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this really annoys the living heck out of me. We plan about a trip, get excited about it, she talks about how excited she is to go, she tells her family and friends we are going there, we are oh so happy and just can't wait.. She gets my hopes up and all is set.. Now all of a sudden she says lets go somewhere else instead. What a crazy way of thinking!! I hate it! I was so excited to go on a vacation to this place we wanted to go to for soo long. She was so happy and dreaming of going. Why the quick location change? I told her no way. I've had it. We are going. I'm so tired of her changing her mind so much after always getting my hopes up. It's an ongoing issue with her. She is so undecisive on a lot of things and I'm about ready to scream at her. I'll control it. But this time, we are going wether she likes it or not to the first vacation destination we planned on. I'm the man of the house. I'd appreciate answers who are from people who have real explainations for such behavior. I don't care for femenists answers who insult. So please, if you can't help, don't answer. To those who can really help explain this in a non offensive way, I thank you so much and appreciate it. God bless

Us guys have been friends for many many years. We hang out a lot and he calls me a friend for life. But he always picks on me and is always looking for flaws. He is always giving advice to the point where it's getting annoying because 3/4 of his advices are wrong and he doesn't realize it. When things don't go his way he tries to put me down. I don't put up with his crap and I totally ignore it but for the sake of our friendship through the years, I still hang out with him. Sometimes, I feel like he's just using me to have someone to pick on. I'm never Christian enough for his standards. He says I'm not a real Christian when I know in my heart I am. He can be a real jerk and oh such a hypocrite. The big question is - Is he really my friend or should I ditch this dude because he was never really my friend?

seems like all the good women are taken.. and they're rare. Most girls I meet have mental and selfishness issues. Spoiled crazy ones darn it. I hate those. Where are the remaining good ones? I really don't wanna settle for the selfish controlling ones out of desperation.

Also, those with the smart alec answers can kiss my.. And to those who understand thanks for your comments and take care

This is to warn you guys about some furniture sales. I decided to go to a small furniture company I found online. They had a showroom in their small industrial office. I was convinced over the phone to view it because "it's something I would be happy with" according to the salesman. I went there and the sofa is stiff and uncomfortable. He then decides to show me more sofas and eventually sold me one that I thought was a great bargain.. Now the crap begins..

I gave him a check. We shook hands and he guaranteed me delivery same day. I then went home expecting me sofa soon.. 2 hours later he calls and says the delivery can't be made today and it turns out the price of the sofa was wrong. It's $80 more for it. Claims he gave me the price of another item and it was the secretary's fault. He keeps saying how great a bargain it is even with the $80 more for it. I said no deal and told him to void the check. Then I realized he already gave me a copy of the receipt that says I purchased the sofa. All that guy had to do is cash the check, drop off the other item with the lower price (the item that's not the sofa I ordered) and I never saw this item. Drop it off in front of my door, and I lose. It would be too time consuming and more expensive to sue them when they have evidence that "I bought this other item." So I'm forced to pay extra to actually get the sofa I want. I'm never buying from them again. Please be warned of scams like this because they can get away with it. Thanks

It's almost everywhere you go here in american. I'm an american first of all so don't trip. You see it on tv, grocery stores, work, etc. - American women treat men like crap, calling them bad names, talking down to men, acting like men are their wallets, etc.

For example, american society allows women to call men b_stards and a--holes, etc. But! If a man calls a woman a vitch, the men are looked at like they are evil or something.

I'd like to shape and construct fiberglass surfboards (not epoxy) in the near future here in Huntington Beach, CA. But, a friend told me the other day that he heard there are a lot of zones that don't allow it here. Is that true? If so, can you guys suggest a website where I could find out exactly where? Thank you for taking time to read this.

My wife wanted, insisted on a divorce, says nothing will change her mind about it. She made me move out and I'm settled in my new apartment. She says she will give me the divorce papers as soon as she gets a day off. Well, she's had a lot of days off and I can't seem to get a hold of her because she's not returning my calls and I'm here waiting for the papers. I've never cheated on her and was totally againts this divorce. But now, after moving out, I agree with her that it's better this way. What's going on with her and why doesn't she give me the papers already? Maybe you guys have an idea on what's on her mind. FYI: she has bipolar disorder

abandoned meaning my wife is divorcing me.. I'm againts the divorce but she says she won't take no for an answer and she will not change her mind.. There has been no infidelity on either side. She wants to end it. She has bipolar disorder and chronic lying and it's taken over her to where she has a big time breakdown and got admitted. She's getting treatment now and wants to start a new life without me. After being deceived and lied to numerous times, I have lost all trust in her. I still want to stay married and insists we don't divorce but there's no stopping her.

Does the Bible allow me to remarry after all this? Christians, please respond. Your answers are much appreciated and God bless you.

my wife and I love each other.. she has bipolar disorder and it landed her in behavioral health at the hospital.. she's out now and is getting treatments and placed on correct medication. She's also had problems with chronic lying which she is working on. Anyway, she wants to start a new life without me but she loves me still. I've lost all my trust in her about finances, jealousy, etc. from her chronic lying and it hurts her inside and she can't stand me for that. If you've ever lived with a bipolar spouse, you know how hard and draining it can be but you don't lose your love for that person. We are both Christians and there has been no infidelity between us. I love her so much and I don't know how to fix it. She says she wants a divorce and we are waiting for our next day off to get it done. I don't want to disappoint God anymore than I have. I don't want a divorce. Is there any way this marriage can be saved?

Which beaches in Oahu, Hawaii have sandy bottoms (little or no reef), beachbreaks? I went to waikiki, but there's some sharp reef and I'd like the kids to surf at safe areas. Thanks

Thanks for taking time to read this. I'm on a tight budget and about to take up stand up paddle surfing. Is it ok to buy a 10 foot foam soft top (the brand's name is "Surface") and I'm sure a lot of you are familiar with that beginner surfboard brand. I'm 190 pounds. Will it be enough to surf well.

Where can I buy lots of big balsa wood to make surfboards somewhere nearby where I could just pick them up? I live in Orange County, California. I really appreciate it.

I'm about to marry a bipolar woman in 4 days. I'm having cold feet. She takes meds but it's not working enough. She gets manic and I can't help but get angry at her recently because she says hurtful words. She tries to take control over the relationship but I don't take crap from her. I don't believe a woman should wear the pants in any family - that would be a dangerous thing. I'm sure all straight men will agree with me. How does a normal person deal with a bipolar spouse? We've been together for a while now and been through good and bad times and managed to stay together, but lately I feel like walking away from that crazy woman. We are both Christian and love the Lord. I'd like answers from Christian people only. Thank you.

I have friends that are bipolar (I'm not). Anyway, one day, I decided to start asking people if they knew people that are bipolar. It turns out that most people I know, know people that have that disorder and it's everyday people, like medical people, business people, students, etc. My question is, how come a lot of americans are bipolar? I've been to a third world country and people aren't bipolar. Most people don't have ups and downs like people here. Is it our food? Also, I noticed that most bipolar people are women!

Is this article true? I'm about to marry one. Please tell me I'm not making a mistake

http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreign_women_are_be...

I'm getting married soon and I know it's sounds like a bad thing to do in my situation because I've caught my fiance telling white lies often. She keeps promising to change but it's like she's got something evil inside of her she can't get rid off. I did some research online and it seems like she's not the only one like that and that most women are liars. I guess I'd like to know if there are any honest women in this world at all because, even when I've dated Christian women, they were liars too. Is it genetics? I wonder if it's even worth it to get married at all and being deceived often. If all us men are stuck with women liars all over the world. Isn't it such a sad thing? How do these women think they're headed for heaven being such liars? I hate liars. I've given up looking for an honest woman so I'll just marry this one. I feel those comments coming. Thanks

Reference - http://www.nomarriage.com/article_statistics.html

My fiance' and I are getting married soon and we are going to have the ceremony at Laguna Beach at the beach. We just want to rent a reception room that would fit 100 people. We'd like to either just walk over to the reception room from the beach or drive less than 5 minutes to where it is. We will provide our own food. We don't want to use the room's owners food to save money. Does anyone know of a place that would do that over there? We looked around and it seems like most of the places want to use their own food. It would save us a lot of money if we find one. Thank you so much!

I'm southeast asian and I still feel looked down upon at work or when I'm out somewhere. Some act surprized when they realized I'm as american as they are. They think they can intimidate minorities like me because they seem to think of themselves as superior human beings. Should I get physical? I'm trained in martial arts. Will that teach them a lesson? How do I make them realize they are no better then everyone else?

I'm getting married and my girlfriend and I are very low on cash. We are getting married at the beach and are planning to be able to walk over to a ballroom we can rent. Does anyone know where the cheapest deal is by the beach at Laguna Beach, CA? Serious answers only please. I'd like to thank everyone who answers my question. I'd really appreciate it.

When I'm not in bed with my wife but she knows I'm in the house, she would wake up screaming in terror briefly when I walk in the room like I was an intruder breaking in the house. Then, when she figures out it's me she falls back to sleep. It freaks me out. She has a history of mild bipolar disorder and ADD. She is taking Welbutrin and it works for her moods. Does that have something to do with her screaming? Why does she do that. Sometimes, I feel like I've made a mistake marrying her even though I love her very much. She freaks me out! I'd like to thank the people who will take time to help me figure this out by giving me great answers.