that single people are on here asking questions about getting the love of their lives back and then the married people are asking if its ok to cheat with the neighbor. Nobody is ever f*cking happy, are they ? Wtf is wrong with everybody ?
Dawn A
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I agree!!! And then everyone wants to know how the world became so messed up! Everyone is out for only themselves and what they want right at the moment instead of thinking what their actions cause in the environment around them.They don't think of the people they are hurting.Very selfish I think!!
butterfliesRfree
Well, the grass is always greener. But at the same time, you need to understand that people here who are married and asking advice...maybe their relationship has gone bad for whatever reasons (and there are plenty of reasons) and it's difficult to remove yourself from that bad stuff. People in general just want to be happy is all. It's not that everyone is unhappy but a lot are. Doesn't mean there's something wrong with "them" necessarily. They may and very well could have been hurt by their significant other. You don't know the entire background. I'll ask a couple questions and you may find the answers.
sharid64
The American way of life is that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, and it doesn't help to have a media that promotes divorce, cheating and lifestyle choices that are just plain confusing or too difficult to manage in reality. Marriage is not supposed to be some trial basis relationship, it has so many aspects and difficulties, but seriously, if you ask me, Americans as a whole are too selfish to be married for any length of time, and it is only getting worse.
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Communication.
We all crave it, but it seems the closer we are the less we get.
On line is the most distant.
We can ask questions about anything that we think about without the chance of "real" rejection. Yes we can get flamed on here for stating something but we don't lose a real person in our life, we don't have a spouse pissed at our thoughts, we don't have a parent or sibling looking at us as if we are from a totally different country and family.
We can ask here, judge a reaction and maybe, just maybe talk to our partners in real life with a hope at understanding before hand what their reaction might be.
We want communication to fill our lives, we want acceptance of who we are and how we think.....but we also want safety in our real life partners.
moosebreath
People rush in and out of relationships that they may or may not be happy in. Some are just looking for justification to cheat .. others are holding on by their fingernails. It is all about timing ... either you are where you should be or you are not ... some folks just aren't sure they like the boat that they are in. Jumping overboard is always an option ... and bailing with a teaspoon is an option also ... doesn't make either of those solutions correct. Band-aids are for boo boos ... and these aren't just knicks and dings ... unfortunately these are major wrecks. Search inside for answers ... and they will find the answers or not ... the price of asking other people about their problems !