would you take a girl seriously if she slept with you the second time you see her.
I met this guy in the club. When I was getting my car my cousin started talking to his friend and i ended talking to him. We kick it in his house. Then he call me again by the second day he said hi how are you doing blah blah oh i kiss him the first time, Then I saw him again at the club We went to his house and i slept with him and his Friends notice everyone did.
But I actually like this guy. Would you take someone seriouse if that was you. Or you would say what a hoe or slut.
Jesse's Girl2008-08-22T16:21:31Z
It shouldn't matter if there is mutual interest, I would keep things casual for a bit but be open about your feelings. I actually slept with my bf the second time we met (which now when I look back was kind of crazy!) but today is our 6 year anniversary!! I felt awkward about being up front with him about my feelings since things moved so fast but he told me he felt the same way and we just went on from there, I guess some things are just meant to be
OK, listen up. I had the same problem. I used to feel that I like the guy and then somehow wind up sleeping with him a couple of days later. What I realized from this is that guys will not take you seriously. They will think that you are a hoe and that you will give it up to anyone. They will believe that you will do this with anyone and it's not just him. Ive learned that you should wait at least a couple of weeks to a month.(for ppl like me who really can't wait.lol) You know get to know him a little. You don't want them to think that's the way you say hello. ;-) hope I helped.
Sounds like you answered your own question. If you are asking it you already feel you are. I wouldn't sleep with someone I just met. To me that is a much more serious thing and if he slept with you on the second date, how many other women has he slept with. You might want to get checked.