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Was she being too friendly?

I was at a restaurant tonight. I was catching up on some e-mails on my phone. The hostess was pretty friendly, asking me some questions. Then after I ordered and had my food brought over, she came by a few times to ask how was the food she recommended. As she passed me by each time she'd rub my back. Is that being too friendly or normal?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yeah, rubbing someone's back a few times isn't normal on the job, haha.

  • 1 decade ago

    depends on how old you are and how old she is. If you're young and she's an older woman, could have been just extra friendly (although rubbing your back each time she passed you is a bit much). I wouldn't worry about it. Are you trying to figure this out to see if she's interested? If that's the case, then go back to the restaurant and try to hook up, maybe reciprocate with a back rub :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm sure you misconstrued the situation, a pat on the back is normal and friendly, now if she gave you a kiss on the back then that would be an entirely different story.

  • 1 decade ago

    Her rubbing your back each time is where it gets a little overly friendly

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think if you'd gotten the happy ending, THAT would've crossed the line, but some waitresses are just being friendly.

  • AMAYA!
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Depends, if she was kinda old, maybe in her 50's or 60's, i wouldnt really think anything of it. Old people are almost always nice lol, especially waiters.

    But if she was younger around 30 or so (or younger) then i would think she was either hitting on your or just plain weird.

    lol hope i helped

  • 1 decade ago

    I had that same thing happen to me at the diner/strip club I go to. Weird.

  • 1 decade ago

    That would make me uncomfortable. She's still a stranger. Unless, of course, you were rubbing her, then it's O.K.

  • 1 decade ago

    normal... except the touching part! sue her for alll those tips she gets! then say "heres a tip, leave me da **** alone next time"

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    she probably did somthing wrong in the last order and wanted to make for it

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