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Ok I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago. Right now, I don't feel like dating, and I'm just taking some well deserved "me" time.
The thing is...for some reason...everywhere I go, I get asked out!! I went to my regular karaoke bar dressed in a tshirt, no makeup, and my hair thrown back, and i was asked out by 3 guys...i do nothing to flirt with them...I'm friendly but only when they approach me. I don't treat them any differently than i treat anyone else.
I'm honestly starting to think I must be omitting this hormone that is driving guys crazy or something. It's so weird!!
Anyone else have this happen to them?
Currently, there are 6 guys who are after me. 2 of them are ex boyfriends.
Ahhhh lemme alone!!
15 Answers
- 1 decade ago
You aren't under pressure to look/act attractive to men. You are being yourself and that is the sexiest thing in a guy's eyes (go figure, they like it more when we don't try to hook them then when we flatter them?).
Keep this up. I mean, whne the right guy comes along, you'll just know and then you will get out of the whole attitude that you don't want to date, and voila, you will have a guy right there waiting for you.
- 1 decade ago
Its probably becuase you are eluding confidence. You are independant and that is one of the things that people find really attractive. When you look for things you cant find them, and when you arent in a position for your heart to accept people, they see you!
Take some time to papmer yourself, enjoy your company. If the right guy comes along, then he will see you just want a firend at the moment, and stick around and support you. He will wait for you, and he'll be worth it.
- 1 decade ago
I have always heard when you are not looking for it, they will come running. It must be the vibe that is being sent out, maybe they like the challenge instead of it being handed over to them on a silver platter.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
its because all guys want is one thing when their out. so do the math those 3 guys probably approached every girl in the bar they felt that they had a chance of getting with.
- 1 decade ago
show off... lol jk
happens all the time. for some reason guys like that natural look i guess. when im looking my worst is when i seem to get hit on the most.. i solve the problem by hanging on my bfs arm lol but seeing how u dont have one, just ignore everyone i guess. but guys will be dogs no matter how mush you push them away
- Anonymous1 decade ago
If you want quality time for yourself, just be honest to these guys and tell them straight up that you are not interested right now. That u would prefer to be left alone.
- 1 decade ago
Hmm...maybe you should just have some one night stands with each of them and figure out who is best
- Lah Lee:)Lv 41 decade ago
haha
me too.
in the same problem..
but some of the guys who are asking me out are really crepy..
i dont think its you..
mabey is boys in general.
hope this helps
- 1 decade ago
I ABSOLUTELY know what you're talking about... i'm in the same boat!!! i just wanna go out and have fun with my girls and guys just wont leave us alone!
we just let off some kind of radar that says... "YOU CANT HAVE ME" and they want us even more... lol one of the 8th wonders i'd say
