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I am opening a FB boutique of cute clothes for teens/women. It will be casual day dresses, maxi dresses, skirts, chiffon tops, etc. Every month I will feature a different charity and donate 10% of that month's proceeds to the featured charity. I have a couple of ideas for a name, like "Just Cause Boutique" or "Do Good Threads" but idk if I'm IN LOVE with one of those or not. Ideas, Suggestions??

I have a semi-formal retirement party to go to tonight for my father in laws friend. I have a really cute dress and new shoes, open toed heels. The dress is too short and its too cold to wear without tights (not to mention the tights helping to hold me in). I got some cute patterned black tights to wear with it. So would that look ok to wear together?

A happy, confident, slightly overweight but nicely coke-bottle shaped woman who wears sexy clothes and has a really gorgeous face and great personality who loves to go eat (real food) and have a good time, or a skinny socially approved woman who will go out and have fun but doesn't really eat and can be a b**ch. Pretty face but nothing spectacular and thinks she is all that. Which would you choose?

I am happily married. My husband loves me and treats me so good. We have 4 wonderful daughters (ages 8, 20 months, and 6 month old twins). When we first met I was much much smaller than I am now. I've gained weight over the last 4 years and I feel like a huge huge cow. With all the babies I cant really find time to exercise on top of all the other responsibilities. When I diet, I become moody and irritable and I don't cook (I LOVE to cook and my husband loves my cooking). I hate being this size, but I hate the way I am when I diet, too. My husband loves me no matter what. He never looks at other women or says mean things to me. He doesn't care what size I am! Should I just live my life big and be happy and stop mourning over my body? Should I continue to torture myself to lose weight when my husband doesn't even care one way or the other?