Choco Valentine

So let me start out by telling you I'm a 13 year old girl.

I left my public school which I was in since fifth grade when I was in seventh grade. I am now in eighth grade.

I spent half of the seventh grade year being homeschooled and I am still being homeschooled. I REALLY hate it. The school has really bad ratings, and the regular math is too easy, so I'm in advanced math that my parents can't even do and we looked it up and it says the problems are college algebra.

I have never told anyone this, but I have OCD.

So basically my older sister is 16, I'm 13. Lately she has been such a b****. I don't know why. She was on the computer and my mom and I walked through the room and she got all mad and yelled at us that we were stomping and told us not to stomp (note that I was NOT stomping).

She always seems to have something negative to say. I was playing a song (from a video game) and she was like, "It sounds weird" when it's REALLY hard to play (and she couldn't play s***). Also, she comes home from school and complains about the door being locked, so I open it when it looks like hse's having trouble and then she says I'm "annoying her" by opening it. She could at least nicely tell me to not open it.

Just now I told her I finished a song (Nyan Cat) on Mario Paint Composer (a music program) and she was like, "Oh." really bored, and I was like, "You don't like Nyan Cat very much, do you?" She was like, "No, I don't really care for it." (If she stopped there, I wouldn't have been mad.) But then she added, "Nyan cat is so 3 years ago. No one cares about it anymore." When I worked hard for that song and spent a long time perfecting it.

I know she talks behind my back, too. My mom usually isn't mean and usually doesn't talk about me, but I know my older sister does.

And then when I get mad at her she gets all mad and when I tell her why I'm mad, she just gets all angry about it and says I'M the bad guy by being mad at her. There are tons more things she does. What am I supposed to do?

So I'm trying to remember this song. Basically, it's by a boy band. I THINK One Direction, but it might be 5 Seconds of Summer. NO RUDE ANSWERS IF YOU DON'T LIKE THEM. I actually don't listen to them that much, but there's a specific song that I'm trying to remember.

It's kind of slow-ish. Not like, classical or something, but not super upbeat and fast, y'know?

The part that would probably help the most is that each guy sings a different part. Like, they switch between parts. One guy sings one part, the next sings the chorus, the next guy sings the next part and so on. Like, they switch between parts.

Anyone know? I think it's fairly recent.

No rude answers.

He's watching movies and playing video games ALL THE TIME (literally, he plays until 12 Am and starts when he gets home from work) and I'll get a snack or make a tiny noise or say something to my mom and he tells me to shut up or shut the F*ck up. He's always lecturing me about respect, so he's kind of a hypocrite, he thinks he doesnn't have to respect me since I'm the child. I think he should at least be decent to me.

If I would say shut up he would kill me. I would get grounded for a month and get spanked, probably. (Even though I'm a 13 year old girl and that seems a little unacceptable.) He never apologizes and does it all the time, although it's not the worst thing he does. He says it when I never even talk to him, I just have to make a tiny noise. He's been doing it for years.

What should I do?

So I ve had my hamster for about five months, maybe longer. She is a female russian dwarf hamster. She went into my hands on the first day and didn t bite me, I gave her treats and such and she has only bit me twice and it didn t even hurt (and I know it was because I had food on my hands). So it wasn t a bite, it was a nibble. I literally felt no pain.

She also lets my parents pick her up. She s only bit my dad once and it drew blood but it was because he put his hand in her house (and you re not supposed to do that). Not her cage, I mean the little house that s in her cage.

So my dad had her and at this point I wasn t there because I had to get her hamster ball so I was gone for a few seconds. While I was gone, he had her but he was on the couch and he apparently dropped her and she went into the couch (my dad isn t very good at keeping her in his hands, I guess...) and he had to dig her out, than she started biting him more than once. It didn t bleed but it did "scab" (so some of his skin scabbed because of it, but didn t bleed). Then my mom picked her up and she bit her too. Then I picked her up and she was fine. They said that they didn t have anything on their hands, but he WAS digging in the couch and my mom just did laundry so... maybe she never smelled that before...

My dad keeps showing me the bite as if to say "What do you have to say for yourself?" like I did something wrong, and I don t have anything to say other than that it doesn t mean she was being mean.

I have really thin hair and I heard that it means you'll lose your hair... is there any way to prevent this?

No rude answers.

If you are going to say something like "Yes" I would like you to give an actual explanation as to why this is. Any rude answers will be reported. I'm only saying this because I know there are a lot of trolls on Yahoo Answers and I would like a legitimate answer, which is not very common.

To the people who will actually take the time to give an informative answer... I would like to know:

1. Is it true?

2. Just because I have thin hair, does it mean that my hair is "guaranteed" to fall out? Or is it just more likely? I guess what I'm saying is, what are the chances of it happening?

3. Why does it happen?

4/ How do I fix it?

The answer doesn't have to be totally scientific and all of that, I'd just like informative answers to these questions.

Alright, so I heard that if someone stares at someone else for over 6 seconds it means they either have a physical attraction to you or they want to kill you. Is it true? For example, if someone stared at another person for over six seconds, but they didn't feel anything for them...is it possible? I guess I'm just asking, is that what it HAS to mean? Are there other "explanations?"

BTW, this isn't based off of me or anyone else. I just read that and it made me really curious!

My hamster was awake in her house. I wanted to see if she was moving so I lifted her house just a bit (she probably didn't even notice) to make a little "crack" so I could see her. I just lifted up one side of the house a tiny bit so I could look kinda under the tiny lifted part of the house. She was moving but I put the house down. My dad put his finger in her house. She bit him. She has never bit anyone before. She's nibbled on me (I had food on my hands and it didn't hurt), but she drew blood on him. He blamed me because he said she got irritated that I lifted the house, and she took it out on him. Was it right for him to blame me, especially if we have no "evidence"? I didn't even think she noticed. It's like looking through the crack of a door that's a TINY bit opened. I barely moved it. I'm not saying it's because he put his finger in (i.e. I'm not blaming him) so he shouldn't blame me, right?

I know it's not that big of a deal, but he does this kind of stuff a lot. So... I was just wondering.

I want to download Mad Father to my flash drive. If it's not possible plz don't call me stupid or something because I don't use computers a lot.

I ve been eating them occasionally but rarely, and I just made one. Being dumb, I searched if it was vegetarian AFTER I cooked the cup. I don t want it to go to waste, and I know every once and a while vegetarians have minor setbacks. Should I jus eat this cup and then stop eating them...? It s already cooked, so I guess it won t make much of a difference...

Help?!

I posted a question about my sister a while ago but this one's a little bit different.

So my sister asked why I don't sing in front of people. I used to get bullied a lot so I know about keeping to myself to avoid it. I told her this: "If I sing in front of people, whether I am good or bad, it'll just give them another thing to insult." People would insult me, believe me, they hated me. She was like "You're being greedy and selfish." I was like, "How?" and she said "You're taking your singing away from them." I thought that was stupid. But wait, it gets worse. I said "Well, they don't know what they're missing if they've never heard me." She was like "Well actually, you're being greedy and selfish because you're saying 'ME ME ME!' and you're being self-centered." I was in awe, I thought it was ridiculous. "How?" She told me this: "You think you're too good for them to hear you and judge you." I was like "Well, I don't think saying I'm a 'bad singer' will help. It's not judging, they hate me (this was when I was getting bullied) and it'll just give them more ammo." She disagreed.

Who is right?

My sister ALWAYS thinks she's right... she thinks she knows what I'm thinking. It's like, I would be like "I like the taste of food" (random) and she'll be like "No you don't, I know because I'm always right." It's SO annoying. I'm going to give you an entry from my computer diary.

WARNING: The following entry may have offensive and harsh language. Do not read if you are offended easily. Remember that I am not looking to be insulted for rude language. This entry was not to meant to be seen by anyone but me, but I don't want to change it because I want to show you how angry I felt.

I tried copying-and Pasting but I will have to make an update.

If you watched it... I didn't think it was that great. It didn't have the same feel to it. I didn't like the new girl idea, Beca was supposed to be the new girl, and I felt like the characters were a little bit out of character.

1. I thought Beca was different. She used to shut people out and her mashups were kind of private except with her friends. She completely opens up to the new girl and they suddenly work together.

2. Bumper was totally kind and nice to Fat Amy. I felt like he was this whole new character.

3. The new girl was kind of bland. I felt like she didn't have anything to her except she was a songwriter and a freak to be a Bella. She didn't have any "special" traits.

4. Jesse was barely in it at all! Jesse was a big part of the first one.

5. I felt the comedy style changed a little bit.

I think it was produced and/or directed differently... I don't remember which but it was directed or produced or something by some different person... it was like Mean Girls 2. It didn't feel like it was a sequel, more like a whole different movie than the first one.

Maybe if they took the new girl out and JUST focused on getting back into the finals, kept Aubrey in the movie a bit more, and had the same people produce/direct it, the comedy style would be the same, it would have been good.

What do you guys think?

If you watched it... I didn't think it was that great. It didn't have the same feel to it. I didn't like the new girl idea, Beca was supposed to be the new girl, and I felt like the characters were a little bit out of character.

1. I thought Beca was different. She used to shut people out and her mashups were kind of private except with her friends. She completely opens up to the new girl and they suddenly work together.

2. Bumper was totally kind and nice to Fat Amy. I felt like he was this whole new character.

3. The new girl was kind of bland. I felt like she didn't have anything to her except she was a songwriter and a freak to be a Bella. She didn't have any "special" traits.

4. Jesse was barely in it at all! Jesse was a big part of the first one.

5. I felt the comedy style changed a little bit.

I think it was produced and/or directed differently... I don't remember which but it was directed or produced or something by some different person... it was like Mean Girls 2. It didn't feel like it was a sequel, more like a whole different movie than the first one.

Maybe if they took the new girl out and JUST focused on getting back into the finals, kept Aubrey in the movie a bit more, and had the same people produce/direct it, the comedy style would be the same, it would have been good.

What do you guys think?

He normally doesn't do this kind of stuff.

It all started when he thought I was eating in the living room (Which I wasn't, he saw the cereal bowl there and immediately thought I was). I had a whole bunch of stuff in my hands and there was stuff on the kitchen table so I had to put the cereal bowl (just had milk in it now because I ate it IN THE KITCHEN) on a tray thing in the living room that was near the kitchen (but was still in the living room area). My dad told my mom (who is so much nicer than my dad. She is afraid of him too) and I kept trying to object and explain that I was about to drop the bowl (which just had milk in it) but he ignored me and kept interrupting me to yell at me. So I yelled loudly "THAT'S NOT WHAT HAPPENED! Stop making stuff UP!" and then he looked at me (at this point my mom was gone and my dad was making food so there was a knife on the table) and I said "If you LISTENED for once, you would know what happened? You're so ANNOYING! You never listen at all!" and then he got mad and picked up the knife and just threw it at me. A regular knife, not something less awful like a butter knife. I dodged it and I don't know where it would've hit me if I didn't move away, but I did. He just stared at me with an angry look on his face and I marched downstairs.

(I need to add an update because there's a little more)

I read that somewhere. Please give me serious answers here. PLEASE DON'T SAY IT'S A STUPID QUESTION! I don't know if it does mean that... Please answer seriously! Because I will worry if you're not serious/lying.

My sister told me that if you sleep with your mouth open than spiders go into your mouth because they like moisture :( is that true please be honest

I used to have a lot of friends (I asked a question called My friend is third wheeling me... what do I do? You can look at it to see my problem) and now I don't have any friends. She suddenly ditched me for this other girl. I try to talk to people but they just ignore me. Another old friend told me she deleted her texting account and she said to take her off my contact list. I did, but I found out she still uses it, so she obviously just didn't want to talk to me. I thought I was a good friend. I honestly don't know what I did to make anyone mad. What do I do?

By the way, people are just rude to me. Make nasty faces even if I've never spoken to them, glance at me, ask me weird questions and laugh (things like "Have you been absent this year" and I'm like "Yeah, I've missed a couple days..." Then they'll laugh), etc.

What do I do?

I don't know if this was just me, but my dad seems pretty mean. He is always putting me down. He calls me fat sometimes (I am 13 4"9 and early 70s pounds, i don't know if that's really fat) and he also calls me ugly sometimes. I figure he is just annoyed. But lately he won't let me eat. I mean, I'm not kidding. I had a sandwich and he was just like "Nope, hand it over". I don't know if it's because he thinks I'm fat? It's not during breakfast or dinner when we're all eating together, but only when I'm eating alone. He doesn't really hit me or anything but he'll like suddenly pour freezing cold water on me out of no where, I don't get why he does it. Am I a bad person? I didn't really do anything that I know of to make him really angry or anything. He also always yells at me for being disrespectful because I don't listen to him (and I really try to. I pretty much avoid him when I can). My mom is super nice, he recently became like this and my mom is scared of him. He is so mean and he always says stuff behind her back about her, like how ugly she is, which of course she is not! I don't know why he does it! My mom doesn't want to divorce him. I mean, I think she does, but she doesn't have the money. We're not super poor, just kind of below the "lower class", so... yeah.

My mom let's me eat, of course. My dad always picks, too. He will pull my hair ALL THE TIME and mock me and then call me an idiot. I am on the honor roll. Am I a bad person? Why is he so mean?