Mermaid

So there was this guy and we both really liked each other since sophomore year and he asked me out junior year and I said no because I had a lot going on in my life and I had never been in a relationship before so I was kind of scared. But I never told him that so he thought I was just leading him on and using him and we never spoke to each other ever again. And now I am a senior in high school since I never really had closure so I still have an awkward crush type thing on him that never died. I can honestly say that I have never cared about someone so much. And whenever we see each other we always make long awkward eye contact and i can't tell what he's thinking. I miss talking to him and i am having almost obsessive thoughts lately. As of a few months ago he has a girlfriend and it hurts. I know that I messed up and I don't know what to do.

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I don't think I mentioned that I haven't talked to him since. And I know that I need to let go and move on, but I'm so hard on myself for making a huge mistake. And I know that he has a girlfriend now but something inside me tells me that he isn't completely over it

So there was this guy and we both really liked each other since sophomore year and he asked me out junior year and I said no because I had a lot going on in my life and I had never been in a relationship before so I was kind of scared. But I never told him that so he thought I was just leading him on and using him and we never spoke to each other ever again. And now I am a senior in high school since I never really had closure so I still have an awkward crush type thing on him that never died. I can honestly say that I have never cared about someone so much. And whenever we see each other we always make long awkward eye contact and i can't tell what he's thinking. I miss talking to him and i am having almost obsessive thoughts lately. As of a few months ago he has a girlfriend and it hurts. I know that I messed up and I don't know what to do.

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I met him through my friend, it was kind of like a blind double date, like I met him then the four of us went to see World War Z. Then the second double date we went bowling. Then our first real date we saw Monsters University then walked around the beach so what's a new idea?

For teenagers. Not a movie, that was our first date. :) For the advice, what should generally happen on a second date? We haven't like kissed or anything. the first one was kinda awkward because we were both nervous. I really don't have any experience...

I met him through my friend, it was kind of like a blind double date, like I met him then the four of us went to see World War Z. Then the second double date we went bowling. Then our first real date we saw Monsters University then walked around the beach so what's a new idea?

For teenagers. Not a movie, that was our first date. :) For the advice, what should generally happen on a second date? We haven't like kissed or anything. the first one was kinda awkward because we were both nervous. I really don't have any experience...

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That one horrible song by J Dash...

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So I went to the movies with my friend, the guy she's dating, and his friend. I guess you can kind of call it double dating? idk. Anyway, so he's kind of shy, but he's really cute and has a good personality. And he asked my friend for my number and we started texting. And then the 4 of us went bowling and then just us two went on a date. My friend told me that he isn't very good at making moves and so she said I will have to be a bit more agressive. We didn't hold hands or kiss, just a few hugs. And he kept saying stuff like "what? you haven't seen this movie? next time we will watch it together" or stuff liek that, hinting to something in the future. So for the past few conversations, I was the one start talking to him. And then I decided to let him text me next so I don't seem so desperate and a week after our date, he never called or texted me first.

So my question is, do I ask him if he's still interested in me because I feel like I'm wasting my time. Or would that make me seem attached? Should I just move on and drop it? Did I scare him or something? I'm getting mixed signals. it was only 1 date so it wasn't anything serious. WHAT DO I DO? I suck at this stuff. :(

So I went to the movies with my friend, the guy she's dating, and his friend. I guess you can kind of call it double dating? idk. Anyway, so he's kind of shy, but he's really cute and has a good personality. And he asked my friend for my number and we started texting. And then the 4 of us went bowling and then just us two went on a date. My friend told me that he isn't very good at making moves and so she said I will have to be a bit more agressive. We didn't hold hands or kiss, just a few hugs. And he kept saying stuff like "what? you haven't seen this movie? next time we will watch it together" or stuff liek that, hinting to something in the future. So for the past few conversations, I was the one start talking to him. And then I decided to let him text me next so I don't seem so desperate and a week after our date, he never called or texted me first.

So my question is, do I ask him if he's still interested in me because I feel like I'm wasting my time. Or would that make me seem attached? Should I just move on and drop it? it was only 1 date so it wasn't anything serious. WHAT DO I DO? I suck at this stuff. :(

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