He has changed the head unit, and by the way, the car does not have ATC. Before he starts dumping tons of money into this POS, can anyone give us some clue? He has tried swapping out relays and is considering replacing the pcm. This car is not worth it. But right now we are not able to buy another car so we have to get this fixed. We live in the south and he's getting fed up with sweating his you know what off.

Please, no snide remarks. Just answers. Thanks.

which first came out in comic books back in the late 70's by Richard Pini and Wendy Pini, will ever make a comeback or better yet a movie? I am a huge fan of the Elfquest saga and have most of the comics.

I actually used to work just down the street from there original studio in Poughkeepsie, NY which I thought was way cool.

I know that it is not the heater core. It is not leaking and it doesn't smell like antifreeze. The ac has a hard time keeping up on very hot days and it feels like cool to warm air is blowing but sometimes I feel a shot of cold for a second. The mist happens more often in the am than in the afternoon. There is also a noise coming from under the passenger side dash. Kinda like air wooshing? It will go on for a bit then stop then start again.

I've been told that it could be a bad evaporator or receiver/drier or that it could possibly be the blend door actuator not working properly.

Has anyone had similar problems like this and know what fixed it? I know the parts are not a problem. Just the labor cost so I don't want to try something and it doesn't fix the problem.

Thanks in advance.

I know that it is not the heater core. It is not leaking and it doesn't smell like antifreeze. The ac has a hard time keeping up on very hot days and it feels like cool to warm air is blowing but sometimes I feel a shot of cold for a second.

I've been told that it could be a bad evaporator or receiver/drier or that it could possibly be the blend door actuator not working properly.

Has anyone had similar problems like this and know what fixed it? I know the parts are not a problem. Just the labor cost so I don't want to try something and it doesn't fix the problem.

Thanks in advance.

He played as a cop who ironically got shot and became a paraplegic. His wife was screwing his partner and he wanted revenge. He started getting some of the feeling back in his legs and planned a scheme that would work.

Obviously the movie was before his traumatic accident in the early 90s. Don't know any of the other actors or actresses names unfortunately. Wanted to know if the movie is available on DVD. Was a very cool movie.

Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance. And best answer to the first one that gives me more than "check youtube". I want the name or site that I can find the name. Thanks again. :o)

And start buying more economical cars? I am not talking about the family's that have 4 or more kids. I am talking about the people that drive to work every day in the Cadilac Escalades and Ford Excursions with nobody else in the passengers seats. Do you think people will eventually do this? Or do you think that having the biggest thing on the road will still be a status thing. Guess what? I laugh every time I see one at the gas station.

but maybe once a week? The price shouldn't go up until they get there next fill-up. So why do the consumers have to pay for gas that was cheaper when it was delivered?

And if people stayed home on that one day of the week instead of driving to the malls or wherever, that would help to bring the cost of gas down?

My cats are always hacking up a hairball or whatever. It drives me nuts? Is it just my cats or does anyone else have that problem? Don't bother telling me to put hardwood in all the rooms because at the time being, I rent which makes it even worse.

I am just getting settled in the new city we moved to. Now we are going to have to move in the next 3 months. What would you do? I have a full time job that I really like and like the customers that I have to deal with on a day to day basis.

Basicly, should I quit, or should I re-locate or something else alltogether

I just purchased today a Sony car stereo and had it insalled at Circuit City. My old stereo was working fine. It was an older Sony. I just wanted one with an auxiliary input because I also bought a new satellite radio. Anyway, everytime I turn on my turn signal in either direction, I loose almost all speaker function except for the ones in the front and it sounds like it's a mile away. WTF is going on? The other deck didn't do this.

So, my question is, is it the deck, the wiring, or the signal switch? I am definately bringing the car back to them but I won't be able to do it until my next day off which isn't until Saturday. Has anyone ever heard of this happening?j

Best answer will be chosen by asker btw. Thank you in advance.

He is 58 years old. He burps a lot and it is uncontrolable. His stomach hurts too. He has been to doctors and has had a full colonoscopy. The doctors don't know what he has. All they can tell him is that he does not have cancer. This has been ongoing for about a year I think.

He had cut his leg in July and got a real bad infection. He took strong anti-biotics that killed off all the good and bad microbes. He has been eating yogurt to gain back those "live cultures" they talk about. I worry about the guy because he is always in pain and I don't like to see him like this.

Has anyone ever heard of anything like this? Obviously, gas-x is just not going to cut it with this one. I'm sorry I don't have more info, but if you ask I will answer as best as possible.

Oh, one more thing that he has told me. He has borderline chrones disease. I don't know what that really is but the docs know about it too.

And that maybe the one that they are looking for may have definately had something to do with it but maybe is covering for his wife? Maybe the wife in a jealous rage killed her and the two of them disposed of the body. Just a thought.

I just hope justice will be served.

a guage and has pressure. Sprayed ether in the air box. Still no start. The car was scanned for codes and the only thing that comes up is for the fuel pump but that seems to be incorrect. Has anyone come across this before and if so, do you know what it might be?

I replaced the distributor a few years ago. It is not doing the same thing as then. In fact the car ran fine on my lunch break and when I went to leave work, it wouldn't start. It cranks over fine and the battery and starter are good. The check engine light is not on before or after the no start issue.

The car is the 2.5 six cylinder LXI. Please help me diagnose the problem. I know a lot of you will say junk it but I know it will cost a lot less to fix it than it is to buy a new car even if I have to pay close to a grand like I did the last time. Car has been down for over a week now.

in the PS1 game Blazing Dragons? This has been driving me crazy. I have the game and it doesn't give me an in depth view of all the voice talent. But I am almost sure it is her. The first person that shows me proof gets 10 pts.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanza, Feliz Navidad and any others that I may be missing. :o)