Candice

My boyfriend and I are 25 and have been dating since March and have gone looking at engagement rings. Yesterday, I received the results of a biopsy that stated that I probably have thyroid cancer. I never even considered the fact that it could have been cancer. I called my boyfriend hysterically crying and scared to death. I needed him more than I have ever needed him before. He was at work and couldn't get off so I didn't see him until that afternoon. He has been sick all week with horrible allergies. By the time he came over he gave me a hug and a kiss and told me to think positively and I spent the rest of the night taking care of him acting like a baby over allergies. I am so hurt but didn't mention it because I am not in the mood to fight. Is this something that I should break up with him for? How can I marry someone who isn't there for me when I need him most?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months. Even though it has been a short time, we are serious about our relationship and plan to get married in the future. We are both 25, established in our careers and see what we want and need in our relationship. Before my boyfriend and I got together, I was praying for God to send me the man that he had for me. The problem is that he believes in God and is a Christian like me but will not go to church with me. I am starting to wonder if this is who God wants for me because my relationship with God and church is very important and I don't know if he is the one based on this. Please help. I don't understand but I know that I want to be in God's will for my life. I have prayed about it and I have not received confirmation yet.

I met a guy about two months ago through a mutual church family friend. He is in pharmacy school and graduates in May. He is currently doing his rotations and working a second job at CVS. Since we met, we have only seen each other three times because he is constantly busy with work and school. He is also very helpful with his mom and his nieces (his brother does not do much for them).

I really like him and want to have a relationship with him and become closer but I know that he is busy all the time. He told me when we first met that he wasn't sure if he was ready for a commitment because he was so busy.

We use to talk every day but now we probably talk a few times a week and he hasn't made any plans for us to do anything together for a month. I would like to see him more and spend more time with him. Am I asking too much or could there be a problem?

My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years. We are both 22 years old and were suppose to get married next year. Anyway, last year he just changed and started lying about where he was going. I found out that he was going to clubs and I found out that he had sex with another girl. All of this happened while he was with me. I am hurting so bad right now. I don't understand why this happened and why he did this to me. He keeps texting me and acting like he thinks that everything is alright and I am going to take him back.

--Do you understand why he did this?

--How do I move on and forget 5 years?

Please serious answers. I feel as though my whole life has been turned upside down and my heart literally aches. I planned my whole life around us.

I have a meeting to go to and I have a white dress shirt and blue dress pants. What color shoes match best?

I want to buy this Paint-By-Number set. I want the angel to be an African American angel. Is this possible and how do I do it?

http://www.oakridgehobbies.com/index.php/craft-act...

My boyfriend and I were dating for four years and next year after we graduated from college we were planning to get married. Last month I found out that he had made a myspace page behind my back and has been talking to all of these girls and has been calling them. (Girls that he knows that live around here) I am heart broken because I truly thought that we would be together forever. When I found out I broke up with him. I am having a diffucult time moving on because I had been with him so long I don't do anything but cry. I don't feel like getting out and doing anything with friends. He calls me all the time telling me that he is fine without me and glad that we broke up. Why did he do that to me? We were not having any problems before this happened and I just don't understand why he is treating me this way because he was the one who cheated. Any ideas?

I have all of the Sims 2 expansion packs including Bon Voyage. None of my Sims can go downtown anymore. I have uninstalled the game and installed it again but it still does not work. Can someone please help me?

I just put my picture on Answers and it looks like my eyes are crossed.(My eyes are not really crossed) Does my picture on Answers look ok? Serious answers please!

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 3 years. I am going to college in a week. The college is about 40 minutes away. Since I will only be able to come home on the weekend. I thought that he would want to be be with me more often. All he wants to do is play Xbox 360 all day. When I am at home I can see that he is logged in ALL day. The only time he pays any attention to me is when we are having sex and then he goes to sleep and plays XBOX 360 for the rest of the day. We love each other but he is ignoring me and I don't think that I deserve it. Is he jealous because I am leaving soon or is it something else? Please help!

I am starting school at Alabama A&M this month. I will be a junior but it is my first year there since I am a transfer student. I am quiet most of the time and I really would love to make some friends because I don't know anyone there. I am going to have a roommate. How do I open up and make friends with my roommate and the other students?

I just went to my doctor to have a required physical and they took some blood and I had to urine in a cup. When I got my results they said I have a mild case of anemia and he put me on some medication. Anyway, I was wondering does the doctor check for all diseases including HIV/AIDS and STD's in the blood tests or do I have to ask him to because I want to make sure that I have no diseases. Also does anyone have anemia and if you do could you explain to me what it is exactly because I did not understand it when he told me.

I want to have different breed of dogs on my game other than the original ones on Sims 2. I have Sims 2, Nightlife, Open for Business, and Seasons. Please help I really want some smaller breeds of dogs.

I have been getting a pap smear done every year since I was 17.( I'm 20 now). Does it test for STD's and AIDS or just for cancers and tumors. Just wondering

~Candice~

Me and my boyfriend just had our 3rd anniversary yesterday. We love each other very much and we love spending time together but we always fight. It's always over something stupid and we always say that we are going to break up but we never do and we always make up. The point is that I hate fighting with him and I need tips to try to stop us from fighting. I think that it is mostly me (I am a hot-headed Aries). He is a Scorpio. Please help! I love him and I just want us to stop fighting. He works a lot and I am in school a lot so we don't get to see each other that much. I really want to stop fighting because in 2 months I am transfering to another college that is about 45 minutes away. I want to make sure that our relationship is strong enough to survive us being apart sometimes. Please give me serious answers because I really love him and I want us to be together. We are suppose to get married when we graduate college.

~Candice~

June 10th is me and my boyfriend's third anniversary and I don't have a clue what to get him. I want to get him something really special to show him how much I love him. Please help! I am running out of time!

I am pregnant and I want to find some cute names for my baby.

I like Mariah Arielle for a girl and Britton Donavan for a boy. The first name has to be Britton because that is my husband's name. We both are African American. Any suggestions?