Ok I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. Right now, I don't feel like dating, and I'm just taking some well deserved "me" time.
The thing is...for some reason...everywhere I go, I get asked out!! I went to my regular karaoke bar dressed in a tshirt, no makeup, and my hair thrown back, and i was asked out by 3 guys...i do nothing to flirt with them...I'm friendly but only when they approach me. I don't treat them any differently than i treat anyone else.
I'm honestly starting to think I must be omitting this hormone that is driving guys crazy or something. It's so weird!!
Anyone else have this happen to them?
2008-10-17T11:22:48Z
Currently, there are 6 guys who are after me. 2 of them are ex boyfriends.
Ahhhh lemme alone!!
TacoMagic2008-10-17T11:25:11Z
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Have them all drop their pants and do a visual comparison.
You aren't under pressure to look/act attractive to men. You are being yourself and that is the sexiest thing in a guy's eyes (go figure, they like it more when we don't try to hook them then when we flatter them?).
Keep this up. I mean, whne the right guy comes along, you'll just know and then you will get out of the whole attitude that you don't want to date, and voila, you will have a guy right there waiting for you.
Its probably becuase you are eluding confidence. You are independant and that is one of the things that people find really attractive. When you look for things you cant find them, and when you arent in a position for your heart to accept people, they see you!
Take some time to papmer yourself, enjoy your company. If the right guy comes along, then he will see you just want a firend at the moment, and stick around and support you. He will wait for you, and he'll be worth it.
I have always heard when you are not looking for it, they will come running. It must be the vibe that is being sent out, maybe they like the challenge instead of it being handed over to them on a silver platter.
its because all guys want is one thing when their out. so do the math those 3 guys probably approached every girl in the bar they felt that they had a chance of getting with.