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Me and my ex of 3 years broke up and i started seeing another guy. The dilemma is that I made a promise and made my ex promise no matter how much we hate eachother we are going to be eachothers first (we are both virgins). We have not had sex, and we have broke up, and I am sorta seeing someone now. How does this work? What should I do? I am resorting to Yahoo Answers right now to get some ideas on what I should do cause I am in a horrible situation. Help! Thank you.

I am on a break with my boyfriend of 3 years, but now I am considering actually breaking up and just staying best friends. The thing is though, he is not letting me have any say in what is going to happen because he thinks if I break up with him it just means that I want to find someone better than he is, and that that is an insult to him. I want to break up with him because I want to try new experiences (I got in a long term when i was 16), I want to find myself, and I also have alot of problems to deal with (family health issues) and I do not get support from him because he is too busy with work and school. (I am not a priority in his life). How can I tell him that I am not insulting him, and I am not trying to find someone better?

Okay so I will make this short, or at least try to. I have been dating #1 for 3 years (first love, first boyfriend), and we love eachother, but right now we are on a break due to me not being a priority in his life, his work schedule, me wanting to have fun with friends, and him not wanting to ever go out and have fun. This break is supposed to last a couple of months, we made a mutual agreement. There is this other guy, #2, who makes me his priority, enjoys the time spent with me, and tries to have fun although he works all the time too, but he leaves his work at his work place. With this break, #1 said that if I did anything with any guys or anything while on this break that he would not talk to me anymore. I told him we should try dating other people, so we can both change and evolve and experience new things (I have not had any experiences and want some as selfish as that is). He does not agree with that, and #2 is pressuring me to date him and have fun with him cause we would be good together. What do I do? I am so stuck right now, and being pressured with everything, and being put down by everyone. I love #1, but I can see #2 helping me out alot unlike #1 who spends most of his time working and sleeping. I know I should follow my heart, but its hard when you want the person you have spent 3 years with, and a new comer who definitly clicks with me. If I had it my way, and if i was unloyal, I would date both. Please I need help or any advice that I can talk to about with #1 and #2. I can't deal with this stress and health issues and everything.

Okay, so long story short, my uncle (in his 50's) has been shy all his life, not good with the girls etc. finally got a "girlfriend" about 4 years ago. funny thing is that she met him by asking him for money for a pay phone. she has ruined his life, he makes $200,000 a year, and is now broke because she tells him that she has serious health conditions just to get money out of him, spends all his money at the casino, has one of his cars, has credit cards under our last name and uses our address, and today is saying she is going to jump off her balcony (what a threat! its 2 meters off the ground!). she is a total loser, and I know he cant help himself cause he is too nice to say no and get rid of her/ cancel her cards and everything. My mom has been involved with the police as my uncles girlfriend/ex/psycho has threatened our family, but they did not really do anything.Is there anyway that I can cancel her credit cards or get her involved with the police without having him do anything? How about a restraining order? or does my uncle have to do that personally?

Thank you! haha

I am looking to possibly go to seattle or somewhere close (I live in BC, Canada) and I was wondering what good stores are there to shop, and if you have any websites please link me! I am kinda looking for a colour block dress, or nice summer dresses that arent too fancy

thank you

So when I type, if i type too fast the line to start typing will go back a couple of letters like this ei. if i type ngart getting irritati the eyboard will sttoo fast

(if i type too fast the keyboard will start getting irritating) haha

and it will also miss a couple letters, as well as scroll or minimize websites and msn on me. Help? Its annoying. I have restarted my computer already

So my friend, who is 19, is having a really difficult time with her family. For example;

Her mom sounds like the biggest coward in the world, always calling her a failure, that she is the reason for her ex husband and her to divorce, telling her she is disgusting, selling her laptop (even though she had all her work on it for post-secondary), yelling, calling her names whenever she tries to tell her mom her thoughts and feelings. Her sister is on anti-depressants, her younger brother doesnt really know what is going on, so he just stays quiet. When her step-dad comes home from work, her sister is not allowed on the same floor as them. They dont seem to want the kids there, but when they do go out, they scream at them.

I told her to write a note to her mother explaining all her feelings. It did not work. I told her to tell her mom what is on her mind, she just gets called a baby if she speaks her thoughts. I also asked my mom advice , and she said that when her mother is yelling at her to ask her if she is mad at her, or if there is something else bothering her. that does not work. they also have tried a therapist.

I dont know if anyone has advice that I can give her

Also, the family is not oriented with drugs or alcohol so no addictions/no withdrawals

Thank you

I am going to Hawaii soon, and obviously will want to go to some clubs. What kind of ID's will they take? I am leaving my passport at our condo the whole time I am there. I do not want to bring my passport to a club incase I lose it. Will they need 2 pieces of ID? Drivers license, and what else? Visa? Birth certificate? SIN card? I do not want to bring all my info with me, incase I do lose it, cause it happened to my friend before where she brought her passport, it got stolen, etc.

Thank you!

about 2 months ago, I had fake gel nails on my nails, afterwards i kept them growing out and they were fine, a bit thin. while having my real nails, i was doing "intense" filing for 9 hours a day straight for a week and they became very brittle, so i cut them. ever since i cut them they have become so weak that they are breaking off vertically in parts where the nail should be covering my finger

here is a picture.... yes i know my fingers look nasty

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v627/dayum29/bff...

any ideas how to fix this?

thank you

I am looking for shoes, particularly boots that would look good with this kind of dress, and not too big of a heel.

http://www.net-a-porter.com/product/40781

i was thinking like a maroonish colour boot, or even red.

what do you guys think? you can show me links of boots, flats, or heels

thank you

I'm 18 years old, almost 19, and still a virgin. I have been in a great relationship for 2 years. All my friends have been in relationships for maybe 2 months and are losing their virginity. I also found out that my 16 year old brother is having sex with his 14 year old girlfriend now. Am I just strange that I havent? I just feel so out of place as if I am the only person out there who is still a virgin. Like is their something wrong with me? I love my boyfriend, as does he to me, but I guess I just respect myself more? I can't really say that, cause I guess if they are in love like I am then they can have all the sex they want. I just feel stupid that I havent, even though I don't really have the need to lose my virginity, I still get my pleasure. What do you guys think? How old were you guys when you lost your virginity or are you still a virgin and how old and why?

No nasty comments by the way. Thanks

http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2007/stylewatch/b...

i realize its blue but i want to know the shade or whatever, its gorgeous, as is she.

Dont worry, I am not a fan so I dont need any bashing but I wanted to take the girl I babysit out to their concert if they come here because she is obsessed with them and she wants me to go, not her parents. Does anyone know if they have come to Vancouver, BC or if they have a concert soon here? I read something that they came Jan.3rd 2009 but not sure if it happened or not. She is six and her birthday is coming up soon. Thank you!

my one eye cant stop watering, for a minute, there was horrible cramping in my neck, to the point where i could not move the muscles in it nor breathe, there is pain from my ears to the bridge of my nose to my whole neck and throat. i cannot blow my nose anymore because there is no energy left and it puts strain on my throat, and i can hardly hear through my ears.

helppppp, would you say its more of an infection?

ive drank so much tea, kept warm, soups, baths, honey, etc.

I was just wondering how to contact the Tyra Banks show via email? I cant find the contact page whatsoever Thank you!

PS. not looking for people who dont like Tyra, just got a show idea on hand.

I have a brand new shirt that i put in the wash with clothes that I did not think would run. It is white at the top, and a dark grey at the bottom, and now the white has blotchy blue and black marks, and is stained blue all over. I cannot bleach it because of the grey. Help!

She is starving, yet will not settle for jello or apple sauce or anything. She got it done 3 hours ago. I realize it says that you cannot have milk products until later tonight, but would she be able to have mashed potatoes or something that is more thick? Any ideas? She is a very picky eater Ive told her to get over it for today, but she stands her ground. Thank you!

I have a 3 month old german shepherd probably crossed with pit bull. His biting is very bad (my hands and feet are swollen with bite marks, and it looks like i have cut myself.) His barking is also very bad, he believes he is the boss. My family has tried everything in the book to stop this, from time outs to squirting with a water bottle. Any ideas please? We will take him to obiedience classes once he turns 4 months, but right now it is just getting way too over the top. I don't want him to think he runs the house. Help please! Before I lose a finger!

PS. I do not wrestle with him, i do not chase him around the house because he will think its play time, etc.

I was just wondering because although I love it so much, I have never known how to say it, people have their own ways. but would you pronounce is pho? or phu (f-uh)? Stupid question yes i know, but it is a little mind boggling, and I hate not knowing words, talking and sounding stupid.

I have 3 betta fish now (one passed away, which was obvious because he was not eating.) The one I got from a great pet store has been with me for 6 months, while the others, from another pet store aren't close to being his size or living as long. The one thing I noticed with the tank of the one that passed away, was his tank would get cloudy after 2 days of cleaning it, and the water looked as if it was thickened, with bubbles on top. And the same is happening with one of my other fish now. Do you know why this is happening? When I clean their tanks, I clean it very well, also putting a betta fish chemical to make tap water healthy for them. I realize I should not go to that pet store and get the bettas, but I do anyways.Could it possibly be chemicals in the rocks? the fish tank all together? or could they have diseases? Thank you (although my question probably doesnt make alot of sense)