Nathalie

Ok so I am only 5 ft 2 size 8, I am very fair skinned, although I use a light tanner and use an ivory foundation to give me some color, I have ash blonde hair with golden hues in it and brown eyes. I wear brown eyeliner and use a rose blush on my cheeks, dark pink lipstick and a light cream eyeshadow, sometimes with a bit of purple, and black mascara.

So I have my eye on this REALLY nice little black dress, but I'm scared to buy it incase I can't pull black off :( I was thinking of getting matched up to a good red lipstick that would suit me and a plum eyeshadow to kind of go with the black dress?

Can anyone help with advice?

this is the dress: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Patty-Padded-Ruched-Clubwe...

I have fair skin, caramel blonde hair and brown eyes - what lip shade and eyeshadow shade would suit me best?

Helpful answers appreciated!

Ok so after swapping and changing from a lot of blonde shades, including all out platinum - I have finally found a shade that suits my skin tone (pale, but I use a tanner) and eye color (hazel) it is a light beige blonde with bits of ash and gold in, it blends well with my roots and from investing in good quality hair products I am finally starting to see it grow better again, hopefully it will be the length I want it by around spring.

In the past my same hairdresser has given me highlights and low lights, however I want my hair just that bit more lighter and was thinking of getting some highlights, the next time I see my hairdresser I should just be able to get my roots topped up instead of having to have it all dyed again - so was wondering if I should ask for some highlights.

Do you think this would damage my hair? Should i go for a quater, half head or full head of highlights?

Please let me know what you think I should do. Helpful answers much appreciated! xx

Ok....I am 19 and my parents have been divorced since I was 3 as my dad was abusive with my mother, and at school I was quiet and I have never really liked guys my age, I spent and still do spend the majority of my time at my mother's, because my dad has caused a lot of upset for me and my mam in the past.

I never really felt attracted to lads my age as I find them immature and didn't really fancy them physically. When I was 17 I made a stupid mistake in getting involved with a married man the age of 37 and he made me do things I wasn't entirely comfortable with and took advantage of a situation and some people say it was rape but I am not so sure, I said no to him but he didn't listen.....but I just let him have his way I guess.

The reason I was with such an older man is because I have suffered with issues of fatherlessness and he would be like a dad to me but I came away feeling abused. My dad doesn't know and none of my family know that I had been involved with that man.

I sometimes think my dad would blame me if he ever found out, my mam would say he had a lot of good qualities to him like being protective but he was insecure and why he was abusive (mentally as well).

I know I am the age I am now but I still very much am needing that father figure in my life, I email my uncle a lot as he has been more supportive of me than my dad has in the past....only recently has my dad showed real support to me.

I feel like I'm going to be single forever because of the issues I have.

Please help :(

Ok....I am 19 and my parents have been divorced since I was 3 as my dad was abusive with my mother, and at school I was quiet and I have never really liked guys my age, I spent and still do spend the majority of my time at my mother's, because my dad has caused a lot of upset for me and my mam in the past.

I never really felt attracted to lads my age as I find them immature and didn't really fancy them physically. When I was 17 I made a stupid mistake in getting involved with a married man the age of 37 and he made me do things I wasn't entirely comfortable with and took advantage of a situation and some people say it was rape but I am not so sure, I said no to him but he didn't listen.....but I just let him have his way I guess.

The reason I was with such an older man is because I have suffered with issues of fatherlessness and he would be like a dad to me but I came away feeling abused. My dad doesn't know and none of my family know that I had been involved with that man.

I sometimes think my dad would blame me if he ever found out, my mam would say he had a lot of good qualities to him like being protective but he was insecure and why he was abusive (mentally as well).

I know I am the age I am now but I still very much am needing that father figure in my life, I email my uncle a lot as he has been more supportive of me than my dad has in the past....only recently has my dad showed real support to me.

I feel like I'm going to be single forever because of the issues I have.

Please help :(

My name is Nathalie and I am 19 years old, in the past friends have backstabbed me so I've never had a true friend that hasn't turned on me, I don't have many friends now only one who I knew as a little girl and lost contact with for a while, but she is a good friend. I have also never had a proper boyfriend and I know I'm probably seen by people from my school I went to as a weirdo but they don't know how much I hurt inside.

My dad has never been there for me and my family don't want to know me and my uncle who lives in the US won't come and see me even though he replies to my emails sometimes but it just upsets me, I have fatherlessness issues and I like older men, I have been involved with an older man who was 37 in the past who was married (wrong I know) and I came away feeling abused.

I feel like I can't accept myself and I don't have much confidence please help!!! I am posting this in the religious section because I am looking for fellow Christian answers, I recently gave my life to God. Please do not answer if you do not have God in your life. Thanks xxx

need a good nickname for my new email, I need something in 2 words that would describe a girl who is very delicate, fragile and sensitive, coy, yet has a wild side but just wants to be taken care of