Lucy

Basically ongoing situationship for 2 years. We knew each other really well in person. He broke my heart big time repeatedly. Finally he wanted to make a go of things and re-followed me on social media. We started texting properly but he was being dry then out of nowhere he just blocked me. I found out that it was because my brother warned him to leave me alone & quit playing with me. I feel like he could have had the decency to speak to me first though but just flat out blocked/ghosted me. 

Then last week he went by my house and was staring in. 

Opinions? 

We’ve been talking online *only* as long distance- both early twenties. He was very into me, complimenting me endlessly, told me I was his soulmate, we talked non-stop for hours sometimes, I was waking up to good morning messages & got goodnight texts also. He had his moods also though but blamed it on drugs. When I got mad he told me he’s ill which is why it took him a while one day to respond & that he was falling for me and wished we were closer to get sexual. I was developing feelings also but he was rushing things & getting so intense so I blocked him but did let him down first. He then created 3 fake accounts to try to get me back and messaged my sister (who he also does not know) but she blocked him as she was freaked out. I unblocked him to explain my reasoning and he was really upset claiming that I was talking to other guys & that he doesn’t want relationships/sex but he said that talking to me turns him on & wanted me to tell him what I wanted from him. I re-blocked him and he created another fake account but I just blocked again.

Opinions?

We’ve been talking online *only* as long distance- both early twenties. He was very into me, complimenting me endlessly, told me I was his soulmate, we talked non-stop for hours sometimes, I was waking up to good morning messages & got goodnight texts also. He had his moods also though but blamed it on drugs. When I got mad he told me he’s ill which is why it took him a while one day to respond & that he was falling for me and wished we were closer to get sexual. I was developing feelings also but he was rushing things & getting so intense so I blocked him but did let him down first. He then created 3 fake accounts to try to get me back and messaged my sister (who he also does not know) but she blocked him as she was freaked out. I unblocked him to explain my reasoning and he was really upset claiming that I was talking to other guys & that he doesn’t want relationships/sex but he said that talking to me turns him on & wanted me to tell him what I wanted from him. I re-blocked him and he created another fake account but I just blocked again.

Opinions?

Basically ongoing situationship for 2 years. We knew each other really well in person. He broke my heart big time repeatedly. Finally he wanted to make a go of things and re-followed me on social media. We started texting properly but he was being dry then out of nowhere he just blocked me. I found out that it was because my brother warned him to leave me alone & quit playing with me or else he’d have him to answer to. I know he was afraid of my brother but still I feel like he could have had the decency to speak to me first though but just flat out blocked/ghosted me. 

Then last week he went by my house and was staring in. 

Opinions? 

Basically ongoing situationship for 2 years. We knew each other really well in person. He broke my heart big time repeatedly. Finally he wanted to make a go of things and re-followed me on social media. We started texting properly but he was being dry then out of nowhere he just blocked me. I found out that it was because my brother warned him to leave me alone & quit playing with me. I feel like he could have had the decency to speak to me first though but just flat out blocked/ghosted me. 

Then last week he went by my house and was staring in. 

Opinions? 

We’ve been talking online *only* as long distance, have not met in person. I’m 23- Irish, he’s 22- Moroccan. He was very into me, complimenting me endlessly, told me I was his soulmate, we talked non-stop for hours sometimes, I was waking up to good morning messages & got goodnight texts also. He had his moods also though but blamed it on drugs. When I got mad he told me he’s ill which is why it took him a while one day to respond & that he was falling for me and wished we were closer to get sexual. I was developing feelings also but he was rushing things & getting so intense so I blocked him but did let him down first. He then created 3 fake accounts to try to get me back and messaged my sister (who he also does not know) but she blocked him as she was freaked out. I unblocked him to explain my reasoning and he was really upset claiming that I was talking to other guys & that he doesn’t want relationships/sex but he said that talking to me turns him on & wanted me to tell him what I wanted from him. I re-blocked him and he created another fake account but I just blocked again.

Opinions?

We’ve been talking online *only* as long distance, have not met in person. I’m 23- Irish, he’s 22- Moroccan. He became very into me, complimenting me endlessly, told me I was his soulmate, we talked non-stop for hours sometimes, I was waking up to good morning messages & got goodnight texts also. He had his moods also though but blamed it on drugs. He told me that he was falling for me, I was developing feelings also but he was rushing things & getting so intense so I blocked him but did let him down first. He then created 2 fake accounts to try to get me back and messaged my sister (who he also does not know) but she blocked him as she was freaked out. I unblocked him to explain my reasoning and he was really upset but he said that talking to me turns him on. I re-blocked him and he created another fake account but I just blocked again.

Opinions?

We’ve been talking online *only* as long distance, have not met in person. I’m 23- Irish, he’s 22- Moroccan. He became very into me, complimenting me endlessly, told me I was his soulmate, we talked non-stop for hours sometimes, I was waking up to good morning messages & got goodnight texts also. He had his moods also though but blamed it on drugs. He told me that he was falling for me, I was developing feelings also but he was rushing things & getting so intense so I blocked him but did let him down first. He then created 2 fake accounts to try to get me back and messaged my sister (who he also does not know) but she blocked him as she was freaked out. I unblocked him to explain my reasoning and he was really upset but he said that talking to me turns him on. I re-blocked him and he created another fake account but I just blocked again.

Opinions?

We’ve been talking online *only* as long distance, have not met in person. I’m 23- Irish, he’s 22- Moroccan. He became very into me, complimenting me endlessly, told me I was his soulmate, we talked non-stop for hours sometimes, I was waking up to good morning messages & got goodnight texts also. He had his moods also though but blamed it on drugs. He told me that he was falling for me, I was developing feelings also but he was rushing things & getting so intense so I blocked him but did let him down first. He then created 2 fake accounts to try to get me back and messaged my sister (who he also does not know) but she blocked him as she was freaked out. I unblocked him to explain my reasoning and he was really upset but he said that talking to me turns him on. I re-blocked him and he created another fake account but I just blocked again.

Opinions?

We’ve been talking online *only* as long distance. He’s 22, I’m 23. Looks-wise we’re equal. He became very into me, complimenting me endlessly, told me I was his soulmate, we talked non-stop for hours sometimes, I was waking up to good morning messages & got goodnight texts also. He told me that he was falling for me, I was developing feelings also but he was rushing things so I blocked him. He then created 3 fake accounts to try to get me back and messaged my sister but she blocked him also. I unblocked him to explain my reasoning and he was really upset but he said that talking to me turns him on. He always wanted to be with a foreign girl & I’ve always been attracted to foreign guys but I have trust issues. 

Opinions?

We were in close proximity and the tension was high, he kept staring at my eyes then lips and repeated this and his voice went all soft. He then asked me to close my eyes. He also claims we are just friends and nothing serious will happen between us. Do guys normally do this before kissing though- ask you to close your eyes?

We were in close proximity and the tension was high, he kept staring at my eyes then lips and repeated this and his voice went all soft. He then asked me to close my eyes. Opinion? Do guys normally do this before kissing?

He’s highly attracted to me. He called me stunningly beautiful and hot. He tried to kiss me. He touches his private area and face a lot whenever I go near him and he’s even said he’d **** me and that he knows I could get any guy I wanted. On top of that he also has called me a “nice person” and when I asked if it’s just that we’re not compatible he said no that’s not the issue at all but that he’s really weird & ****** up and has tried everything to get better and wants to even move somewhere where nobody knows his name/anything about him.

Opinions?

He rejected me over 1 year ago over having a gf I did not know about, he treated me so so badly after that and there were a load of complications where I played a few games also and eventually he blocked me and pursued another girl right in front of me. Now I’ve had a massive glow up and he hasn’t seen me in 4 months, we’ve been speaking on the phone a lot (for working purposes) and he is being extremely sweet & shy, speaking softly to me and being overly polite, calling me my pet name as well. He’s treating me better than before al the drama happened with us. Opinions?

He rejected me over 1 year ago over having a gf I did not know about, he treated me so so badly after that and there were a load of complications where I played a few games also and eventually he blocked me and pursued another girl right in front of me. Now I’ve had a massive glow up and he hasn’t seen me in 4 months, we’ve been speaking on the phone a lot (for working purposes) and he is being extremely sweet & shy, speaking softly to me and being overly polite, calling me my pet name as well. He’s treating me better than before al the drama happened with us. Opinions?

He rejected me over 1 year ago over having a gf I did not know about, he treated me so so badly after that and there were a load of complications where I played a few games also and eventually he blocked me and pursued another girl right in front of me. Now I’ve had a massive glow up and he hasn’t seen me in 4 months, we’ve been speaking on the phone a lot (for working purposes) and he is being extremely sweet & shy, speaking softly to me and being overly polite, calling me my pet name as well. He’s treating me better than before al the drama happened with us. Opinions?

***NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS***

Last year this guy rejected me. He treated me horribly after that playing hot and cold and then eventually blocked me and ignored me but continued flirting with other girls in front of me.Recently I’ve had a big glow up, he started then acting nervous around me and trying to look good for me, even daring to start a conversation with me trying to smooth things out but I continue to ignore him and give him no attention.A few days ago I had to call him to speak about something, he was extremely nervous and took forever to answer the phone but then was really nice, spoke softly to me and was super helpful, I couldn’t believe how nice he was to me- treated me the same as before the rejection.Now I’ve heard he’s trying to pursue girls with the very same name as me who also look exactly like me.It was confirmed also just before lockdown that he was sexually attracted to me now. Opinions?

***NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS***

Last year this guy rejected me. He treated me horribly after that playing hot and cold and then eventually blocked me and ignored me but continued flirting with other girls in front of me.Recently I’ve had a big glow up, he started then acting nervous around me and trying to look good for me, even daring to start a conversation with me trying to smooth things out but I continue to ignore him and give him no attention.A few days ago I had to call him to speak about something, he was extremely nervous and took forever to answer the phone but then was really nice, spoke softly to me and was super helpful, I couldn’t believe how nice he was to me- treated me the same as before the rejection.Now I’ve heard he’s trying to pursue girls with the very same name as me who also look exactly like me.It was confirmed also just before lockdown that he was sexually attracted to me now. Opinions?

***NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS***

Last year this guy rejected me. He treated me horribly after that playing hot and cold and then eventually blocked me and ignored me but continued flirting with other girls in front of me.Recently I’ve had a big glow up, he started then acting nervous around me and trying to look good for me, even daring to start a conversation with me trying to smooth things out but I continue to ignore him and give him no attention.A few days ago I had to call him to speak about something, he was extremely nervous and took forever to answer the phone but then was really nice, spoke softly to me and was super helpful, I couldn’t believe how nice he was to me- treated me the same as before the rejection.Now I’ve heard he’s trying to pursue girls with the very same name as me who also look exactly like me.It was confirmed also just before lockdown that he was sexually attracted to me now. Opinions?

Basically last year my friend rejected me (claiming that it was due to having a secret long-distance relationship). He treated me horribly after that playing hot and cold and then eventually blocked me and ignored me but continued flirting with other girls in front of me.

Recently- I’ve had a big glow up and took on more hours at work therefore spending more time with him, he started then acting nervous around me and trying to look good for me, even daring to start a conversation with me trying to smooth things out but I continue to ignore him and give him no attention.

The other day I had to speak to him for work reasons (first time speaking to him in months due to COVID), he was extremely nervous and took forever to answer the phone but then was really nice, spoke softly to me and was super helpful, I couldn’t believe how nice he was to me. Opinions please I’m overwhelmed as I thought I was over him but I realise I still have feelings for him. It was confirmed also just before lockdown that he was sexually attracted to me now.