how do i deal with the situation?

i have a girlfriend that i like alot but i think she's still in love with her ex girlfriend.
i think i could be a rebound but it feels like she love me more
and yes i'm married and my husband knows about her.
she says that her ex is trying to make up with her and she doesn't want to turn her down yet because its only been 6months since they broke up and she was waiting for their reunion before she met me.
now that i'm here she says she will wait to know if her ex gf is just doing this because she really wants her back or if she's doing it because she's now seeing me.
i feel like i'm being played but when we're together i want to stay with her.

Anonymous2007-08-06T11:11:25Z

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you feel like you're being played?? ummmmm, what about your husband?? I just don't get it....why stay married when you are wanting to be w/ someone else?

Anonymous2007-08-06T18:30:03Z

You are greedy and you all deserve each other. You feel like your being played. Karma is a Mutha ain't it. Yep she using you for a security blanket just like you are using your husband as a security blanket otherwise you would leave your husband to be with your girlfriend full time but she don't want you full time just f-*k*ing time or whatever it is you do with each other....

Buttafli2007-08-06T18:11:25Z

She's honestly telling you that if her ex is serious, you are history. And, why not? Your married. This relationship was doomed from the start. Keep It Moving, sweetie...