Why do the majority of women play up or rely on their sexuality or physical looks when trying to attract men?
// Why also do the 'majority' of women stress that sex should take a backseat in the priorities of a relationship- and many times it should "wait" ?
-- aren't these tactics in discord?
2008-12-18T14:07:42Z
_ _ _ _ _ For you eggheads out there, consider this-
'The main reason I even talked to you is because you looked good and played up your physical/sexual attributes--- now we get into a relationship and you're telling me I should "wait" and that sex shouldn't be a priority? What the hell kind of sense does that make?'
2008-12-18T14:14:46Z
________ I wouldn't walk around with a bulge in my pants hinting to women how good I was in bed-- then as soon as they get into a relationship with me, change it around on her and start talking about "I want to wait!!, I never actually wanted to have sex so soon- I just used this to attract you to my silly *** game!! Sorry."
Jade Says2008-12-18T14:09:35Z
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How can they be in discord? Physical attraction is necessary in deciding who you MIGHT want to be with. Physical attraction alone is not enough to make us want to be in a relationship though, not even a sexual one.
If I don't like you I am not going to f*ck you, no matter how hot you are. There has to be a meeting of the minds and some degree of compatability but you won't know that when you first lay eyes on someone. Why is that basic concept so elusive to you?
Unless you are dating virgins or new mothers I don't believe you are having so much trouble finding women who want sex on a regular basis. We all want it and we want it often. Maybe you are the world's worst lover, which all evidence seems to be pointing at, since none of your girlfriends will have sex with you.
Because they don't have anything else to offer and are completely ridiculous. No common sense, respect or dignity.
Obvious no open and honest communication either.
There are a lot of attractive people and it's unfair for their looks to automatically be put into some stereotypical story you have here - just because they come off beautiful doesn't automatically mean they want sex.
If they play on their looks, then yeah - it's stupid for them to think that they didn't know people saw them or wanted to get more.
It's a game and if the rules aren't established at the beginning, then someone will always lose.
Just don't freakin' go around looking for "sexy" people and EXPECT them to give out. And all these game players with alternative motives have it coming to them.....
You can't POSSIBLY HOPE to entertain some sort of serious relationship with a woman when you regard her as only some type of receptacle for your genetic material! Sir, even if you are physically attracted, you still must discover the inner essence of a woman as human being. Besides, when you rush to fast into the physical you can't even appreciate the mental or spiritual part of someone. And you know what, the physical part always wanes. You need an emotional, mental, spiritual connection with strong, open communication because during those times when you and her aren't sexin' it up, what are going to say to keep her around??? Just a thought. Good luck!
"The main reason I even talked to you is because you looked good and played up your physical/sexual attributes--- now we get into a relationship and you're telling me I should "wait" and that sex shouldn't be a priority?"
Male desperation for sex sure brings out their ugly personality traits in some men, don't it?