He is wonderful and we have fun but I just don't see him and me together in the future also now adays I am just not there in sprit just person but he hasn't changed since the beginning when I was really in love with him so I wonder why I am so unhappy and what I should do and I don't want to dump him I want to work in out but I don't know how to do it so if you want to help me please help me and don't be afraid to just lay it on me don't be all it's okay you will get through it I just want real advice that is to the point!
catmoosebear2006-03-12T17:07:33Z
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Try talking to him about it. Maybe you just need a break from the relationship. He's a great guy but your needs may have changed.
Its hard, because people change, and somtimes you dont know it but you are that person. See compadability in a realtionship is REALLY important. And at this point it sounds like your personal preference has changed, or mauybe you are not as exited about him as you used to be. just tell him you want to take a break for a while and then think it over. And if you still feel like things just arent going to work out. and this relatioship isnt going anywhere then break it off, but still be as nice as possible as you can about it. Good luck.
It seems to me like you know why you are unhappy w/your boyfriend. What do you plan on doing to work things out? Are things able to be worked out? Sometimes if there is a main problem, that problem will always be there. Be with someone who makes you happy. Ask yourself what you want out of a boyfriend/relationship? Are those needs being met? You need to take care of yourself. Don't be stuck in something that you don't want to be in. Just be honest with him and tell him exactly what you feel... do what you asked us to do... lay it all out on the line. You can still do that in a loving way. He deserves to know the truth and exactly how you feel just like you deserve to be happy. Hope this helps some.
First, I'm sensing that there maybe someone else involved in this equation. The grass isn't always greener. To your credit, you've recognized the situation and it is best for you to be honest with you feelings and let him go. Tell him that things aren't working out for you the way you'd hoped and be upfront. Don't decide to hang on to the guy and cheat...invariably that will blow up in your face and will also leave much more hurt feelings. Be honest, let him down honestly and walk away. Honesty is always the best policy.
Maybe you have just become to comfortable in the relationship. You should try doing something new with him, and if that doesn't work, tell him how you are feeling, you may be surprised to learn that he is feeling the same way. Maybe you just need to move on, or take it to the next level.