Why can't scene kids stop calling it "gauging" and learn to stretch their piercings properly?

Seriously. I see so many people with scar tissue exploding out of the back of their lobes because they wanted to stretch to 00g over the summer. When are they going to learn that this is a delicate process that takes patience if you want respectable looking ears? And why are they so infatuated with who has the largest size? Comparing theirs to each others every second they get? It's sickening.

?2009-09-02T00:21:18Z

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Thank you times a million! I get so frustrated with the kids coming on here with blood dripping onto their shoulders and they're like, "yeah, so I've been putting Neosporin on my gauges because I think I tore something when I went from a 14g to a 2g this weekend. I'm hardcorezzz I know...anyway, so do you think it's okay if I gauge to like 1/2" by the end of the week so long as I use the peroxide and ointment to prevent infection?"

Or the kids who, when you just know from their description have a blowout and you tell them to drastically downsize, they're like "eff that. I worked hard gauging from a 16 to a 00 in two weeks!" I think the worst was the kid several of us told it was a bad idea that he went from 12 to a 4 in one felled swoop (who, incidentally, was posting here because he had worn his tapers all weekend and couldn't get them out because blood and pus was stuck all over them) he said, "OMG STFU the guy at Hot Topic said it would be safe if I wore the tapers for a couple of days!" Since when did the kids who fold t-shirts at the goth shop become professional piercers or experts on stretching? I swear, sometimes I feel like when I try and give good advice to these kids it's like pissin' into the wind, you know?

But yeah, one day when they split their earlobes wide open or the tissue has necrotized and their earlobes are black from all of the dead skin from bad stretching, maybe they'll think back and realize people online (whom they assumed were just dumb old grown ups ruining their fun) may have been on to something.

Anonymous2009-09-02T01:56:54Z

ignorance seems to be big with the scenes nowadays -_-

idk why 00g seems like a large size to alot of kids
but really its not

alot fo scene//fashiooncore kids do it for one reason and one reason only FASHION they could care less behind the history behind stretching and the patience it takes

they know nothing about body modification except that if they "gauge" there ears there somewhat more fashionable than the next scenieweenie

these are the kids who think only stretched lobes look good and rant about how labret stretching or any other form of stretching to any other piercing besides lobes is disgusting

ℓάced2009-09-01T23:55:48Z

I talked with someone on here before about this... Apparently "gauging" sounds cooler than stretching. I wanted to cry. People never learn. You can give them all the good advice you want, but at the end of the day, it's their ears to screw up. It's going to be interesting 20 years from now how the plastic surgery market sky rockets from kids being careless.

I haven't seen kids comparing ears yet, but that really doesn't surprise me.

Jeremy2015-04-04T23:58:36Z

I gauged my ears from a 8 gauge to a 00 gauge in about 4 weeks like a boss.
#nonconformist #idrinkcoffee

?2009-09-02T05:36:30Z

Not only scene kids call it gauging, I've heard lots of ppl calling it that. It seems to be like getting your ears pierced now...
And I agree, I've seen a lot of kids with nasty ear lobes running around. But, some have no patience and little knowledge about it before they jump in and do it.

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