Natalie

I am switching from cricket to tmobile soon and I have an AT&T phone which after some research I did, I know would work on tmobile's 3G network. If I bring it to the store the day I sign up would they unlock it for free?

Okay my mom attends this big megachurch and she makes me go. I hate it, I absolutely hate it. I've always preferred a small church because I have social anxiety, but now every time I walk into that place I start to freak out and cant speak. Now the youth ministry is having this mission trip to New Mexico, and she's forcing me to go with a bunch of people who don't seem to like me. One of them even called me an emo fag cause of my hairstyle -_-

I am a Christian but people like that make me want to leave the religion. How do I get my mom to reconsider sending me across the United States against my will? I'm still a minor, by the way. Just making that clear.

I have a bit of a problem. My friend, who we'll call Jay, went out with another friend of mine. He dumped her after 3 months. Shortly after he kissed her cousin who we'll call Shay. We have been trying to keep it a secret to preserve my friends feelings, but it might come out soon and if it does things will be catastrophic. What should we do in the event that she find out about what Jay did?

My computer is doing something really weird. It's like my computer is on some news website the moment I start it up, and there's like a video playing and voices coming from the speakers, but my browser isn't open at all. I have no idea what this is and I don't know how to fix it. I think someone may have hacked into my computer and this is very urgent please help

My computer is doing something really weird. It's like my computer is on some news website the moment I start it up, and there's like a video playing and voices coming from the speakers, but my browser isn't open at all. I have no idea what this is and I don't know how to fix it. I think someone may have hacked into my computer and this is very urgent please help

I have a 32 gig Blackberry Curve 8530. I have connected it to my computer and opened the Blackberry driver, and now I want to put music on it(which I know how to do btw). I currently have no pictures, music, ringtones(except for the bb ringtones it comes with), videos, ect. I have an 8gb memory card in it, and yet it still says the device memory is full. My email isn't connected with the blackberry and I deleted my calling and sms history, and it still says that. I only have two apps. Help me please!!. Thanks in advance.

I am going to apologize in advance for the long question. Seriously. It's about to get long. I really need help, so please take the time to answer, there is a story behind the question.

I have two friends, Laura and James. About 3 months ago, James became my boyfriend(Laura and I have been friends for 3 years, we met James in August btw). But over the last month I've noticed something that has been bothering me. Laura and James are hanging out and leaving me out of everything. One of my friends says I'm being "that girlfriend."

He texts her all the time, he barely ever texts me. He talks to her all the time, and he sometimes goes weeks without having an actual conversation with me because he is busy talking her. I try not to let it bother me but it does. I talked to my bestie about it and she said I needed to talk to him, same for another friend. So, I put on my big girl pants and I asked him about it. He said "She is just a friend, it's okay don't be worried." Naturally I'm not going to say "NO ITS NOT OKAY." because he will object, and besides what idiot boyfriend would tell his girlfriend he's cheating on her with a close friend? So, I dropped it.

Fast forward two weeks, we are in History class. My bestie Augusta is sitting on my left, James on my right and Laura to the front of me. Laura and James are talking and she is totally flirting with him(I SWEAR SOME GUYS ARE BLIND.) and Augusta passes me a note saying that I needed to fix it, something was wrong. Now keep in mind that I want me and Laura to stay friends, and I don't want James to leave me. Laura is beautiful and popular and shes always volunteering and stuff, and I'm an ugly, Bipolar, suicidal cutter who can't help a soul. Anyways, Augusta finally breaks down and says that its better that I know about it(I had cut myself for relief over stressing the situation) and then she told me that Laura had told her that she liked James and was gonna legit ask him out the day I did. In that moment, I felt like a COMPLETE jerk. I mean, what did I do to deserve a guy as great as James? Anyways, Augusta told me I needed to talk to Laura ASAP and get it dealt with.

So I talk to Laura and she says she does like James and she was gonna ask him out. I tell her I want to stay friends, and we agree and such. Then I talk to James(HE DOES NOT KNOW SHE LIKES HIM I DIDN'T TELL) and tell him that I feel a bit neglected and he says things will change, he is working on it. So its all good. But then another week passes, things are getting WORSE, I'm also starting to feel like the third wheel. I ask my friend(the one who says I'm being "that girlfriend") who just happens to be Lauras MEGA BEST FRIEND EVER and she says that Laura always wants what she can't have and since she wants James but can't have him she was gonna get as close as possible.

So here are my questions(I AM SOOOOOOOO SORRY FOR THE LONG STORY)

1. Am I being "that girlfriend"?

2. How do I get James' attention? I feel like he doesn't like me anymore.

3. Do you think it would be better for James to know about Laura's crush? If so, should Laura be the one to tell him?

4. How do I deal with Laura?

ALSO DON'T TELL ME NOT TO CUT. I KNOW I SHOULDN'T. I'M WORKING ON IT.

Thanks so much!

Ok we just got back into school and I don't have gym this quarter, but I'm already worried about it. Don't ask why, I just need to make a plan before the class ever happens.

I have a big big problem. I am terrified I excersizing infront of people. No matter hat anyone says I'm always scared even though I still do it when I am forced to. I am not over weight or even a bit chubby, I am just terrified of people seeing my body in most situations.

Now, this gym class is coming up in 7 weeks and I am TERRIFIED! Especially because my boyfriend is in that class also. He says "Natalie it's gonna be just fine" but it doesn't change anything. I'm still scared out of my mind. Especially since used to cut on my legs(which I have stopped) but my scars show a ton! And I have to have pants, I never show my legs ever. I'm literally trembling in fear just thinking about it. What can I do?!

Today, I was told that the founder of Victoria's Secret had committed suicide(a long time ago). I am a small chested girl and people have always poked fun at me for it, and it's driven me to the point of almost killing myself. I would never wish suicidal thoughts on anyone, EVER. But when I heard this, I said "He deserves it he put tons of women thru hell." Now I feel like such a sadist. Maybe I should just kill myself, everyone knows a flat chested girl like me will never be worth anything.

I'm currently in America, and I got this text at about 2 AM(my phone was off so I saw it in the morning btw) I have NO IDEA where it's from, and I don't plan on calling back cause that would cost me. I just want to know, I don't need to know who just where.

Here's the number: 011628967xxxxxx

I'm pretty sure the rest is the person's private number so I covered that up, if you could help me that would be great. The main reason I can't tell is because my phone doesn't up the phone number by sections like most phones do, so if it's in North America don't call me an idiot for not being able to tell I'm not very educated on these things. Thanks in advance!

I'm not a parent, but I'm 14 and I want to start talking with my mom about it soon, and I want to know what age would be good to suggest.

My uncle said that he once had a conversation on a CV radio, and 3 years later he heard that same conversation because the radio waves never stop traveling. So is that the case? And what do you think will happen when the air is completely filled with radio waves other than tons of cancer?

A girl on Instagram had a page about her cutting and such, and one day she said she was gonna kill herself. The next day her friend was on the page saying the girl had really killed herself, and they could send cards to such and such P.O box. Another girl took her life cause people just couldn't stop calling her "fat", and "ugly" and telling her to end her life. How awful.

Even athiests should agree the Ten Commandments(7 out of 10) can be practiced by everybody. I mean seriously, how can you think that loving others, respecting them and being peaceful is crazy or insane? They tell people not to lie, cheat, steal, kill, and then there are the parts about God. Even the most unbelieving of people should be able to agree that most of the Ten Commandments are perfectly legit and should be practiced by everyone. If everyone thought all those rules were dumb and nobody should follow them imagine how bad life would be.

I recently moved back to Japan with my dad and mom(that's where we are from) and I have noticed a high weeaboo count lately. Who is letting these rabid animals into the country?!!! When did they start coming?

Everywhere I go all these people give me stares. I live in a small town and there's only one Asian family, and I'm in it. The white people that stare never say anything(infront of me at least) but tons of black people(not all) are always laughing and pointing it out. WTF they act like they've never even heard of an Asian existing before. I don't get it. Asians see perfectly fine, but our eyesight is bad cause we tend try and read in the dark and such. And before you say I'm racist let me tell you, I have has incidents with whites too. Little kids always ask how I can see. But those are little kids, these are grown people(typically black women) doing this. What the hell is so funny about Asian eyes and why does it always make black people wanna bother me about it?!! They're eyes gosh!

My breasts are so small, boys always make fun Of me and girls talk about me. I wanna kill myself. I can't stand it anymore. I hate myself SOO MUCH because of this. These people are toturing me and the school won't do anything about it. I can't be homeschooled and the only other school where I live is a private school that costs thousands. What can I do?!

Okay, so my friend's mom has sent me on a quest. It's an urgent one. We know a guy, he's a close friend, and he's in the hospital with stage 4 cancer. His son is living in another part of the states and we need to find him as he has no contact with his father. We have his first, middle, and last name, his birthday/age, and the state he is living in. I've used the white pages to search but it isn't a good search as they dont ask for enough information. Are there any websites you can use for free to search based on the iinformation given?

So I used to cut. My best friend was the first person I ever told and I had to cause she saw my scars, but she does it too. Then I told my boyfriend cause he saw them. Then he made up this huge story about how he cuts his ankles every night because he has such an awful past even though I know it's not true because I've been like bffs with him for 10+ years, and he always wears shorts and flip flops so obviously thats not posible because there is not a MARK on his skin on his ankles. I would notice I see his ankles often. Why would he do this though cause I have never seen a scar and he has like a deathly fear of blood. I just want this to get over with, because I have been avoiding him lately cause he started making up all these stories that are not true and he thinks im some sort of dumbass.

Two days ago, in the middle of the night, a guy tried to break into my house. My room is right by the back door, so when I heard him at the back door, I was freaking. I couldn't move I was so scared. Luckily he was not equipped to pick our locks so he couldn't get in either door but it still scares me. Tonight there is a storm and I live in a very treed area so things are always crashing and banging. I keep freaking out over little noises and I can't sleep because of this paranoia, not to mention the light on the side of my house is on, AND IT'S MOTION SENSORED!!!!