Why do men portray masculinity this way and then blame women ?
Muzalon Says:
April 17th, 2008 at 4:02 pm - IP Man-Hash: 6de85be8a4eaf
cop stash said:
Another thing I would like to bring up. How do you feel about the media’s portrayal of men in recent years. It seems that on many shows, men are being portrayed as lazy, fat and unbelievably stupid men with beautiful, perfect, intelligent wives who kindly and patiently accept all of thier flaws. Shows that immediantly come to mind are Family Guy (awesome show), King of Queens, and the movie Knocked Up. I feel personaly that this is unfair - even though often very funny.
None of it is at all funny. It all Anglo-Saxon ‘Princesses on Pedestals’ repressive horse-****. If more women were made to ‘bite the kerb’, this world would be a better place.
http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com/greatness-comes-in-inches/comment-page-2/#comments
The above was taken from that menarebetterthanwomen site and I see the same sentiment expressed here quite often.
When I've pointed out that the various shows are produced, directed, written and distributed mostly by men, the comments get thumbed down.
- but it's a fact.
Knocked Up:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0478311/fullcredits
King of Queens - 426 episodes; 77 written by females.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0165581/combined
Family Guy:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0385690/fullcredits#writers
So if men don't like the way they are being portrayed, why not take OTHER men to task instead of dumping their angst on women - usually feminists .
Daboys - explain how it's our fault.
Why not have a crack at the men who are in control of the portrayals?
Nutless ?
Yes Gadg - it's a shocking bloody site. Full of hatred; people saying women should die and all of that. A disgrace.
Thanks for the responses, but Douchey and Yaar, you don't say why MEN are not being condemned for portraying men in these stupid ways.
It's nothing to do with feminism and there is no reason why we should cop the blame because you all won't challenge each other. If you don't like how masculinity is shown - why are you not saying something about it to OTHER men ? (and someone saying women should die because of it? )
Apart from the men here giving each other TU - can the people visiting and also giving them TU - explain why you are in denial about MEN being responsible for how your portray yourselves. Are you all so irrational that you refuse to consider plain evidence that members of your own sex are screwing you over?
daboys and Guns et. al - Noooo - we are still in denial aren't we. Take out any reference to women - focus on the people concerned with: (1) creating the images (those are male) and (2) the people who disapprove of them (according to the hateful post - at least some are male). Why do you men not have the courage to criticize men who are profiting at your expense.
Daboys - so instead of tackling other men head on; it's so much easier to support notions that women should be killed as punishment for how men are portrayed.
Of course they have a choice - they can choose not to profit at your expense.
So Guns, if all that is needed is to protest the networks, why are men not doing that (instead of urging each other to kill women) ... Why not start a good rousing campaign right now. I would support it and I am sure other feminists would too.
Pressured?? By whom? Prove it.
They are still making money off it and that would change if enough of you wanted to address it properly.