I was at a restaurant tonight. I was catching up on some e-mails on my phone. The hostess was pretty friendly, asking me some questions. Then after I ordered and had my food brought over, she came by a few times to ask how was the food she recommended. As she passed me by each time she'd rub my back. Is that being too friendly or normal?
Caitlyn.
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Yeah, rubbing someone's back a few times isn't normal on the job, haha.
celestial130
depends on how old you are and how old she is. If you're young and she's an older woman, could have been just extra friendly (although rubbing your back each time she passed you is a bit much). I wouldn't worry about it. Are you trying to figure this out to see if she's interested? If that's the case, then go back to the restaurant and try to hook up, maybe reciprocate with a back rub :)
Anonymous
I'm sure you misconstrued the situation, a pat on the back is normal and friendly, now if she gave you a kiss on the back then that would be an entirely different story.
Jake C
Her rubbing your back each time is where it gets a little overly friendly
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I think if you'd gotten the happy ending, THAT would've crossed the line, but some waitresses are just being friendly.