How do I get this blood sucking leech off of my neck before prom and get a real date?

Girl, please!! You've already stated that the leech isn't very nice, why would you want to waste such an important night on someone who's not very nice. The whole purpose of this night is to have a great time. Ask yourself does that seem possible w/the leech? Your best bet, just be honest w/him & forget what everybody else says, I just bet none of them would go w/him now would they? If they're that worried about him, then let them go w/him. You go shopping & get yourself the hottest dress you can find & have a ball on a real date, not a pity date. Because once you get older & look back all we have are memories, make em good honey!!!

Girl, this guy is a creep! Your '"friends" aren't helping much either. Go ahead and buy your dress. Maybe you can find a guy that will go to the prom with you that will understand your situation. Your new date can keep that freak away from you. Don't get into any fights though! you'll be kicked out!! Just tell him you are going to prom with someone else, But find that person before you tell him! Explain to your new date what is going on. If he is a man he will stick up for you. But, if you tell the slimeball you are going to prom with someone else before you find him, he might spread rumors about you. He seems like that type of person. I hope this guy doesn't ruin your prom. Good luck!

Do not let this guy keep you from doing something that is important to you. If there is another guy yu want to go with and he asks then just say yes! You do not owe the slimeball any explaination and if the other has a question about that relationship just say it's all in his head. Get a dress and have a great time.

Your friends can't really be that good of freinds if they are badgering you to go anywhere with a guy you do not like.

Good Luck!

You sound really young,,...You need to show him you are a woman and not some kid that he can play with! I would just ignore him..let him say what he wants and let him follow you around all he wants! you pretend you don't even see him or hear him! OF COURSE get your dress and find another guy! Prom night should be special!! Not worrying about some LOOSER! Just do what i say and IGNORE the bastard! But you have to stick to your wits and not give in and argue with him or anything just IGNORE!! Hope this helps! Good Luck!

That is a tuff one... First I would tell him just how you feel but do it in a public place where you know your friends and others (maybe someone else that you want to go to prom with) can hear, also foil the rumor that yall are dating at the same time if he don't get the hint well then just get a bigger boyfriend that will kick his a$$ if he keeps it up.

He's stalking you. There are laws against that. Ask someone else out for prom. That will send a big message to him that you're definitely not interested are are well over him. Tell him you're done with him. Completely. No need for an explination or compromise. You're done. He's dead to you. Ignore him if he talks to you. If he won't leave you alone report it to the school. Then the police if he persists. Good luck and start shopping.

Be honest with him. Ask him why he acts so mean to you sometimes, and then turns around and acts all nice. Ask him, "Why would I want to go to the prom with you when you act like you have a split personality? Try acting normal and maybe I'll think about it. Until then, find someone else to go with because it won't be me." Good luck!

Your "friends" can go to the prom with him. If he will not stop harrassing you (and that is just what it is), then get a restraining order placed on him. People are NEVER too young to learn what NO means. Make no mistake about it, this idiot could be dangerous to your health. I am deadly serious about this...Say NO and mean it, Say STAY AWAY FROM ME and mean it. The next 'friend' who comes to his defense can be safely dropped from your friendship list. They are no friend if they encourage this type of action committed against you...and it is being COMMITTED!

Wow. What a jerk. You would rather sit at home then be exposed to him. If you were my daughter and you told me that story I would track this guy down and make him understand that his advances are not desired and if he values his future he should stay away. So my advice is tell an adult preferably your parents and see what happens things have a way of straighting themselves out. You don't have to go through life alone.

dont miss prom because of him...you better go theres only one prom all of your life... be open with the "shadow" tell him how you feel and if you can't tell him then write him a note/letter and next time you see him give it to him..