Would you say that people have a different perspective from how your relationship is behind close doors?

Of course the public face we present differs from how we present ourselves among intimates. What is private and personal is generally best kept private and personal, yes? That you feel bloated or peevish may be something your dear sweetheart is interested in, but you don't want to share that with everyone. Nor do you necessarily feel comfortable eating ice cream right out of the carton in front of company.