How do I get this blood sucking leech off of my neck before prom and get a real date?
There's this boy who's totally hot for me and I hate his guts. He says such mean things about me to my face and pretends like he's kidding later. What's worse is that some of my freinds are sticking up for him and attack me for not going to prom with a "friend." Last week I heard a rumor that we were dating. (Which is so not true!) Now I think that he is the biggest slimeball in all of dating. The way he tries to bribe me and the promises he makes in an attempt to take me to prom are disgusting. He's promised to hold the door open, dinner, flowers, I name it. He acts like he wants me but I know it doesn't love me because of some of the things he's said. I've tried being mean to him but he still follow me everywhere and shadows me like a sick lost puppy that I won't keep. I've considered going to prom with other guys but I don't know what to say and I can't get this leech away from me. Please help so I know if I should start shopping for a dress or prepare for a night home.
divaliscious302006-04-10T12:00:31Z
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Girl, please!! You've already stated that the leech isn't very nice, why would you want to waste such an important night on someone who's not very nice. The whole purpose of this night is to have a great time. Ask yourself does that seem possible w/the leech? Your best bet, just be honest w/him & forget what everybody else says, I just bet none of them would go w/him now would they? If they're that worried about him, then let them go w/him. You go shopping & get yourself the hottest dress you can find & have a ball on a real date, not a pity date. Because once you get older & look back all we have are memories, make em good honey!!!
Girl, this guy is a creep! Your '"friends" aren't helping much either. Go ahead and buy your dress. Maybe you can find a guy that will go to the prom with you that will understand your situation. Your new date can keep that freak away from you. Don't get into any fights though! you'll be kicked out!! Just tell him you are going to prom with someone else, But find that person before you tell him! Explain to your new date what is going on. If he is a man he will stick up for you. But, if you tell the slimeball you are going to prom with someone else before you find him, he might spread rumors about you. He seems like that type of person. I hope this guy doesn't ruin your prom. Good luck!
Do not let this guy keep you from doing something that is important to you. If there is another guy yu want to go with and he asks then just say yes! You do not owe the slimeball any explaination and if the other has a question about that relationship just say it's all in his head. Get a dress and have a great time. Your friends can't really be that good of freinds if they are badgering you to go anywhere with a guy you do not like.
You sound really young,,...You need to show him you are a woman and not some kid that he can play with! I would just ignore him..let him say what he wants and let him follow you around all he wants! you pretend you don't even see him or hear him! OF COURSE get your dress and find another guy! Prom night should be special!! Not worrying about some LOOSER! Just do what i say and IGNORE the bastard! But you have to stick to your wits and not give in and argue with him or anything just IGNORE!! Hope this helps! Good Luck!
That is a tuff one... First I would tell him just how you feel but do it in a public place where you know your friends and others (maybe someone else that you want to go to prom with) can hear, also foil the rumor that yall are dating at the same time if he don't get the hint well then just get a bigger boyfriend that will kick his a$$ if he keeps it up.