Judy

I went on with my life after enduring the heartbreak and all of sudden after 3 years he has contacted me. He is still married but from what he has told me it is not the best of relationships. He wants to engage in an extramarital affair because "entertainment at home is nil." I think I know the answer to my question, but I wanted to throw it out there. I never stopped loving/caring for this man. I just let him go on with his life because he wanted another.

I am walking a little Schitzu/Poodle cross, only 5 years old. She is acting like she has a urinary infection but something is amiss to me. Constant to every pole, little pee, Constant to every tree, little pee. No accidents in the house. I am the walker, what do I do. Her mom had her on Alove Vera water and all was good, she stopped it and then this. Just a bit of help. Thank you.

I have some friends who are asking this question. I believe in God. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins. Is Christian a label? Any help would be a blessing.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We have had so many ups and downs and arguments but we always come back to each other and the love seems to be stronger each time. It is kind of a mysterious connection that we have. I've never experienced it before. I love him very much and don't want to lose him, but this doesn't seem to be like it should be happening.

I was ready and prepared to break up with him as the week was so hurtful. He was so distant. Today, I did go to his work just to say Hi. I brought him a little snack. It was a sort of frosty reception but then he walked me back to my bike. He stopped and kept staring at me. Then he said "I'm glad that you came to see me. I'm reallly glad." I questioned and his reply was "there is something inside me that just can't let this go. I don't want this to end." Then he pulled me close, gave me a huge hug and then kissed me very passionately. We have had problems before due to his drinking excessively at times, his abuse but then things like this happen. I know that I am not supposed to be so vulnerable, should stick to my guns, but my heart just leaps when I look into his eyes. I don't see anything else but the man I fell in love with. I don't truly forget the "bad times" but they don't seem so prominent at times like this morning. I am confused. I still love him, I still care about him a lot but do I put aside the bad times and take the good or do I move on and let him find ways to heal himself. My world feels complete when he is around, I just don't like the drinking and the personality changes when he is drinking. He has his job, he works regularly, he has his personal issues as do I. I feel that I don't want to lose him. Signed, Confused

We met last August, had kind of a "backwards" dating schedule. We dated 3 times, then slept together. I moved in with him and then all started to backfire in January 2012. He is kind of a control freak, had a cell phone, called me over 60 times a night to check and see where I was. I wasn't allowed to be anywhere but where he knew. He constantly says he loves me, doesn't want to lose me. He does drink heavily at times and then the tears fall. He says that I can do so much better but not to leave him. He has recently lost a son a year ago which he blames himself for. The young man was a drug addict and died of an overdose during the winter. Every holiday is a crisis. He does have a daughter who has just graduated. He has hit me a few times when he was drinking, thrown me out of the house and called the police. I know that a lot of you are going to say that I should just get rid of him, but I do care. I did fall in love with him but I didn't know what he was like. I was warned by my daughter and close friend, but I can't stand gossip. I know now that he is full of anger and has not resolved a lot of personal issues in his life. I feel like a convenience, someone who cares because no one else will. I am not the most perfect person, have my problems too. I don't want to reject him because he is all alone. I won't stay around him when he is angry or when he has been drinking. When he is sober he is a very sweet and loving man and he treats me like a princess. It's the booze that turns the corners. He won't admit it though. I am an alcoholic too, reformed as they say. Don't drink any longer so this hits home. I guess I have answered my own question but any input would be helpful.

He is a strong Christian and this young lady practices divination (witchcraft), Free Love, Love and Light, is not a Christian. She lives with a family with 8 kids, the man and wife practice free love, the young girl and the wife are lovers. He seems infatuated with this young girl. Is this a sign of an older man wanting to be young or a possible change of life thing? I am worried about him, he hurts very easy and he is putting his entire heart and soul into this so-called relationship. Should I just let him go and be there when he needs me again or just let him go period? I care a lot about him, we have been through many, many difficult times and have helped each other through. We were close but this worries me. I don't know what to do but pray for him.