and the most important thing... people are always confused whether if this is the right person... y people are scared of commitments... I am confused soul as well.. I m sure there are many around going through the same...
Anonymous
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Passion often blinds judgment.
Finding "the one" is elusive and scary. I believe that our ability to DEAL with the inevitable changes we all go through is more important than the pluses and minuses that every person has.
He may be great at this and gorgeous, etc. You may think he is "perfect" but the most desire able quality is going to be his ability to roll with the punches and cope with the changes in your and in himself.
Jack is Lord
Honestly, if people really knew, would the divorce rate be so high? Marriage is the ultimate crap shoot, people can change overnight. I know a woman with the worst marriage possible. I asked her when did it start to go wrong? She said the wedding night. She's still married to the guy 26 years later.
Cliff R
Time, conversation, getting to know each other, dating, in other words take your time. Rushed into relationships are usually the ones that are doomed.
Sure I believe in love at first sight. But once I have that feeling within me I like to take my time to be sure.
A guy interested will always give signs. You have to interpret them as genuine or sexual. Does he just want to get into your pants or is he looking for a long lasting relationship? To find out take your time.
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When he wants to go camping (and pitches a tent) you'll know he is genuinely interested.
Anonymous
There pretty much is no right person.
Just do whatever.
Have fun